Ladies, how would you feel....?

Question

I went out with this girl once (I'm 20 and it's the only date I've ever been on), and she really liked me at first. However, I did not do too well being an exciting person to talk to. She didn't call me for a couple days (I left messages, even though she said her phone had been acting wierd), and we kinda just stopped talking 2 weeks ago. I was cool at first, but now after seeing her at work (we work together once a week) I feel terrible about the situation and I feel like a jerk. How would you feel about that ladies? I'm planning on apologising, or at least trying to over the phone (I have no way to meet her in person without coming into work which would be inappropriate). If not I'm writing her a card or a letter.

Answer 1

were u nervous or what??

Answer 2

That may depend on you; do you feel like you like her enough to go out with her again?

I don't want to upset you, but it may look like she does not seem to be that into you.. I guess first impressions can affect a person's opinion, though a better second impression can erase the first!

If you thought that you weren’t that talkative or "exciting", try one more time to talk to her, just to show her what she's missing out on :) show her there is more to you..

Only if you feel she's worth the effort..

Answer 3

well tota its not all your fault jst tell her you are sorry to hav bothered her but then u enjoyed urself & then walk away,she is the 1 who was inconsiderate cuz its wrong to not talk to or call,nor even answer a call from sm1 you hav gone on a date with even though u know it wouldnt work,out of formality,but then since she was a jerk u can apologise & get on with your life.u are sure to have loadsof fun,dont let dis 1 get u down dear.

Answer 4

I would let it go. I'm sure it seems like a big deal because you don't have too much experience with women, but it really isn't. Most people go on dates with lots of guys or girls before they find the right person they feel comfortable with and who is just right for them. If she was just right for you, you'd know.

Answer 5

tell her you need to talk to her in private and tell her the whole truth and maybe she will give you a second chance. If you make it on a second date and are totaly nervous try interesting facts just not too many. Ask about her, try things like wow i love that ____ (bracelet, necklace etc.) where did you get it from. something along those lines. she will adore you if you notice those kinds of things.

Answer 6

Dude, just go for another girl, u did all u can do, if she liked u she would've talked to u by now. Dont be srry for anything go out there and get urself another girl!!

Answer 7

I hate to break it to you dude, but she's not interested.

The more you try to push communication with her, the farther you are going to push her away.

Be polite to her when you see her at work, but you shouldn't persue it any farther than that.

Answer 8

id say find out her interests and try to connect with that, to start conversations. what are you apologizing for? sometimes things just dont work out and you have to accept that, but i would try again, to see if thats true.

Answer 9

back off, shes not interested. you seem like a sweet guy move on you'll meet somone who does find you interesting its not worth groveling shes obviously not bothered. i know its not nice hearing it but youve got to let go.

Answer 10

definately appologize in person! i would not accept one over the phone, that's inappropriate.

Answer 11

Well if ya'll been talkin and the excitement was there @ first then WAT HAPPEN!! lol mayb she feels like u just wasn't interested in her or akward tell her how u feel and that you have no idea wats going on c wat happen from there