2007-02-05 04:45:23 · 6 answers · asked by msoutherngirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I made the mistake of making a big deal out of our first Valentine's Day together; got him card, chocolate, presents...
He got NOTHING for me. Not even a card. I think he felt pressured by the hype and resisted by not participating. Even though he loves me and shows it all year long.
This was 20 years ago and I am still hurt by it. So that just shut me down on the whole Valentine's Day thing, and I think I did it to myself by having out-of-control expectations. Ever since, HE has been the one grovelling on Valentine's Day and he's lucky if he even gets a card from me.
So learn from my mistake and get him a simple card and don't make it into a big deal. It's how he treats you all year that's really important!
2007-02-05 05:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by Abigail 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a big Hersey kiss bar. In a card with one rose representing first valentine together. In the second valentines together buy him 2 roses representing the second valentine in a nice watch.
2007-02-05 13:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something sexy...make it memorable...you'll wanna always remember the first Valentines day together...especially 10 years from now when he'll forget the importance of Valentines day...lol
2007-02-05 17:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is my experience that guys really couldn't give a rip about V-day, it's more of a girl thing. If he remembers you and gets you a token just call that good!
2007-02-05 12:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking of getting my guy a massage certificate.
2007-02-05 13:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by jenh42002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a southern style BJ.
2007-02-05 12:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋