Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

2007-02-05 00:54:46 · 6 answers · asked by donk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 3 weeks and we didnt tel anyone just so it can just between us and our families. aparently everybody found out because we spend so much time together. almost everybody is suprised at us because im "thuggish" and she "punk. and the guys that are supposed to be my guys are talking about me behind my back... or thats atleast what my close friend says. What do i do now im lost i love her but i just want people to stop saying something if i make a move.

2007-02-05 00:54:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all she cares about is sex, but she is thirty-five. i'm 27. i think it may just be because she is reaching her sexual peak. i'm not gay by far, but this sex thing is driving me up the wall. help! i have other priorities, and i get in fights with her every two days about this crap. 5 times a day is enough. this is a repost because i posted the original in the wrong section but so far every dude seems to think i'm nuts... well let them try being drain 4 times a night. i just no idea what to do here. i never , in a million years, thought i'd have this problem.

2007-02-05 00:53:20 · 17 answers · asked by varia 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 00:52:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 00:52:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are some signs or "tests" that I can look for that will show if my girlfriend really truly and honestly cares about me and loves me? Sometimes I don't believe that she does. I have a difficult time trusting people and believing in love.

2007-02-05 00:51:43 · 4 answers · asked by whathappenedamber 2 in Singles & Dating

I roduce cards on a small scale and have a few regular customers but I want to expand ino wedding stationary I would like to know whether one, if anyone would buy reasonably priced handmade invitations? and what is reasonable? and two anyone who has dne this and succeeded if so have they any tips? thank you

2007-02-05 00:50:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi, can you help? Please don't say councling, because my husband never goes to them. Married for 18 months, had sex maybe just for 12 times, me not having an orgasm, becasue he doesn't care that I have needs too, so he doesn't do foreplay, talking dirty in bed, position changing, kissing passionately, touching me, nothing, all those 12 times, I initiated it with giving him all the pleasure, which was even after a very frustrating complaint from me and threatening to leave him if he doesn't have sex with me. I have tried all the ways possible, tried to seduce him , talk about it sensibly , tried to please him in any way so that I may get sex, but he doesn't have any sex drive full stop. Now I just can't pretend any more that everything is fine, because it's not. I used to have a very active sex life before marriage, and for me marriage was "end of pleasure". If I don't want sex, he could be the best husband ever: respectful, kind, faithful, devoted. But how can I ignore my needs?

2007-02-05 00:50:05 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm off on a 60's themed Singles Night at Manchester Art Gallery, and I would like to know what to wear. I know that 60's dress is optional, but I'd at least like to fit in visually. The real me kinda comes out when I'm more comfortable, and I'm more comfortable when I know that I fit in.

It's my first Singles Night ever, so I'd like some suggestions on what not to do - without stating the obvious.

Any ideas? The night is 14th February (no points for guessing why.)

2007-02-05 00:49:51 · 12 answers · asked by HiFi 3 in Singles & Dating

My brother is so insanely weird and I don't think my parents dropped him on his head when he was little.

2007-02-05 00:49:21 · 9 answers · asked by gym_girl55 2 in Family

my crush gave me his number so we can keep in touch but i sent him a message a couple of days before but he didn't reply..i thought with him giving me his number might be a good sign but it turns out it isn't...i'm really so disappointed and i can't help thinking what's wrong..i've tried keeping myself really busy so i won't have the time to think about it..i didn't say anything to scare him off and he sounded really friendly and enthusiastic when we chatted through mails..what happened??

2007-02-05 00:49:07 · 11 answers · asked by Larissa 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm enjoying the relationship at the moment, but i don't intend to be with him long term. is it still ok to continue?
extra info: i know he likes me, its been 3 months on and off now.

2007-02-05 00:48:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 27 and my partner is 39. we have a 2.5 yo son and I would like another baby , but my partner says no . He doesnt want kids in the house when hes older.I dont want to end up hating him when I'm 40 and too old to have kids.ADVICE PLEASE!!!!

2007-02-05 00:46:49 · 5 answers · asked by sam-i-am- 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What does it mean when a guy says that he's not really this girl's girlfriend or fiance that he knocked up, all they do is fight now?

When he is asked if he has a girlfriend or engaged? He said he's not engaged really because he hasn't given her a ring?

2007-02-05 00:46:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, can you help? Please don't say councling, because my husband never goes to them. Married for 18 months, had sex maybe just for 12 times, me not having an orgasm, becasue he doesn't care that I have needs too, so he doesn't do foreplay, talking dirty in bed, position changing, kissing passionately, touching me, nothing, all those 12 times, I initiated it with giving him all the pleasure, which was even after a very frustrating complaint from me and threatening to leave him if he doesn't have sex with me. I have tried all the ways possible, tried to seduce him , talk about it sensibly , tried to please him in any way so that I may get sex, but he doesn't have any sex drive full stop. Now I just can't pretend any more that everything is fine, because it's not. I used to have a very active sex life before marriage, and for me marriage was "end of pleasure". If I don't want sex, he could be the best husband ever: respectful, kind, faithful,devoted, but how can I ingore my needs?

2007-02-05 00:46:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am currently planning my wedding. My favorite color is yellow, and want to add another color to it. The wedding will be in June of next year, so there is plenty of time to plan, and yellow is a good summer color. I was thinking about black. I don't see a problem with black at a wedding because they will only be used as accents. Is it alright to have black be part of the color scheme for a wedding? Also, does anybody know of a sight where you can different color schemes put together. This is the only problem with the entire wedding, the colors! Any comments are appreciated.

2007-02-05 00:46:32 · 19 answers · asked by mbane86 1 in Weddings

im continuosly being bullied by this my classmates. they often hurt me by hitting my neck with a rubber band. it hurts and i suffer it almost everyday. please help me.
Note:please recommend other ways because i usually get answers like have faith or just ignore them. having faith is good. but ignoring them just makes them sort of pissed and often gets worse.

2007-02-05 00:45:17 · 2 answers · asked by Lonez 2 in Friends

my best friend is a guy. i saw him yesterday and i'm usually really happy to see him but i had just found out that one of my other friends has been cutting herself, so i was really depressed. my guy friend, being the nice guy he is, (seriously, there isn't a mean bone in his body) kept asking if anything was wrong. i didn't want to tell him because my dad was there. so i just got really frustrated, and i yelled, "IS THERE AN OFF SWITCH ON YOU SOMEWHERE? REALLY!" then he just looked really hurt and was really quiet the rest of the day. i didn't sleep last night. i couldn't breath. i stayed up all night thinking. i think i love him. i don't know how to apologize. i'm afraid that he will reject me. even if he doesn't like me the way i like him, (and i think he might because he got me somthing for valentine's day) i still want him to be my friend. what should i do?

2007-02-05 00:45:13 · 22 answers · asked by look _inside 2 in Friends

I have known this guy for over 4 months, he lives in another state, hes 19 and says he really loves me and im the only person for him, weve never met, i like him to and feel something for him, but i dont know what to tell him, when he says i love u and want to be with you forever, hes 19 and im 25, 19yr olds dont really know what love is that young, do they??

2007-02-05 00:44:55 · 15 answers · asked by lexiemarie2424 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this white guy who is asking me out and even though i like him im somehow questioning his motives.....I mean is there a chance that a white guy can like an ordinary black girl and what are the future prospects of that

2007-02-05 00:43:34 · 15 answers · asked by Nokuthula 2 in Singles & Dating

Ever live with a person who always seems to let you think they are going to leave you? They say stupid things like they’re on the verge of leaving and everything is bad. Nothing you do is good enough. Complain, complain, complain. My wife keeps saying crap like that and I don’t beat her, I’m not an alcoholic, and I don’t even go golfing without her and spend tons of time with her. She has a case of the negatives. Problem is I know that I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to her(a lot of people know this to but she’s good at playing the victim). Out of all the guys I know, nobody would put up with her demands. She’s gone through 3 fiances before I met her. I’ve told her hey if you can find someone better please do. She’s one of these women that is stuck on my husband isn’t good enough and I do love her and I am afraid she’ll leave. She stubborn so she’ll leave even though she knows I’m a good man and that she loves me. Even though I feel like I’m doing all these things for her, it feels like she doesn’t love me anymore and can’t stand being with me so she’s just picking me apart. Anybody else deal with someone like this? What did you do to get your spouse to realize how good they have it?

2007-02-05 00:40:40 · 13 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you could be anywhere with anyone (famous or not) right now, where and who would it be? What would you be doing? hmmm Let your imagination run wild!!!
I would want to be with robbie williams on a cruise, playing cards (ye right, and im the queen of england) he is sexy, funny and rich!! lol, what more does a girl want, ;-)

2007-02-05 00:39:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shoudl I go or shoudl I stay?

2007-02-05 00:39:32 · 9 answers · asked by Hairy Monster 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 00:38:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a friend and i crossed the friendship line and did stuff..we were kinda seeing each other for a bit..then things just faded...more from her side than from mine...she started pushing me away, always busy, cant do anything tonight...now we dont do anything anymore. when i try to talk bout things she usually doesnt make much input, but when she is drunk or somethin then she will talk more, be nice, even talk about gettin down and its been happenin more lately b/c for a while she didnt...what does she want? just the physical?she did say things were gettin serious and b/c of that she backed off, but now she wants to get down again?

2007-02-05 00:36:16 · 10 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating

that there are no sparks and that she wants to break up but wants to remain friends does that mean that she will never feel the sparks or is she trying to tell me that she just needs time? I even got her saying "if you arent friends with me you will never know." Although she told me that i shouldnt wait, and that i "shouldnt settle for less," i feel like she is afraid. She has been through a lot over the past fews years (2 brain surgeries and a real jerk for a boyfriend), and prior to dating she told me that "she kind of swore off men before i came around and that she doesnt know how she feels about me." according to her, i am "everything she wants in a boyfriend, and she has a lot of fun when shes with me." she just doesnt get the butterflies. Am I doomed? should i just move on? Or is she trying to tell me that things will change if i stick around? SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!

2007-02-05 00:35:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok guys... would u choose a beautiful curvy curl with ummm lets say not a very "amazing" personality.. or a cute, petite girl with a nice personality-- (which is not curvvyyy!)

2007-02-05 00:35:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that im attracted to that goes to my bus stop in the morning. I've seen her in the morning loads and loads of times now. But i can never get the courage to talk to her! what's wrong with me? Instinctively, i think she likes me. She keeps looking at me. Stands near me. Wiggles her hips when she walks etc.

How do i talk to her? what do i say? what if she runs away when i try and talk to her?

2007-02-05 00:35:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 and really doubt this is true. Acording to my perception, most parents don't worry about their kids happiness, don't care about how they feel, frequently humilkiate them and hurt their feelings. They don't love their kids when they get in trouble or when they simply act in a way parents don't like. Many abandon their kids when they are in trouble, it's not true they are always there for them. It seems most of them just want to be proud of their kids, but abandon them if they are not.
I think most people will still help their parents even if they are criminals, but parents will abandon their kids in such kids.
It's something sad and frustrating to realize you do'nt realy have someone who love you uncondionally and will accept you as you are,

2007-02-05 00:34:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i've been told in a text that the man i've been seeing that he is in love with me BUT i've not seen him for ages what should i do cos i feel the same way

2007-02-05 00:34:01 · 22 answers · asked by cindlemay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships