My b/f say he loves it when I come up and put my arms around him or trace his chest with my fingers b/c a few of his friends like me.
Do anyother guys like this?? Is he using me, or just proud and showing me off??
Is the following true??
He wants you to show your affection towards him, because he wants his friends to see you guys are "so in love". He doesn't want his friends hitting on you. It's a security thing. Jealousy. But all guys feel that way sometimes.
2007-02-05 05:12:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds messed up to me.
2007-02-05 05:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by kherome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really can be either. Only he knows whether he's showing other guys that he's so adorable that a woman is whipped over him OR he may really love it and wants other guys to back off.
Only he knows the answer to that question.
My guess? I think if he was jealous he would show his love and "territory" better if HE dodes on you and puts HIS arms around you protectively. All guys know that , that hat would send a much more clear signal to other guys to stay away. I hope I'm wrong, but knowing the way guys' minds can work, I think he's showing off to other guys that he's irresistable to women, not that your his girl and that they should stay away. He knows how he'd have to do that.
2007-02-05 13:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy when my girl shows her affection towards me in similar ways... it also shows his friends that you're into HIM and not them... It's a bit possessive but you should also take it as a sign of his desire to be with you... I guarantee he gets a bit jealous knowing that his friends are also into you... but if they're really his friends they will back off and support the two of you, or he needs to find "new" friends. To answer your question more, I like it when my girl puts her arm around me or does other small physical signs of affection. I also respond by putting my arm around her and such, maybe play with her hair or something. Of course hugs and kisses...
I can't answer if he's just using you or not accurately because I don't know him.
2007-02-05 13:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it when my wife does it to me anytime. But yes guys do like to show off their woman and do like to show that they are in love. I would say he is proud of you and so happy to be in love with you.
2007-02-05 13:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really just may be that he adores you and is proud to be with you. It makes him happy that you are not embarrassed to be affectionate towards him. I think he loves you.
2007-02-05 13:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think hes using you. i never make my girlfriend do that to me. he just want to show the other guys hes getting some
2007-02-05 13:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by The J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up youll learn in time
2007-02-05 13:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show off yup he is.So use him back works both ways remember.
2007-02-05 13:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he using you
2007-02-05 13:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by airplanes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he is using you, i think that he is proud to show you off to his friends and likes showing his budies that hes not ashamed to love his gf and your not afaid/tentitive to touch and hold him
2007-02-05 13:19:10 · answer #10 · answered by Women Pleaser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋