There is this guy that I was liking alot we would hang out and have sex as well. But things changed all the sudden he started calling me a loose ***** to his friends. I later found out that he is seeing another girl. I haven't contacted him in a while and he hasn't contacted me either. I am at work right now and I am looking sexy as hell. I just want to walk past his desk and wave and keep it going. I want him to see what he messed up and what he could've had. Is this a good idea?
2007-02-05 05:14:28 · 39 answers · asked by Miss Understood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well what you did does qualify as loose...so lesson learned and stay away from him.
2007-02-05 05:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by kherome 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps it's not only he who needs to see what he messed up and what he could've had. You need to see it too so that you could learn from your experience and do better next time.
I suggest that next time you choose a guy who likes all of you and not just the sex part.
Both of you messed up. And walking past his desk is not going to do any good for either one of you.
2007-02-05 05:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be....
Instead how about if you get some hunky guy who looks WAY better than him or maybe drives a better car than him and who obviously will treat you as the princess you are - and let him see that.
Or - Send yourself flowers at work signed a secret crush. He'll be wanting you in no time...
But seriously... Don't let a guy talk like that to you. By you hanging around is only confirming your a loose *****, because his friends see how easily you give him the goods.
Men are so dumb!
Thank God there are so many of them to choose from!
2007-02-05 05:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when u 2 hung out, was it just to have sex? or did he genuinely just want to spend time with u?
my guess is, is that if u guyz were friends with benefits or just having casual sex, although u may have had a romantic interest in him, he most likely just thought of it as nothing more then casual sex. if he thought of it this way, then although he is attracted to u, he doesnt have a romantic interest in u.
when u r planning to walk by him, is ur intention:
1a. just to make him think that he messed up?
2a. or to make him dump his girl and decide to go out with u?
1b. he may perhaps think that he messed up, especially if he feels rlly attracted to u when u walk by
2b. since ther was no emotional connection between the 2 of u,
he probly wont want to dump his girl for u
some of my explanation may b completely wrong,
if it is,
fill me in with some more details and ill try to help
2007-02-05 05:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. You got hosed. You can be a total Bi*ch and play around but that just shows he was right in screwing you over. It really doesn't matter, he has someone else. And to be honest, if you are acting this way, he isn't missing out on a thing.
2007-02-05 05:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by behr28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no its not a good idea hello he was usin u for sex which means he only thinks of u as a booty call and he probably thinks ur jusst easy thats why he slept with u what u should do is forget about this loser and move on ur so much better then him!! and hes proabably cheatin on this girl hes dating!!
2007-02-05 06:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by PhotographyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey, but that's just going to make you look desperate.
Don't waste your time on this guy. He obviously doesn't respect you if he calls you names behind your back. If you continue to make advances towards him, he's just going to keep talking trash.
Ignore the loser and move on.
2007-02-05 05:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by violetmal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. If you do....trust me that he´ll just consider you a loose and possive, obssesive h"""" that just doesn't know when to stop. However, if you just ignore him and act like a classy girl nowhere near his space.....he'll want to hunt you down again. Don't you watch Animal Planet on tv?
2007-02-05 05:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by davemg21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET GO.
You crave his attention because a part of you still wants him. Just let go.
He called you such terrible things, AND cheated on you. He disrespected you in the worst ways. Why do you want his good opinion? Who cares if he thinks you are sexy, or regrets letting you go? Stop trying to establish any sort of connection with this guy and move on. Please! (Trust me - I've been there.)
2007-02-05 05:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by fallenangel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. You're playing games. It's probably best not to have casual sex. It just gives the guys a reason to call you those things and trash your rep. Just be you and don't play games.
2007-02-05 05:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope I suggest you leave him alone and what do you mean could of had he already got what he wanted from you and it must of not been that good. I think you should wait to have sex with someone until you are married.
2007-02-05 05:18:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋