Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

As I have mentioned before my ex-husband and I had decided to seperate due to being 2 different people. This was about a year and a half ago. Since the beginning of this year we have been spending a lot of time together and doing things as a family. We take our boys to the park, visit our families together, or go see family shows together (i.e. Disney on Ice)...he had stated before that we are two way different people and are not compatible.
If he wishes not to be together, why does he make plans for us as if we were together and a happy family? Does he maybe want to work things out? Or what? I dont know whether I should ask him or just keep going along with him....

please help me understand....

2007-02-05 05:16:32 · 8 answers · asked by Jacinda 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

she is 18 and here visiting from england and i really like her the times we have been together(4) we have talked alot, she has smiled alot and laughed when we have been together we bothhave alot of fun when we are together and she has talked about how we will see eachother in the summer again i really like her and want i dont want her to leave and not see her again until the summer and then after the summer i may never see her again for a really long time if at all she is going back in less than 2 weeks what should i do i like her so much that i would do anything for her i would live there if thats what she wants and go to college there and everything else i just dont want her leave with both of us having done nothing

2007-02-05 05:15:31 · 4 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Singles & Dating

I keep seeing it in emails from my workplace...

2007-02-05 05:15:30 · 5 answers · asked by Bill C 1 in Singles & Dating

wel he left country few months before widout telin me but used to cal me .now he came back for few days n left again for da sake of business.he says he loves me alot but he wants to establish himslef.its being more than two years dat we r in dis relation .i feel very insecure that he wil leave me inspite of dat fact im very good looking 21 years old girl and he is above 30 ,an average looking man.he asked this time to lets do court marriage n afterwards we wil tel our parents but we didnt got time in court n next day we got a fuss and a day after dat he left but said me dat he loves me alot n wanna take me wid him n that he wil b back in 2 months .
i love him alot he wants me to be wid him for his moral support but i want a relation.shud i give him the time or do he loves me or time passing wid me.one more thing he never forced me to meet him every second day .we do hv physical terms and we meet once a month.im very much confused wat shud i do .shud move a head or start my new life

2007-02-05 05:15:25 · 2 answers · asked by sabi 2 in Singles & Dating

I am, a very shy, person. Ive only slept with 2 long term boyfriends. Me and my ex broke up in Sept, so thats the last time Ive been with a man. I have this guy friend I like, but I only like him as a friend. Im not attracted to him, yet, I find myself wanting to be with him.

Is this me trying to explore a different side of me, like....me coming out of my shell? Or do I just miss what it feels like to have that passion?

I dont want to sleep with him, cause it will ruin what we have, cause I think he has feelings for me. But, I also, I guess, just, want to be with a man again.

2007-02-05 05:15:20 · 9 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Singles & Dating

:))

2007-02-05 05:14:30 · 5 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I was liking alot we would hang out and have sex as well. But things changed all the sudden he started calling me a loose ***** to his friends. I later found out that he is seeing another girl. I haven't contacted him in a while and he hasn't contacted me either. I am at work right now and I am looking sexy as hell. I just want to walk past his desk and wave and keep it going. I want him to see what he messed up and what he could've had. Is this a good idea?

2007-02-05 05:14:28 · 39 answers · asked by Miss Understood 1 in Singles & Dating

We recently broke up. We broke up on the day of the wedding day. But she did called off the wedding two weeks before. So, during the two weeks, we did not contact each other, because she will not talk to me. Her reason; our family background is different and our personality is different. I am not what she looking for. Is there any way I can prove to her that I am the one for her? We been together for two great years, and want to start a great family with her. Is there any hopes? What do u guys thinks? Please advise!

2007-02-05 05:13:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Below are a few scenarios. Rate them from 1-10 ( 1 being the lowest form of love)

(1)-Miguel and Alma have been dating since the seventh grade. They never dated anyone else. After graduating they get married.
(2)-Dante us married, but attracted to a co-worker.They spend time together and have an affair.But dante doesnt divorce his wife.
(3.)-Anne(21) meets a professor(40) they get along very well. They spend lots of time together and end up getting engaged.
(4)-A woman meets another woman, citing "she is the woman of my dreams"
(5)-Jesus and Ana date for six years but break up because he cheated on her. Ana meets Jordan, six weeks later they get married.
(6)-While in college, Pete and Elvira date. After 8 months Elvira becomes pregnant accidentally. They marry. Because they think it would be best for the child to have a mother and father.
(7)- After meeting in a chatroom, Erin and duke meet. Instantly they feel an attraction, and erin invites him to spend the night.

2007-02-05 05:13:36 · 12 answers · asked by [Glitter*Sniffer] 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-05 05:13:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I don't want it to be too corny or mushy just something to make her feel special..

2007-02-05 05:13:21 · 32 answers · asked by rab333 4 in Weddings

I am getting treatment for this and aim every day to rise above it. However, it comes out when my boyfriend, who says I am the one, are talking. He has a daughter. Wouldn't a man be wary of exposing a child to this kind of thought process? One detail - his wife died 7 years ago because she did not talk about her problems and overdosed on prescription drugs. I appreciate your advice and comments! Thank you.

2007-02-05 05:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by Sincerely84 1 in Singles & Dating

wel he left country few months before widout telin me but used to cal me .now he came back for few days n left again for da sake of business.he says he loves me alot but he wants to establish himslef.its being more than two years dat we r in dis relation .i feel very insecure that he wil leave me inspite of dat fact im very good looking 21 years old girl and he is above 30 ,an average looking man.he asked this time to lets do court marriage n afterwards we wil tel our parents but we didnt got time in court n next day we got a fuss and a day after dat he left but said me dat he loves me alot n wanna take me wid him n that he wil b back in 2 months .
i love him alot he wants me to be wid him for his moral support but i want a relation.shud i give him the time or do he love sme or time passing wid me.one more thing he never forced me to meet him every second day .we do hv physical terms and we meet once a month.im very much confused wat shud i do .shud move a head or start my new life.

2007-02-05 05:12:54 · 12 answers · asked by sabi 2 in Singles & Dating

he knows my bf is wonderful and yet he sticks around hoping upon hope that i will give him a chance one day? knows i will never cheat yet comes around and jumps when i say jump but not attraccted to him

2007-02-05 05:12:31 · 2 answers · asked by Elizabeth Z 2 in Singles & Dating

My b/f say he loves it when I come up and put my arms around him or trace his chest with my fingers b/c a few of his friends like me.
Do anyother guys like this?? Is he using me, or just proud and showing me off??

Is the following true??
He wants you to show your affection towards him, because he wants his friends to see you guys are "so in love". He doesn't want his friends hitting on you. It's a security thing. Jealousy. But all guys feel that way sometimes.

2007-02-05 05:12:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I thought this guy in work liked me showed an interest,remembered stuff, shared family life stories, told me stuff he wouldnt tell everyone, over helpful with work stuff but ive been on work dos and he doesnt seem to go out of his way to speak to me and its me initating it. He is quite shy and so am i so maybe were both sending mixed signals. If hes not interested why is he awkward/nervous round me yet wont make a move on me at dos

2007-02-05 05:12:06 · 15 answers · asked by ludvigjs 1 in Singles & Dating

away permanently. Does anybody know the law, if I were to leave him, would the fact that he has had one child taken away hinder his possiblity of getting full custody? I don't want to lose my kids, I do everything for them, change diapers, feed them.. etc. He doesn't do anything.... Any advice would help... I am just scared of losing them..

2007-02-05 05:11:21 · 7 answers · asked by stephanie2143 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy lives In Alsaka and I live in Texas, Now my question is were do we have the wedding? Beacause i know its going to be hard to have a nice wedding if no one shows up.

2007-02-05 05:11:09 · 17 answers · asked by allisay2008 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 05:11:07 · 13 answers · asked by cutelady 1 in Singles & Dating

I must say that in my entire 9+ years of marriage I have not had fantasies about my husband..... I would say I need to change and find him appealing sexually.

I have many fantasies about other men, celebrities, famous or powerful men. I find men who are strong the most attractive....

My husband now asks me all the time what I am thinking...I have always tried to keep this secret ( my total lack of desire for him) I need some drastic change here...I cannot get a divorce.

Have you had this experience? and No I have never been turned on by him...sex is very important to me but security is more important...well until now...thus this question.

2007-02-05 05:09:38 · 15 answers · asked by Tabor 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 05:09:15 · 12 answers · asked by Rocky 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 05:09:01 · 10 answers · asked by vaughnharvey 1 in Singles & Dating

I see my girls every other weekend, they are 13 and 5. My 5 year old is real attached to me and me as well. But I have been offered a Fed. Job. That will require me to more around 650 miles away. I have spoken to my X. She told me that she and her boyfriend are planning to move to my area in a few years. So I am confused in what I need to do...I don’t want to leave my girls behind, But I also don’t want to loose a opportunity of a life time.

2007-02-05 05:08:53 · 3 answers · asked by bob 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a model my myspace has all my modelin pics and stuff on there it's not too personal it say's i have a bf even though i don't but me and my ex was gonna work things out but it seems like he has an issue wit it so wat do i do i have to have my page for my modelin its agency policy

2007-02-05 05:08:33 · 2 answers · asked by monique b 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a niece who is engaged to be married and has just found out that her fiance' is already married to another woman. He got married and stayed with this woman for less than 30 days. They never got the marriage anulled and he told my niece he was afraid to tell her because he loves her and doesn't want to lose her. She found out because her fiance's mother got a phone call from the long lost wife, and she called my niece and told her.

I have had these two over to my house before, and I know that they love each other. My niece's problem is that she now finds it hard to trust him. They were both in tears over this, but now she wants to call off the wedding. Anyone with serious advice I can give her.

2007-02-05 05:08:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-05 05:07:38 · 2 answers · asked by lilmiss 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-05 05:06:58 · 28 answers · asked by Rocky 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine was married for 5 years and they did everything by the bible-no premarrital sex, no living together before marriage, the whole nine yards, they went to church all the time and were christians. Then one day his wife up and decides she wants a divorce-says she wasnt getting enough attention. He tried everything to get her to stay. Even went to marriage counseling. She wouldn't cooperate, she just wanted to leave. She paid for the divorce and did everything and he wouldn't sign the papers but he signed some papers thinking they were for financial purposes she said and they were actually divorce papers, so she tricked him. They have been divorce for 3 years now. He fills like he is living in sin the rest of his life now. He recently started dating a girl and seems to love her very much. I think she is an angel so to speak cuz he is finally startin to straighten his life back out for this new girl but he is still scared to death about the divorce and dating again.??????????

2007-02-05 05:06:57 · 33 answers · asked by heather 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 05:06:06 · 7 answers · asked by wackiejackie2991 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 05:04:49 · 17 answers · asked by garcia-silas 1 in Singles & Dating