I thought treating them well is what they looking for. I try to make a girl happy, but in the end, she broke my heart and said I am not what she looking for.
2007-02-05 04:47:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, being nice to a girl does not cut it, especially if it is just an act. You have to truly BE nice, not just act nice when you are with her. You also have to be interesting, and intelligent.
2007-02-05 04:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to truly respond to this is that the girl has to be receptive, but most women/girls want a guy that is attentative, honest, hard working and faithful. You should always treat a woman with respect ( open doors, tell her she looks good, smells good). Most women want someone that they can enjoy doing things with even the little things that may not seem interesting to a guy. You should be nice, but not overly nice, just be a gentleman she will be shocked because there are not many of them left.
2007-02-05 12:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can give you some tricks and techniques on how to hold a woman and have her always want to be with you, but in the end, it's just gonna be that, "tricks" and "techniques".
Really want to settle this problem for the long term? I suggest that you just be a man. Be honest and true to yourself and your needs. Respect yourself and expect to be treated with respect. Be strong and congruent with your words. BE decisive. Have your own identity and make sure you're not defined by her. Be a little bit mysterious and don't blabber everything about yourself to her. Be active and have your own life coz it'll give her space and have the added benefit of preventing you from thinking and worried about her 24/7 (which leads to calling her and meeting her too much early on). Loosen up and always have fun with everything you do. And always keep in mind, there are always plenty of fish in the sea. Good luck. You just need more experience and learn from this, that's all. :)
2007-02-05 13:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I don't know if this makes sense but there is a such thing as being TOO NICE! A girl wants someone that will treat them well but not someone overly nice, that can be annoying and you they can loose interest! what I mean is by like calling them too much, following them not giving them any space whats so ever! things like that! but maybe this chick your talking about just didn't have feelings for you, doesn't mean you have to change the way you are though! maybe you just have to find a new girl that will return what you give her!
2007-02-05 12:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by ♥AMO♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each girl is different.. Maybe you had the wrong girl! You deserve better. Is she the type of girl to take advantage of guys? Keep looking and find someone with your same personality. Sorry it didn't work out.. Chin up- and move forward she's out there.
2007-02-05 12:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wasn't the right girl for you. Don't worry....she's out there. Girls like confidence, sense of humor, and someone that is kind and makes them feel safe.
2007-02-05 12:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's still trying to figure out what she wants...
Maybe she wasn't attracted to you anymore....Maybe you tried too hard, were too clingy...possibilities are endless.
2007-02-05 12:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by onecrazypeach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋