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I'm a college freshman, and there is this girl I'm hoping to get. We don't really know each other, but today I was lucky enough to sit next to her and "talk" for 3 seconds.

Today in English class, we did peer revision, and I got to read her essay. As soon as I read it, I was so intimidated; she writes so well, and her level of thinking is way above mine. And she is also articulate unlike me. I realized she's so much more mature and sophisticated than I am, so I'm losing confidence. I have always been told that girls want guys who are more mature than they are.

So here is the question. What do y'all think about guys who are not as mature as you? Are y'all willing to date those "immature" guys as long as they are sincere and honest?

2007-02-05 02:47:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I hope y'all read this

2007-02-05 02:49:52 · update #1

3 answers

She may not appreciate the other things (sincerity, honesty, etc) yet. But older women will (once you get mid-late 20's, 30's). Honestly at this age a lot of girls are more mature than the guys their age (not an opinion...but biologically it's true). Some girls don't get that. The ones that do will over look it. Just be yourself though.

2007-02-05 02:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by Squeegy 2 · 0 0

Dont lose hope! Sincerity and honesty go far further than brains. Sit next to her as much as possible and once you really start talking offer to buy her a drink meal chocolate bar even and if she agrees to that then once you have done that ask her out. Girls dont just like clever guys no girls the same I have dated a doctor wanna be who was clever and would never shut up he drove me mental where the boy I am dating now is not so bright but is a nice guy and I would rather him over any know it all any day.

2007-02-05 10:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by ask the aliens! 3 · 0 0

Its true that girls love mature boys. But you dont lost hope. Try to know her more and try to be friendly in the first place. Help her out in whetever little way you can. Let her appriciate your friendship, then see the wonders. Good luck!

2007-02-05 11:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by angela_hsiung 1 · 0 0

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