Please help.
There is a girl in work who keeps giving me dirty looks - like she just wiped me off her shoe
Everytime i go near her she whispers or starts giggling.
I heard someone say the other day why not just ask her she is right there ( i was the only other girl there)
Please help its driving me mad. I don't want to leave my office now because she stares at me and it makes me feel really bad
2007-02-05 02:53:43 · 7 answers · asked by newsboysno1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she is stupid and jealous. I know people like that. Ignore her. One day people will see her for the imature little dweeb that she really is.
2007-02-05 03:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are she's jealouse of you for some reason. Girls are nasty and viscious and are just plain tacky. I don't have any girl friends and I don't get along w/ girls. They are rude, backstabbers, and in my experiances little sleazers! No joke. Every time I made a g.friend they would either talk behind my back, or sleep w/ my boyfriends! Be stong and hold your head up. You have no reason to be going through this. It is caller harrasment, and if it happening at work, try talking to your supervisor or manager. You could also approach her. Suck it up and go to her and say Hey, I'm _____, do we know eachother? No, oh, well I just figured we did becuz I saw you looking at me the other day and I figured we did and I just forgot your name. This would be a good time to intoduce yourself, and be friendly. Then maybe the next time she talks about you sh'ell think twice. Girls like her feed off of fear. Act like it doesn't bother you and before too long, she'll stop. Hang in there and bow down to her or her low level of existance.
Also you should send yourself some flowers at work, and have the flower shoppe sign it I love you, and leave the name blank. She'll get jealouse, and it will make you smile just looking at the flowers!
2007-02-05 11:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's probably jealous of you because you're not her friend or that you don't communicate with her. I also think that you need to ask her because if you continue down this route, it can lead to dangerous circumstances around the office. You also need to cure the anxiety you're feeling around this person.
2007-02-05 11:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is the one with the problem but you are rapidly making it YOUR problem. YOU are letting her get to you and you don't even know why. I suggest you simply ignore her. She is irrelevant to your world and you need to concentrate on working hard and not making a workplace problem.
Good Luck
2007-02-05 11:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is trying to make you feel like less of a person when in all reality she does this because she is insecure in herself dont let it bother you she'll eventually grow up
2007-02-05 11:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by jammie v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her and she will stop doing it. She is doing this to get your attention. Don't let it get to you. She has the problem and not you.
2007-02-05 10:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stand up to the bully and she'll probable back down. if she doesn't learn to box.
2007-02-05 10:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋