Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

i got engaged and i thought that my GF would al least show me how happy she was by going out to dinner or cooking at home i got nada and all she is doing is running around making plans and not paying attention to me.

2007-02-05 04:13:18 · 7 answers · asked by GRUNT 3 in Singles & Dating

real neat experance's and as to how it worked or what to which way to work and accept it taking things slow at present but hoping as I have change my prevoius ways in dating thinking this is finally more succesfull!

2007-02-05 04:13:04 · 1 answers · asked by David H 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been through alot due to my health and money problems, we dont have the intimacy we once had, he's says he doesnt care like he used to, and that our relationship is over, and he hasn't budged, and he has left (no longer than a day) 3 times in the last two months. We argue all the time but I know that I still want to be with him and I cant stand the thought of not seeing him walk through the door after work or seeing him laugh. I cant imagine going to bed alone every night and missing those times when we joke with each other but he doesnt show any sign that he's going to change his mind, we have been married now for 4 years and we have 2 kids, now both of us said that we wouldnt stay together for the kids because fighting is not a good thing for them. I am afraid that this time is real, and it is tearing my heart out. It started out the reason was because I havent been healthy since we've been married then it turned into us just not getting along.

2007-02-05 04:12:06 · 13 answers · asked by mom_of_two 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or an example of what someone has done for you to express love?

2007-02-05 04:11:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my bff likes this guy that i used to like, but she is hesitant about dating him cuz she thinks i still like him, even tho i kinda do, how can i not let it affect our friendship?

2007-02-05 04:08:52 · 18 answers · asked by sydd vicious. 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 04:08:30 · 9 answers · asked by sardarshah 1 in Friends

what will happen the first time you have S**? Does it hurt. How do I tell my BF that i dont want to so he will stop asking me?

2007-02-05 04:08:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We got into a really bad argument and I want him to know how sorry I really am.

2007-02-05 04:08:01 · 5 answers · asked by angelunawrs 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend doesn't know i know, but i do. SHe likes me in a way i don't like her. I think she likes me b/c my brother doesn't like her...so she thinks if she can't get him, might as well get me...wat should i do?

2007-02-05 04:07:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think that I have made a mistake in that I take on too much responsibility for finances in our marriage. Mostly, in EARNING the finances. I used to not think about it, tending to be somewhat of a workaholic, which also isn't good for the relationship. I make over double the pay that my DH does, but he is a big spender, and somewhat wasteful. I guess I am enabling this. The big problem is he is planning on going on an expensive fishing trip and he wants to purchase a camp trailer, which would be expensive for us. I am thinking about getting a separate bank account and cutting him off from my paycheck. Any advice?

2007-02-05 04:07:14 · 15 answers · asked by zaeli22 3 in Marriage & Divorce

why those selfish conceited egotistical girls are popular?

2007-02-05 04:07:00 · 11 answers · asked by srtá.girly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 04:06:52 · 42 answers · asked by Reural 1 in Singles & Dating

I have not seen my mom in 4 years...have not spoke to her in over 1 year. She has drug issues along with just general life issues - she lives for drama. There is just a long, long history as to why I have cut her out of my life. She is very controling and vindictive as well. I didn't know where she was living - the last I heard she was being kicked out of her house for forclosure. I got a call last night from my grandma (her mom). She is living about 2-3 hours from me and wants to come see my kids. The last communication I got from her was a very nasty letter defending everything she did to me and my kids, blaming it on her problems and how I was an awful daughter. She tells family that she is sorry she wrote it. I don't want to be mean and keep my kids from family, but I don't know if she is sincere. Why won't she call me and ask herself? Why doesn't she apologize to me directly? Is it a bad idea to agree to meet with her?

2007-02-05 04:06:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do guys hate in a girl and tell me a little bit about yourself and why you don't like this in a girl. thanks much love <3

2007-02-05 04:06:32 · 8 answers · asked by Miss you. // ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 04:05:32 · 17 answers · asked by Clarkie 6 in Marriage & Divorce

The ring my girl wants is $16,000. I think thats way too much what do you guys think. I want to get atleast a good quality diamond 1.5 carat

2007-02-05 04:05:12 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am a male escort for females I want to know what it is that would entice you or discourage you from seeking a male companion for platonic accompaniment....

2007-02-05 04:04:50 · 2 answers · asked by Joseph 2 in Singles & Dating

why is it that married people go out and cheat on their spouse and try so hard not to get caught?and when the spouse becomes suspicious they lie about cheating.But they do not want out of their marriages.They try and say everything in the book to get you to believe that they are not cheating.Does this mean that they will leave the affair or what?Do all men/women that cheat still have love for the person that they married?

2007-02-05 04:04:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is there any special way i should ask her? or is there some type of setting we should be in when I ask her this question? Any feedback would be appreciated thanks!

2007-02-05 04:04:03 · 13 answers · asked by Eddie C 2 in Singles & Dating

Here is some background first. This is my first TRUE love and we have/were together for 4 and a half years. We have a 16 month old son. Now here is the problem... We have been going through some tough times and we decided to stop having sex until we get back on track emotionally. Well while we took this "break" he went to someone else to share his emotions and slept with her twice and had oral another time. Then told me that it's my fault cuz i wasn't there for him. (two and a half years ago i slept with someone while we were broken up...but we really were done at that time) And he says part of him doing this was to get back at me and that's another reason it's my fault. We broke up because of this...I mean who wouldn't...but i want to go back and work things out ...i know i can't do it right away..but what about a few months? I'm assuming you will all say i'm stupid for doing so but i guess i just need to hear it. It's so hard cuz we see eachother all the time because of our son..help

2007-02-05 04:03:29 · 34 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-05 04:03:11 · 5 answers · asked by muskaan 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey,

I am engaged but not ready to marry the same guy whom I was in love with. I dont know why it is happening but now small small things and issues look so big to me. I always think negative. I am running away from marriage but I cant keep this within me. I need to tell this to somebody in my family else they'll fix up the dates asap. I dont know how to tell this coz all will feel i am bad and no one will like me, the guy is very gud and he will say bad for me. But I really feel sometimes that he has changed a lot and moreover he is an emotional guy and I am very practical :(

Also, he talks some non veg over the phone which I really dont like.... I dont know why but sometimes I really feel bad when he say all such I cut the phone and say bad abt him but next moment when he feels sorry I am ok.

I am very confused what to do? I cant see him upset that's why I said yes for this but again I can't make him upset. Now I have started thinking about my life also.

2007-02-05 04:02:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 04:02:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

had a major traumatic event in their lives that they had never told you about? Like if it were someone you told almost everything to, and you found out they had this huge secret?

Please, I would like to know how you would feel and how you would react, not how you think I ought to.

2007-02-05 04:02:29 · 7 answers · asked by wonderer152 2 in Friends

I Feel like i dont have a grip on the dating thing. Tips?

2007-02-05 04:02:18 · 6 answers · asked by ~*Lynn*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 04:01:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf and i have talked alot about having sex and the other night we were going to but i chickened out at the last minute and told him i wasnt ready but he kept going. he was like unbuttoning my pants and everything and i finally got him off and told him to go home and its been like a week since,and i havent talked to him and i dont know what to do

2007-02-05 04:01:09 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 04:00:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wedding is on June 2nd of this year. I'm pretty much on track as far as planning and stuff that needs to be done. But I find I'm having nightmares EVERY NIGHT about something that goes wrong with my wedding. It's always different (one I forgot to bring the presents for the bridal party, one I forgot to get the marriage license, one nobody showed up and my wedding was horrible, etc.) Has anyone experienced anything like this, and what do I do? These nightmares are waking me up, and keeping me from falling back to sleep!!

BTW: I am very much in love with my fiance, and though there have been stresses planning, it has gone relatively well. We have been together for almost six years, and this is right in every way.

2007-02-05 04:00:08 · 11 answers · asked by Just tryin' to help 6 in Weddings

I want to make my boyfriends Valentine's Day really special, so i am going to get him a male pr0stitute. He always says he wants to try new things...is this a good idea?

2007-02-05 03:58:58 · 24 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating