wel he left country few months before widout telin me but used to cal me .now he came back for few days n left again for da sake of business.he says he loves me alot but he wants to establish himslef.its being more than two years dat we r in dis relation .i feel very insecure that he wil leave me inspite of dat fact im very good looking 21 years old girl and he is above 30 ,an average looking man.he asked this time to lets do court marriage n afterwards we wil tel our parents but we didnt got time in court n next day we got a fuss and a day after dat he left but said me dat he loves me alot n wanna take me wid him n that he wil b back in 2 months .
i love him alot he wants me to be wid him for his moral support but i want a relation.shud i give him the time or do he loves me or time passing wid me.one more thing he never forced me to meet him every second day .we do hv physical terms and we meet once a month.im very much confused wat shud i do .shud move a head or start my new life
2007-02-05 05:15:25 · 2 answers · asked by sabi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Interesting non-relationship! What is your faith or beliefs? If you claim Christ as your savour, move on! You made a mistake as he did not want to be married by a Priest or Pastor. A man with this kind of commitment is not committed and is most likely not even being faithful! It is logical that he is not. God will forgive you for this mistake in this marriage. Move on before it hurts even more! A man must not put business before his wife and this is what he is doing to you. Your love should mean more to him than his wanderings! You sound like a great lady who wants to be loved and is confused. What he is doing is confusing because he is not loving you, except having the physical with you when he wants to return! That is not love by any ones standards but the devils! Start a new life by getting friends support and not those who are also close friends of his! They would make more confusion! Get your family to support this move and help with your rejecting of this man! He is not worth your time! God bless. Earl
2007-02-05 05:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this. But it sounds like he is playing you. What would be the big deal with just telling your parents and then getting married? He wants to be sneaky about about? That isn't right. After two years he has had his time to establish himself. He should take you with him. Instead he leaves you behind. Again not right. You meet once a month for physical terms? What does he do the rest of the month. Tell him your done with the games and that your moving on. I understand that you love him but his games for kids. He wants his cake and to eat it too. Don't let him. If you force the issue of marriage you can end up were your at now only more unhappy. Move on and find the man out there for you. I know hes looking for you too.
2007-02-05 05:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by misstigeress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋