Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

I need to leave my partner but he grinds me down into staying with him. I have experienced many happy times with him, but it is now unbearable. I have only just realised now how much he has changed me and how coercive he has been to me. He has always turned everything around into being my fault, binge drinking and him being aggresive towards me, so on. I did not even realise at the time as I so wanted it to work as I loved him and would be lonely without him as he seperated me from my previous strong social network. Anybody else been in this situation that can give me advice. I feel lost

2007-02-05 03:05:08 · 25 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Singles & Dating

Don't worry i have NO intentions of doing it before i'm married! I am going to wait a long time before even thinking about it, i'm 14 i just want to know.

2007-02-05 03:04:39 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were together 2 years and she broke it off because she got tired of waiting for me to make a committment. I realized too late how much I loved her and have been trying for several months to show her that I've changed and things would be different if given another chance. She has called me several times with problems and the last time she called it was a problem with her current boyfriend. I gave her my opinion and she didn't like what I told her. I guess she really didn't want my opinion, she just wanted me to tell her it would all work out. Other times when we talk, it's just like old times and we laugh and enjoy the conversation. I'm not sure at this point whether to try to keep the friendship since she seems to want it or whether I should just cut all ties so that I can move on. We are both in our 30's so we aren't kids.

2007-02-05 03:04:29 · 5 answers · asked by itsjustme 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom asked me to die just bcz i am not very pretty and not very smart.She shouts at me whenever she gets a chance.Though i tried my best to make peace with her and did things to please her she completely hates me.I am not old enough to leave

2007-02-05 03:02:16 · 52 answers · asked by madhu mitha 1 in Family

I have been with my girlfriend for over 6 years. She is now 43, I am 46. The last year or so, she has been a lot less affectionate, and a lot less physical(sexual). I've asked her about it and she either says it's natural when 2 people have been together for a while, or she angrily accuses me of just wanting sex. (like that's a bad thing). I just want attention and to feel needed and wanted. Is it normal for women to be this way, am I asking for too much?

2007-02-05 03:02:13 · 6 answers · asked by kc17446 2 in Singles & Dating

she was always called peggy,my daughter and othe grandaughters,love to meet or find some information help please

2007-02-05 03:01:51 · 1 answers · asked by helen s 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been going out for 5 months. I have her pw and discovered her talkin with anothe guy and they sounded like they were getting into it. The worst part is that she was on the phone with me while she was messanging. She claims she loves me. SHe has no idea that I know of her conversations with this other guy. Please Help

2007-02-05 03:01:43 · 13 answers · asked by Popp 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 03:01:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or they just kow that they got what they wanted and so its ok to flurt with other women?!!

2007-02-05 03:01:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been married one year almost. we have a 6 year old and 9 week old. i have no idea how much money we have. my husband onws his own business. he has a business account and personal checking account. my name is not on either of them. i have to ask for money. i can't just put gas in the car, buy groceries unless he leaves money or is with me. i am a stay at home mom now, so i dont have a paycheck like before. i had my own bank account and paid my own bills with that. i need some advice.

2007-02-05 03:00:28 · 26 answers · asked by mandyleigh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 02:59:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she sneaky and reads my stuff like myspace messages and she is annoying i mean i cant take her and she tries to get every 1 to hate me and then some of them do and spread rumors about me

2007-02-05 02:59:01 · 17 answers · asked by xxholistergurlxx 1 in Family

and EVERYTHING froze midstream, any good thawing out techniques?

2007-02-05 02:58:49 · 5 answers · asked by SEAHAWK 1 in Singles & Dating

My wedding is next year and my friends are just as excited about it as I am. My fiance have decided that we will have no more than 6 couples as part of the wedding party. He already knows who his 6 groomsmen are going to be, and I know who my 6 girls are going to be. We never really asked any of them to be part of the wedding party, because we are so close to them, so when they heard we were getting married, they automatically knew they were in! But, 3 other girls assumed they would be my bridesmaids as well. Two of these girls are my childhood friends. We went to elementary and middle school together, and were the best of friends back then. Now, I talk to them every once in a blue moon, one more than the other. The other girl is my co-worker. I don't want her to stand in the wedding because we've had several falling outs before. All the girls currently standing in the wedding have earned their place. What do I do?

2007-02-05 02:57:38 · 14 answers · asked by Yessi H 2 in Weddings

We've been married 5 and 1/2 years now and he has always been laid back and easy going. He never had a temper or yelled. He joined the army back in August and his whole disposition has changed. Now, he is constantly yelling at the kids for playing to loud or he tells our oldest son that he hopes he fails school (all because our son forgot to ask for him for help with a couple of things). None of it is directed towards me but towards our kids and it is obvious that the kids are backing away from him emotionally. Everything is going great for him at work so I don't understand what is going on. I'm tired of the yelling and screaming at the kids. I've tried talking to him about it but it is getting to the point that I have to take up for the kids because he is getting onto them for stupid stuff. We have great kids that never get in trouble and get straight A's in school. Does anyone know what I can do about this? Please help, I'm at the end of my rope!!!

2007-02-05 02:57:13 · 12 answers · asked by Rhonda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my classmate.
My classmate loves my best friend.
My best friend loves my sister.
My sister has an ex-boyfriend who is my classmate's sister.
My sister...has fallen for me.

Help.

2007-02-05 02:56:10 · 9 answers · asked by basshunter_poka 1 in Singles & Dating

Do guys push the "limit" to see what they can get away with??

2007-02-05 02:55:44 · 8 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 02:55:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ran into an ex-boyfriend of mine and we were talking about old times. We even talked about the girl that he cheated on me with whenever we had an argument. He said he was never in a relationship with her, but I say how come she thought she was? He said he didn't know, because he said he never told her he was his woman? Is he full of crap or was she just a booty-call or something?

2007-02-05 02:54:58 · 17 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

well... i bought perfume for my boyfreind for valentine.. n im not sure if he is in to perfume or not... do guys like perfumes by d way?

2007-02-05 02:54:13 · 13 answers · asked by misz_thila 2 in Singles & Dating

Please help.
There is a girl in work who keeps giving me dirty looks - like she just wiped me off her shoe

Everytime i go near her she whispers or starts giggling.

I heard someone say the other day why not just ask her she is right there ( i was the only other girl there)

Please help its driving me mad. I don't want to leave my office now because she stares at me and it makes me feel really bad

2007-02-05 02:53:43 · 7 answers · asked by newsboysno1 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I sort of fear the rejection. I picked up 2 girls last year. When I asked their telephone number, they were all happy to say they will go out and have a cup of coffee with me. However, the second time I called them. They all changed their decision and hung up the phone. I surprisingly met my high school friend. She was happy to see me on the street and said she will definitely go out to have a cup of coffee with me. I called her a few time and sent a few emails. She replied my emails twice, but no more. We made an appointment. I went to the coffee shop, but she didn't attend. I called her, but no answer. Then, I called a number of times, but she hung up my calls. What were the problems? Ladies could you tell me. I am not the rapist. I am afraid to call her now. How can I overcome this fear?

2007-02-05 02:53:42 · 3 answers · asked by safafs 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 02:53:40 · 6 answers · asked by marco b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just wondered... most of my friends say they don't remember that bit but to me it's clear as a bell.

2007-02-05 02:53:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How does it work, getting married at sixteen? Does you need both persons parents consent or just one? Do you need a judges consent? Is there any state that you can marry at sixteen without parent consent?

2007-02-05 02:53:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went to a dance lesson, and I was setup to dance with two girls who were sisters as my partners. I only knew them both on a surface level, but I found myself dancing four or five dances during the regular dance together with one of the two. She would break off for a dance, and then we would end up together for four or five dances. She ended up telling me where she is going to college, and we started having a more personal conversation later in the evening. Was she wanting me to ask her out?

2007-02-05 02:53:09 · 10 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

We finally decided to call it quits due to too many indifferences. One being I like my house clean...lol, do you have any advice for me to quit being scared in my own house. He moved out this weekend and I am having trouble sleeping and I hear every little noise in the house. Talk to me please!!!

2007-02-05 02:52:14 · 26 answers · asked by Redd 3 in Marriage & Divorce

on average?

2007-02-05 02:51:43 · 33 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i need cute romanic or sexual text messages. asap. me and my boyfriend have been together 1 year and 3 months we are both at work right now (not at the same place) and i want to send him a cute/ romantic/ or sexual text message. we are southern rednecks.
answers are greatly appreciated

2007-02-05 02:51:40 · 10 answers · asked by christie. 1 in Singles & Dating

Two days ago i made a question,and i received some very good advice but there was someone who said me don't ever speak or write again because i had not written two words correctly. i noticed that the same treatment was given to two other people who had not typed their questions correctly.Iam not American,i am from Europe and i am trying to learn English .i think that we should try to offer each other here at the community good advice and moral support,and not offend one another with discouraging remarks.What do you think?

2007-02-05 02:51:36 · 20 answers · asked by bellamora 1 in Friends