in response to my last question. I had a chance to make the most out of something, but i let my shyness around that person take a tole on my behavior. Now that the chemestry has been lost, and they dont see me in that type of way no more, and now we just friends, should i give up, should i try again, should i show them who i really am, if i ever get that chance again. Now im just a friend that they dont even call as much, should i even try and work it out, or rekindle the flame, its hurting me because this was the only person in my life who i felt insync with?
2007-02-05 03:23:19 · 4 answers · asked by lefteye w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to get out more so you will suddenly realize there are plenty of people to feel in sync with.
2007-02-05 03:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Willie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many people out there for you. You might have like this person lots, thats why you feel in sync with them....but you just need to know that you need to get over your shyness and to do that you need to become outgoing - go out with friends, socialize more often, make new friends, this way you can be ready next tiem you meet someone you like and you wont hold up. Sometimes shyness comes off wrong, because some people take it as rudeness. Maybe you can talk to this person and let them know your upset that you lost what you had with them and that the only reason was because you were shy. ( i know thats a bold movement and kind of scary to tell someone) but trust me if there is any misunderstanding, it can be cleared. Let the person know you were shy and thats why your behavior wasn't the way the person wanted it and that you want to try to be more open with them. Im sure if that person misunderstood your behavior a clarfication can open that door back again....So email. call or text msg the person that, i would personall email or text them if i was a shy person.....its hard to tell someone your shy on the phone. Its better the person reads it and then reflects on it.
If that doesnt make a diff...just move on and follow my tips
2007-02-05 03:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by StyleDiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love that preson very much then don't ever think of giving up because we don't know if in the last you will cry loud and just want to repeat the time. It is better to try and it is also worth for. Your also just thinking that the door is shut but then maybe the front door only what about tha back door. You get it.
DON'T GIVE UP!!!!
2007-02-05 03:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by Azurite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them EXACTLY what you told us.
Best of luck.
2007-02-05 03:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋