Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

i have a girl friend who has a very harassing exBF. this guy sends cell messages to her every day. no actually every 30 mins. the problem is that these messages are very sweet if you look at only one of them. he also calls her current friends, BF or not, to harass them - of course does from the dark.

she is very upset but does not know how to deal with it. And she no longer has love for this guy and just wants to get him off her back (and of course her cell phone too).

Suggestions?

2007-02-05 02:05:44 · 17 answers · asked by kgfzgao 1 in Singles & Dating

what you want for your birthday, if your birthday is on valentines day?

2007-02-05 02:05:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 02:05:21 · 8 answers · asked by Lovebug123 5 in Family

2007-02-05 02:05:10 · 8 answers · asked by sandra b 5 in Family

He claims that a friend of his did this as a joke and that he thought it was already deleted. He was listed as looking for a female 18-24 yrs. He was divorced. blah blah blah.I am extremeley hurt b/c of problems we have had in the past & I told him that I think I should leave. He swears of course that he loves me & he is not going to screw up again. When your married & you really love someone when do you say okay thats it? I don't know what to do so some serious answers from mature people would be greatly appreciated.

2007-02-05 02:04:47 · 61 answers · asked by tabitha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just asked a question on how to make my ex jealous and i got nearly 30 answers on how cruel, childish and miserable i am. however, a male asked an almost identical question within 2 minutes of me, and everybody was instructing him on how to make his ex jealous. i thought it was disgusting, so tell me(honestly) does the gender of the asker strongly influence the nature of ur reply?

2007-02-05 02:04:33 · 6 answers · asked by o o g 2 in Singles & Dating

now hear me out!!! a woman owning 2 business... living BY hereself ( no children @ home), getting $1900.00 a month from her EX husband...who has a family a SMALL child @ home... and WORKS one (good paying) job, but after alimony has been taken out, he is equal to his wife's salary... which is close to 20,000 a year...is there ANY JUSTICE FOR THIS!!!! (here on earth)!!??

2007-02-05 02:04:17 · 10 answers · asked by Hotonic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and any suggestions for Vday present?

2007-02-05 02:03:36 · 13 answers · asked by sameera_care 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 02:03:32 · 10 answers · asked by ღ 4 in Friends

We have a mobile home that is on my in-laws land and we have been trying to move it.........the first two house movers screwed us around and now the city we are moving into is giving us a hard time. Seems they are trying to outlaw mobile homes, the house mover we have now is trying everything he can to help us, but sometimes lately I feel it is a little hopeless. We have been in a motel for over a month now and I am tired and stressed out. My in-laws have been hateful, mean people and we just want to get away and live our own lives. Don't know that I really have a question just looking to vent and find some hopeful words.

2007-02-05 02:03:28 · 9 answers · asked by ladybug 5 in Family

YOU CAN ONLY SAVE ONE.

2007-02-05 02:02:16 · 26 answers · asked by sandra b 5 in Family

My brother is a sophomore in high school and we just recently moved to an entire new area where he knows no one. He wont wake up in the morning to go to school and you literally have to drag him out of bed. He has ADHD, not too sure if that has anything to do with it. He gets his cell phone taken away and no computer priviliges as a result of not going to school. Does anyone have any ideas on how to get this kid up in the morning without putting up a fight? My dad and I are fed up with his crap and just need him to go to school. Thanks a ton!

2007-02-05 02:02:11 · 5 answers · asked by ughhh 3 in Family

I am engaged to a girl that i enjoy spending my time with, we've been together two and half years and have a joint mortgage. The thing is, i don't really know if i love her because she's my first ever relationship. She knows that she loves me because she's had numerous boyfriends in the past but i don't know how love is supposed to feel like so how do i know if i love her? Please help a confused Romeo people?

2007-02-05 02:01:46 · 6 answers · asked by nightshifter12 1 in Singles & Dating

She has done this more than once to me, she goes to work till 11p.m. and comes home, I am asleep at that time(because I have to wake up early) and then she will ,make a lot of noise and argue, yell about something I did wrong in the house(not put away dishes, not closing the windows etc. etc.) this will wake me up and upset my cycle of sleep throughout the night. Last night she did this to me and she knows I was feeling well. I am sorry I am not the perfect husband, but I love her so much, I wish she were a bit kinder to me. How can I handle this situation with her?

2007-02-05 02:01:40 · 11 answers · asked by Thomas 4 in Marriage & Divorce

without the need to have the entire world knowing of their "good deeds". Whenever I've gone out of my way to help someone in need never have I ran my mouth & told people, "hey, this is what I did, she's doing okay now b/c of me." If you do a favor for someone or help them out of a hole, it's b/c you want that person to shine & NOT you. The reward is knowing that person is a bit better off b/c you were willing to be a silent helping hand. I can't stand it when folks run around pretending they care to get attention & acceptance from others. Anyone here agree....

2007-02-05 02:00:18 · 9 answers · asked by njboricua78 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've met the most amazing man who I know I'm going to spend the rest of my life with but we life at two ends of the country.
We met in France and got together, although 4 months later we both had to leave and go home. He's planning to move down to me and we will set up home together but in the mean time i don't see him enough because we're trying to save money.
We have been to and from each others houses and both our parents love us both but its so far away that I can only see him about once a month for just a weekend. Whenever I talk to him I just miss him even more but I know things are going to be ok because eventually when we have enough money we will move in together but until then does anyone know how I can see him more on a low cost budget??

2007-02-05 02:00:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it sexy? Or too strong?

2007-02-05 01:59:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That i was gone for a week! Why cant he understand that i had to go on my honeymoon with my husband? Do you think he is selfish?

2007-02-05 01:58:46 · 17 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

the ex wants to try again. have any of you ever gone back to a ex hubby after a year of each dating others? someone slap me ..please... i'm falling for a ex.

2007-02-05 01:58:03 · 29 answers · asked by skylinerose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want a boy friend who knows french and living/lived in france to chat with me.
but i don't know french.
so we have to chat in english.
i realy like that country and its people.
pls.........
friends are invited.

2007-02-05 01:57:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean honestly, do you love them enough to stay and protect and be faithful till death do you part? I have never known one.

2007-02-05 01:57:18 · 13 answers · asked by sandra b 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to get my divorce done but dont have a lot of money the divorce is going to be uncontested,we have 3 kids that live with me

2007-02-05 01:56:08 · 3 answers · asked by Paul C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this lady came in lookin for the milk that was on sale...but i didnt know how to tell her we were out...so i made up somethin about gettin more from the cows we had in the back.

only problem is...we aint got no cows...... i saw her gettin impatient so i got the hell outta there.....

in hind sight, how would yall have handled this??

2007-02-05 01:56:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Turns out it's my mistress. She found her number and called her. She says it was an accident, but I think she was just trying to get back at me. I am very upset abou this, how can I trust her? What should I do?

2007-02-05 01:56:04 · 23 answers · asked by Scotty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Been in a relationship with this guy for about two years. Our love is straight out of poetry. Problem is I'm having some problems controlling my physical impulses. I'm too young to have sex but when we've been together for a while I have a really hard time thinking about something besides wanting to see him without a shirt on.

I'm trying to limit our time together and get more people involved but I'm having a really hard time combatting the power of my teenaged reproductive instincts.

2007-02-05 01:56:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just broke up with me about a month ago. He gave me no explination. When we spent time together his best friend and his girlfriend were with us most of the time. It got to the point that we never saw each other and he spent more time with his BF than with me. I ran into his BF yesterday and we started talking. He said it was wrong how my ex did me and he was sorry. He also told me that he and his girl split. Then after catching up a little he asked if I would be interested in going out and I said sure. I saw how he treated his girlfriend and he was very good to her. I really like him. Am I crazy to go out with him?

2007-02-05 01:55:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Should you compliment him back? Is it okay to?

2007-02-05 01:55:43 · 14 answers · asked by All I have to do is dream... 4 in Friends

Well, then how old do you think is appropriate?

2007-02-05 01:55:32 · 16 answers · asked by jrhod263 3 in Marriage & Divorce

how long do you wait before you start holding hands with your boyfriend??.....yes im in high school....

2007-02-05 01:54:30 · 15 answers · asked by ilikepink29@sbcglobal.net 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 01:54:28 · 3 answers · asked by charu.aggarwal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships