so my bff likes this guy that i used to like, but she is hesitant about dating him cuz she thinks i still like him, even tho i kinda do, how can i not let it affect our friendship?
2007-02-05 04:08:52 · 18 answers · asked by sydd vicious. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be honest with her. If her and him are meant to be together, you can't stand in her way. You would want what's best for her and she should want the same for you. If you really have feelings for this guy, you need to tell this guy. Then if he decides that he wants to be with her, you have to respect that and move on. And why would you want a guy who doesn't want you? Be happy for her as best you can...eventually whatever crush you have will go away.
2007-02-05 04:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by skybelle24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how this could NOT affect your friendship! If your friend knows you like this guy she is right to stay away from him. You should be honest with her. If she decides to date him anyway, she isn't much of a friend.
2007-02-05 12:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by Renee D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sacrifice your love for him like they do in bollywood movies. JK. For real, if you two never dated then I think it's okay for your friend to date this guy. You have to put your feelings aside and realize that it just wasnt meant to be. Move on.. You also have to realize to NEVER let any guy come in between you and your friends. Friendship always prevails in every single circumstance.
2007-02-05 12:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by cuteami78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I invited a friend to a birthday of another friend and my best friend saw here. He thought she was really hott. I invited this friend to my birthday were my best friend was. We played spin the bottle and they kissed, they ended up maing out w/out telling any1 but me. I like my best friend alot and he doesn't know, I guess it depends on who this guy likes, if he likes you make the choice bu if he likes your friend... friendships are also sacrifices sometimes in disquise!
2007-02-05 12:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not let any one get in the way of a long lasting friendship. Maybe you two could offer 3some to the guy? (Wish I'm that guy!)
2007-02-05 12:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by Edward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.....THREESOME
no ,seriously, if you are over him,
then let him go.
boys come and go
but friends are forever.
i hope that whatever you feel that you are completely honest with her
because if you tell her to date him,
but you still like him,
you will resent her
no guy is worth losing your friend over
i know that there is not a solution or even advice in my answer.
you just need to really think about what you want and what you want for her
go from there...
GOOD LUCK
2007-02-05 12:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't really care about him anymore, let her know to go for it, but if you kind of still like him, then talk to her, and tell her it would hurt you if she went out with him.
But keep in mind that they could be soul mate, so leave your ego on the side!!!
2007-02-05 12:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, either you tell her that you don't like him and that it is okay that she go after him or you tell her that you still do like him and see what the best option for the both of you is.
Don't seem too complicated. You are going to have to at least address the subject with your friend.
2007-02-05 12:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by Tedo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend just dont step on each other's toes like that. Talk to her and tell her how you are feeling. If you keep quiet, you could watch something unravel that you would not want to see! Talk to her! Tell her that it would bother you if she proceeded to date the guy.
2007-02-05 12:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by bgsfnstldy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a relationship is between two persons, you and your target. Tell your friend about your feelings. The target has to decide if he or she will like you or your friend.
2007-02-05 12:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Entenda a História 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋