Fantasising?
hi, ok, i am 18 and about 2 years ago used to spend every weekend at the stables with my horse and my friends. I havent been going very much in the last couple of years but the last moth or so i have started riding again. I had always been friends with both sons of the owner of the stables and used to go out with the older of the 2 but they have both changed in 2 years and i cant seem to keep the younger one out of my head, i find i am always thinking about him, he has got one of those bodies that when he hugs you, you just feel really safe in his arms, and he is really sweet, i need help, i dont know what to do, i mean i have known him for years and i dont know if i really like him, can you fantasise about someone but not actually like them as more than just a friend? please help, xxx
2007-02-05 03:30:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get in there and give it a go there must be something in your fantasies
2007-02-05 03:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by itsmeeeeeeeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy's are fun! They make you feel that warm tingly feeling in the bottom of you tummy! People fantasise about their friends all the time! I Know I do!
But if you are thinking about this person at every moment, it sounds more likely that you have feelings for them.
You should go for it! Ask him out! You'll never know if you don't try!
2007-02-06 09:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by fairyprincesscorinne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like you really like this guy. Are you sure that you only like him as a friend?
You can describe how it feels when he touches you, that's usually a sign of liking someone as more than a friend. Maybe see if you can take the relationship further? Be open to your feelings. You never know what might happen, he might make you really happy.
2007-02-05 12:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fantasize about my guy friends all the time ,even if I don't like him in that kind of way. In fact some guys I fantasize about just make me want to hurl. Anyhow if you keep dreaming about him then tell him how you've been feeling. Maybe he'll know what to do.
2007-02-05 11:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by Monica P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends always turn out to be the best girl/boyfriends. Chances are you already love him on some level. Going to the next level can be hard, but it's worth it if you can get past that little awkwardness.
2007-02-05 11:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mike V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to do with him have wild sex or a serious relationship. You should tell him how you feel about him I think that you actually do like him as more than just a friend and you should at least try to see how he feels about you.
2007-02-05 11:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by NavyBoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every body fantasises, but then again how many will actually come true
2007-02-06 11:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by I'm Just Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. It's normal. Everyone has fantasies sometimes. I guess you could try hanging out with him. Go ride horses together and see if you have feelings for him. You never know, he could feel the same way for you. :)
2007-02-05 11:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jess_DH13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can fantasise about a friend of the opposite sex; it's normal.
If you want to start a relationship with one of them, go for it.
2007-02-05 11:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasising is normal as long as you don't make it a reality. Good luck!!!
2007-02-05 15:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by sweetpants2536 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when you say you fantasise about him in THAT way then, GO FOR IT! if he doesnt feel the same way about you then he is not worth it.........everyone has to have a certanty that they like you for who you are..........make sure you definately know this before you get into bed with him.........good luck!
2007-02-05 12:31:17 · answer #11 · answered by Venus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋