Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

I was in a relationship with a man from work, we were together in 2005, I ended the relationship in December of that year because I found out he was in relationships with two other women, and I knew both of them. I confronted him about it and of course he denied it. He had the nerve to tell me he wanted us to remain friends and of course I told him hell no. Afterwards he would continue to call my home and cell phones, e-mail me. I got a job working somewhere else, and he would try to find out where I am, but I didn't give any info. I changed my home and phone numbers as well as my e-mail address, but somehow he managed to get the numbers. I have gotten very rude with him and told him not to contact me anymore, I have written letters to say the same, and he is not getting it. I have not contacted him since the relationship ended, I have left him alone, but he still bothers me. He also bothers my former co-workers, asking them questions of where I work. What shall I do about this dummy?

2007-02-05 04:52:52 · 17 answers · asked by Celie 2 in Friends

People don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care.

2007-02-05 04:52:22 · 13 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this girl once (I'm 20 and it's the only date I've ever been on), and she really liked me at first. However, I did not do too well being an exciting person to talk to. She didn't call me for a couple days (I left messages, even though she said her phone had been acting wierd), and we kinda just stopped talking 2 weeks ago. I was cool at first, but now after seeing her at work (we work together once a week) I feel terrible about the situation and I feel like a jerk. How would you feel about that ladies? I'm planning on apologising, or at least trying to over the phone (I have no way to meet her in person without coming into work which would be inappropriate). If not I'm writing her a card or a letter.

2007-02-05 04:50:44 · 12 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

On my dads side of the family alone I have 5 aunts and uncles (plus their spouses), and with all of them I have come to have 18 cousins (who all but 3 have spouses), and 12 of them have children and they all live out of state so not having kids at my wedding is not an option... I WANT A SMALL WEDDING!!!!! How do I go about only inviting the family members I am VERY close to and speak with on a regular basis without hurting everyone elses feelings?

2007-02-05 04:50:29 · 24 answers · asked by ChrissyBar 2 in Weddings

I don't want to have my franks and beans being messed with by a doctor.

2007-02-05 04:50:26 · 5 answers · asked by dank_vile 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I went out with this girl once (I'm 20 and it's the only date I've ever been on), and she really liked me at first. However, I did not do too well being an exciting person to talk to. She didn't call me for a couple days (I left messages, even though she said her phone had been acting wierd), and we kinda just stopped talking 2 weeks ago. I was cool at first, but now after seeing her at work (we work together once a week) I feel terrible about the situation and I feel like a jerk. How would you feel about that ladies? I'm planning on apologising, or at least trying to over the phone (I have no way to meet her in person without coming into work which would be inappropriate). If not I'm writing her a card or a letter.

2007-02-05 04:50:14 · 1 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

I need to find a way to get rid on someone who is a complete idiot and is always bringing my dow. He also thinks that what ever he does is ok.

2007-02-05 04:48:57 · 12 answers · asked by susie71 1 in Singles & Dating

who do u think would be ur best love life when u get married??

2007-02-05 04:48:53 · 4 answers · asked by Meg* 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 16

2007-02-05 04:48:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 04:48:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It started off as fun...chatting to a guy, and texting, we exchanged pics, he wanted to meet but I turned him down..he is 20 years younger than me, so why he is alone all the time I dont understand. Anyway, it has become boring now, he isnt interested in talking he just gets off on my voice.....so I deleted his number and ignore his texts. But on Saturday he text me, so i replied.....how I wish I hadn't.... I told him to leave me alone...he went mad.... asking if my husband knows i text other men...asking if my daughter does....he doesnt have my address or home number but i feel so threatened by him..He text yesterday I just deleted them.

2007-02-05 04:48:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am just wondering if i can sue my ex husband, i loan him this money while we were still married, but I already told him that this is a loan, and he agree with it, he promise me he would return. After 2 years, we were divorced, I asked him to return the loan for me, he wrote back to me from email couple times told me that he will returning the money to me, but which he never did, so if i have the copy of those emails, is that consider a prove and evidence even he never wrote a promisary notes? The loan is $2700 plus a veichle which the title sitll on his name, but i also have prove of the email he send to me that he also owe me the veichle, and he will change the title to my name, will this consider consider prove and evidence? or the veichle name still under his name, so that won't consider a gift to me? if i can prove that he promise to change the title to my name because it was a gift from him, will i win?

Thanks alot for answering all the questions!!

2007-02-05 04:47:27 · 19 answers · asked by dayme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I thought treating them well is what they looking for. I try to make a girl happy, but in the end, she broke my heart and said I am not what she looking for.

2007-02-05 04:47:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok...Uhmm.I am in 9th grade and go to a very,very small highschool [300- kids]. I have more senior guy friends than I do 9th grade friends. Every weekend I'm hanging out with atleast 1 of them. We go to the mall, they come to my soccer games, I go over to their house, vice versa. If you were to see a 9th grade girl in the mall with a senior boy..What would you honestly think?

2007-02-05 04:47:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For example you see someone attractive at the mall, school, etc, but she is a total stranger to you. how would you ask for a date?

2007-02-05 04:46:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one of my older sisters just remarried after just a short divorce of only one year.she was married the first time for 24yrs.she met this guy over the internate from morraco,he,s arrabian,knows no english.he seems ok,but i just have my doughts cause she,s 45yrs and he,s only 30yrs.she has a great job that pays well and owns her own place and car.but we all figure she,s a grown up,i still think he,s taking advantage of her maybe to even become a citicen.should i worry or not?maybe i should let it go and wish her the best,i just don,t want her to get hurt in the long run.

2007-02-05 04:46:32 · 7 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy at my youth group.
He is absolutley gorgeous
I really like him and want him to like me too
I heard he likes girls with the same intrests as him and we have quite a few
He liked my best friend for a little until he found out shes seeing someone
I was hurt, but still like him alot
My friend told him i liked him and he said he'll see in the summer cuz hes going to be super busy with work and stuff. What can i do to make him see that i really want him? i really want him.

2007-02-05 04:45:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 04:45:23 · 6 answers · asked by msoutherngirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy that's a really good guy friend of mine. His birthday is February 14th. Throughout his adult life he's never really had a birthday because he always made the day about valentines for the ones he's with. He's single this year so how can I show him a good birthday? I have an awesome present but need some ideas on what to do. It seems like no matter what I choose, it will somehow be associated with Valentines Day. Other couples will all be out to dinner, movies, etc.

HELP!

2007-02-05 04:45:23 · 15 answers · asked by heatherlc02 2 in Singles & Dating

grlz... if ur man said that he stayed up till 6 am talking to a freind who is a grl would u get mad?
guyz... if this happpend n u stayed up this late but u confessed it to ur grl would u b mad if ur grl asked u if there was something going on?

2007-02-05 04:44:52 · 25 answers · asked by SofaKingBored23 2 in Singles & Dating

I do she is so mean she even threated me

2007-02-05 04:44:01 · 7 answers · asked by schoolmonkeys11 1 in Family

feelings

2007-02-05 04:43:53 · 22 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

i had a dream that my bf was in the dominican republic, and he was having sex with another woman....he also told me in my dream that he had sex with this woman....what does that mean?

2007-02-05 04:43:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-05 04:43:45 · 1 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife posts questions on here a lot since she found out about my affair last year. This bothers me because so many people on here seem not to support her decision to stay with me and work on our marriage. They tell her once a cheat, always a cheat. I can honestly tell you cheating is something I NEVER thought I would do, and I really cannot give you a good reason I did it last year, maybe because I wasso far awy from my family for so long and depressed from working so far away from home in depresing hurricane area, and my wife was depressed and we just seemed to argue on the phone all the time. I was stupid, selfish I can honestly tell you I will NEVER cheat on her again, and will try my best to make it up to her. She claims not to read too much into what the people say on here but I know some of it sticks in her mind, I was just wondering if anyone has worked out a maariage after an affair. I know I deserve any bashing I get, I accept that, but I love my wife and ...(cont)

2007-02-05 04:43:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know most guys wont let a gurl know when your cheating on them. but i really love this guy and i want to know if he's cheating on me. how will he act towards me. (especially after we've been in alot of arguments)

2007-02-05 04:42:45 · 4 answers · asked by ~Jayda~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm about to be 19, and possibly be having sex soon.. Just want some insights into how your experience was.

Open to guys and girls! :)

2007-02-05 04:42:41 · 16 answers · asked by Confuzzled 1 in Singles & Dating

I live with Mom--she's 60, works full-time, and owns our childhood home. She has many friends, but is single since divorcing Dad in 1983 and says she's content to stay that way. I live there with my 16-year-old daughter, and have been there since 1997 when hubby took off.

I asked Mom: what if Mr. Right shows up and we get our own house, etc? Her answer, in all seriousness, "I'm moving in with you, of course."

I know she's taken care of me all these years, and I DO appreciate it, but if I leave-and-cleave, I DON'T want Momma along for the ride. She is fully capable of caring for herself, and was before I moved in. She admits she just "doesn't want to be alone." When she WAS alone, she had a series of bad boyfriends, and was living with one guy for over 15 years before I moved back home.

I'm afraid if I DO move out, she'll have another bad relationship, just so she doesn't have to be ALONE. She won't admit she has a problem and get help for it, and she feels that I "owe it to her" after she took care of me for so long.

Is it my responsibility to take care of my mother EMOTIONALLY? I'm 37, and I don't want to wait until Mom's gone to start seeking my own happiness.

2007-02-05 04:42:10 · 8 answers · asked by SapphireLounge213 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend whom I knew since I was 1month old is acting like something she is not,whenever her*so called friends*or relatives are around she pays no attention to me,but than when i'm alone with her,she keeps on reasuring me that i'm her best friend,but I feel as if she is being fake with me I don't even know who she is anymore this has been going on for awhile and I don't know what do or say,can someone please help me?

2007-02-05 04:40:22 · 13 answers · asked by Viol3t 2 in Singles & Dating

and is an orgasm different from a chick c*mming?

2007-02-05 04:39:39 · 14 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating