We have been dating for three weeks. He was supposed to come over after the game and he never showed up. Did he break up with me?
2007-02-05 03:27:51 · 19 answers · asked by jennifer h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call the coastguard... no, no, make it the marines!!!
2007-02-05 03:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Oliver T 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't make any assumptions. Wait until you get a chance to talk. It could be that there was an emergency or that you two had some sort of miscommunication (perhaps he didn't see it as a firm "date"). You will know more once you talk to him.
Don't "jump" on him when you talk. Just ask . . "Hey, I thought you were coming over last night after the game. What happened?" Then listen and pay attention. If you aren't sure about his answer, then ask and listen some more.
A warning . . . you seem a little self-focused. His not coming may not even be about you. My first thought would have been "I hope he's all right and that nothing happened to him" before I would think "Is he dumping me?" For the health and future of your relationship with him (or anyone else), focus on learning to think about the other person first. It doesn't come naturally but takes some effort and practice.
2007-02-05 03:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you jump to those conclusions you might want to check if he is alright and even made it home. You never know. Now dont call him, just text him saying something cheesy that going to work, for example: "If that the way you breakin up with me then fine. I will be aight. Now i am texting u just to make sure you are safe and nothing happened to you because you just dissapeared. Whatever the reason for this sudden disappearance is please let me him me up sayin that you are fine. I wont ask question. Promise!" That will make him reply to you sayin yea he is fine and he out of jail or hospital or yes i am fine and thats it. Thats the only way you gon find out if it was a covardly break up or he got in trouble and couldnt call or show up.
2007-02-05 03:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing. Wait for him or word from him. What can you do, go hunting for him. He obviously had something happen that prevented him from showing up. Let's hope he is ok.. Say a little prayer and wish him well.. and do not jump into conclusion, he did not break with you, he never showed up for a date.
2007-02-05 03:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume anything until you talk to him... He may have had a family emergency, etc. Wait, before jumping to any conclusions unless this had been a pattern of his.
2007-02-05 03:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he found someone to go to the game and instead left with that person, that tells you alot about that person maybe he just dosen't want to see you anymore, forget and go on with life. or maybe he just got what he wanted and just ran......to get someone else... stop winding find someone better that can treat you like a lady...
2007-02-05 03:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by snnopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just depends, do you see it going somewhere with this guy?? Has he done this before? What was his excuse? If you don't hear from him today or tomorrow, I might consider that the end! Sorry! Good luck!
2007-02-05 03:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by rtutbatt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't jump to conclusions. Try getting a hold of him, and then see what happens. There are so many explanations to this situation.
2007-02-05 03:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
play it cool for today, he might call you at the end of it. if not, try him tomoro to "see if everything is ok". if its a bad reason you heve every right to go mad!
2007-02-05 03:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. he probably just got drunk at an after game party like allot of men did. Call him
2007-02-05 03:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Did you call him to find out? Maybe you should be asking him rather than us.
2007-02-05 03:31:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋