can somebody help me?

Question

My best friend whom I knew since I was 1month old is acting like something she is not,whenever her*so called friends*or relatives are around she pays no attention to me,but than when i'm alone with her,she keeps on reasuring me that i'm her best friend,but I feel as if she is being fake with me I don't even know who she is anymore this has been going on for awhile and I don't know what do or say,can someone please help me?

Answer 1

i had the exact thing happen to me. and now I've lost that friend forever. what happened was, she started acting differently when he so-called friends we around. i didn't say anything and soon we just drifted apart. i regret that so much and i miss her. don't let the same thing happen to you.

sit her down and tell her that her actions are bothering you. ask her why she is doing it. tell her that you really want to remain friends but you feel that she is being fake around you. tell her you miss the old her and you really want to try and make things work out. even if it means not being best friends any more. you can still talk and stuff but maybe you need a little space. don't get angry or accuse her of anything.

if she wont change or gets angry then just back off. if she stops talking to you then maybe it is for the best. you can find a friend who wont be fake to you. but if she truly is your best friend she will try and make things better between you two.

that's what i wish i had done. i hope everything works out for you. good luck

Answer 2

I had the same problem with my college roommate. When we were together, she and I were best friends. When we were with other friends, she ignored me. After 5 years of this, I came to the conclusion that she knew I was a loyal friend, and I wasn't going anywhere. She wanted everyone else to like her too, so she focused on them instead of me. Once I figured that out, I distance myself from her. She came running back and started paying more attention to me. I confronted her about what she was doing and I what I had to fix it, and she told me she never realized she was doing it. After college we kept in touch, but I now know how a best friend should be treated, and I don't tolorate any less.

Answer 3

When you a friend that does that you should talk to them about it. But most times if they act one way around you and another around other people they are tryin to be what those people think is cool. Since you've known this person your whole life you probably have the best idea of who the person is. But in the end I think yyou should talk to them about it.

Answer 4

talk to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you feel that she is being fake that everytime she around other people that you treat her differently. Don't let your friendship go down the drain you know. Tell her that to remember who's been their for her thru everything and to go bacck to the person that you might the girl that is your best friend.

Answer 5

I think she is being fake with you, but ask her why and if she doesn't tell you anything, she is being fake and you should stop calling her a friend.

Answer 6

Your friend is developing different interests out side of you. You may need to do the same.

Answer 7

I wish i could but i got a problem just like that but a little different so good luck to ya

Answer 8

To the curb with her. She sounds like a fake, plastic person.

Answer 9

Try not to be so clingy...most people need a little space...just let her have some...if she's that good of a friend, she'll always come back to you!

Answer 10

You should try hanging out with her and her other friends and relatives.