is it true that after marriage men get fed up from their routine wife?

Question

or they just kow that they got what they wanted and so its ok to flurt with other women?!!

Answer 1

Only the men who are really jerks flirt around with other women. My husband of 18 years still thinks I am the sexiest, most beautiful, and enticing woman he ever met, even though I have gained much weight, gotten gray hair, wear dentures and have some pretty serious health problems. His love is real for me. Be sure before you say "I do" that he really means he will and you can count on having him around forever.

Answer 2

In my opinion there is nothing wrong with flirting with the opposite sex. It is in fact human nature to flirt. In my opinion, it is women that get fed up before the men do in a marriage. I have seen it too many times where a woman gets jealous because the man flirts. This only shows that those woman are insecure. Everyone flirts, even when they are unaware of it. I know there are men out there that get fed up first, but more often than not, it is the women. Flirting is what gets the women fed up. I think, if a man chooses to be married to a woman that's because he wants to. Flirting is not a bad thing to get fed up about. If he is cheating, just leave, and avoid the stress that will bring.

Answer 3

For some men that is true. Such men can be hard to spot right away, which is the best argument I can think of for a long engagement. Youse really want to KNOW the dude you're contemplating a lifetime with, and that kind of knowledge takes time to develop.
A married man's flirting with other women is not always a sign he's on the prowl, and getting all bent outa shape is a waste of time and energy. You pull the jealous b i t c h routine and you'll drive him into the arms of another!

Answer 4

I believe that men and women get fed up with routine. It just seems that men are more likely to look outside of their marriages and women seem to look more into their marriages for a change in routine. If this situation is happening to you do something to shock the hell out of you husband/wife. Sometimes we need to step out of the box and show our partner "Hey you don't everything there is to know about me, watch this!"

Answer 5

Not if he is really in love with you. But don't let
him get tired of the same routine. Change things around a little bit once in a while. For example: When you are cooking and he's home,
wear something sexy and flirt with him. When he goes in the shower offer to scrub his back and start a little something. Don't only have sex in the bed. Take him to the livingroom, light up some candles, etc. If he flirts outside the home;
Don't worry!!! He's coming home to you.

Answer 6

My husband is not like this at all. He is not fed up or bored with me at all... We do alot of fun things together and try new and fun things together too! He does not flirt with other women and i do not flirt with guys... No man or wife should ever do this to each other at all... This is just not right.... Not all men or husbands are like this... There are some good ones out there believe it or not. So not this is not always true!

Answer 7

Who know's??? Maybe you'll get fed up with a routine husband!!! And it really depends on how far the flirtation's r going. There's no harm in either the husband or wife flirt with other people, as long as it does not get carried away! It's in men's nature to like change, so spice things up a bit or a lot in all area's.......especially in the bedroom!!! Good Luck, Zeta!

Answer 8

Any woman can keep a man's attention on her if she isnt afraid to be bold or too inhibited to try new things. Sure men get bored if things get too routine. Who doesnt? I dont know who has the better time when I spring a surprise on my guy.....him or me.
Not only that but me being the leader at first has inspired him to be creative and think up new fun. Its keeping things exciting, just like it was in the beginning.

Answer 9

You don't know how true it is. Marriage would be ideal if you were allowed to get some action from a different lady every once in a whle.

How do you justify locking somebody down for the rest of thier lives? Sounds more like a life sentence that you serve for doing the "right" thing for a lady.

Answer 10

Don't get fat!! Keep things interesting and always make him a priority, even when you have kids. And BTW men will always look at other women we are very visual, that's what we do. Don't be jealous, that gets old REAL quick. If he ever cheats on you there's nothing you can ever do to stop it anyways , so why worry about? You sound young and if you got married before 25 GL to you ) Oh and to answer your question Routines do get boring, thats why you always have to WORK at a marrige.