10ptz..guyz n grlz plz...what would you do...?

Question

grlz... if ur man said that he stayed up till 6 am talking to a freind who is a grl would u get mad?
guyz... if this happpend n u stayed up this late but u confessed it to ur grl would u b mad if ur grl asked u if there was something going on?

Answer 1

I think that he should be with you till 6 am i wouldnt be mad if she asked me. Cause the is kinda weird u would spend time with another girl instead of you.

Answer 2

The fact that he told you that he was talking to a girl was good of him. I would do the same thing and tell my girlfriend that I was talking to a girl that meant nothing to me. But, I wouldn't have told her I was on the phone till 6am. If she was just a friend, then he didn't need to give you any reason to get upset by saying he was on the phone until 6am. It's a back and forth arguement. But I wouldn't want to know my girl was on the phone all night with another man. That would tear me up inside. If she told me that she just chatted with him for a couple minutes, then I would care. Sometimes "lying" about things like that are better, because nobody did anything wrong. It just leaves less worry for the other.

If your boyfriend liked this other girl for more than a friend, he wouldn't have told you he was on the phone with her at all. But at the same time, he shouldn't have gotten you in knots by telling you he was talking to her till 6am. I don't know if that made sense or not. It's a situation you need to deal with and I wish you the best of luck!

Answer 3

First I would try to avoid staying any length of time with a friend that's a girl, but If I felt that I needed to stay all night I would expect to be in big trouble when I got home, so asking if something is going on is not out of the question.

Answer 4

I am a pretty jealous person even though I try not to be.. don't know if i'd be mad but hurt and worried..
would it be on phone, computer or in person??
that would make alot of difference to me too but either way i'd be hurt and think that maybe he'd be better off with me as a girlfriend if he'd rather be up talking all night with a female friend about other interests rather than being in bed with me.. :(

Answer 5

Yea, I would get mad. There is no reason in this world that he should be talking to some girl at a** timing. If he has anything he wants to talk about at that time, it should be with you. Before you flip out, ask him what was so important that he had to talk to HER and for that long, and take it from there.That's super shady! I hope everything works out. Good Luck! = )

Answer 6

Female - regardless of whether "something happened" or not, if you're in a relationship, staying up till 6am with another girl/woman is inappropiate. Sometimes there r more important things than physical betrayal.

Answer 7

well, i may not be the right person to answer this question because i am married with 2 kids, but here goes. yes, i would be very mad!! my husband would more than likely sleeping on the couch for at least a week. i think that him having an emotional connection with some one else and talking like that would be more hurtful than him going out with his friends and coming home and telling me he kissed some one else.

Answer 8

Hell yeah I would be mad. Their should be no reason as to why he was on the phone for so long with another female until 6:00am. The only person he should give speaking privlages to at that time is his mom.

Answer 9

if my boyfriend stayed up talking to another girl besides me i have every right to be upset. there is NO reason for a guy with a girlfriend to be talking to another girl. unless he wants something...especially in the middle of the night. even if he did confess i'd still think somethings up. im sorry hun! best of luck!

Answer 10

There is definitely something going on. I would never stay on the phone with someone that long that I didn't have serious feelings for.