all she cares about is sex, but she is thirty-five. i'm 27. i think it may just be because she is reaching her sexual peak. i'm not gay by far, but this sex thing is driving me up the wall. help! i have other priorities, and i get in fights with her every two days about this crap. 5 times a day is enough. this is a repost because i posted the original in the wrong section but so far every dude seems to think i'm nuts... well let them try being drain 4 times a night. i just no idea what to do here. i never , in a million years, thought i'd have this problem.
2007-02-05 00:53:20 · 17 answers · asked by varia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is she making up for lost time or something?
There is something a little obsessive with wanting sex 5 times a day yes. You're not nuts to think otherwise.
All the desperate wishfuls of course will tell you to "enjoy it" but as you said they're not the ones who are being drained.
You do have other priorities and maybe you should buy your GF some toys to keep herself entertained with.
I'd suggest you think long and hard about whether this is what you want out of a GF, long term that is.
Just FYI, if your relationship is very new, it could be that she really digs you and you've found her "on" switch, but regardless, once or twice a day should be ample for your newbie relationship after a while.
For you men who don't get it enough, remember women have a lot of stresses in their every day lives and if you don't make the time to meet those emotional needs and take them seriously, as silly as you may think they are, your sex life suffers in the long run. Women are often torn when it comes to whose needs to fill first, and often neglect their own. You should be helping them along emotionally to hang on that part of their womanhood you fell in love with initially, and encourage girlfriend outtings or just simply make time for the two of you to have fun, real fun.
If it's been a long time plan a great night, with friends, a party, a bbq, just do something fun. Make time for two again...believe me it's just what she's been waiting for. You have to keep life exciting and keep the thrills going--and stop blaming one another for all the sacrifices you make in life and the things that go wrong...that's life. If you want your sex life to not suffer long term you have to remember to play some and escape the every day routines now and again.
2007-02-05 00:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible she is a sex addict. Yes, there really is such a thing. There is also an organization which can help: Sex Addicts Anonymous (SA). Sex addiction is caused by a chemical imbalance within a person's body. Too much testosterone is produced. Though women generally have less testosterone in their bodies than men, they still have a small amount. This drives the need for sex. An imbalance can cause an unusually high sex drive. Coupled with the need to feel " loved" in her eyes, this can be a difficult situation. Though she has a very high drive, you could ask her to simply snuggle at certain times. Explain to her that you still love her, but that you are simply tired, so you will snuggle with her. She needs to know that even though you don't want sex that many times, you will still love her and still need her. Best of luck to you in your situation.
2007-02-05 01:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by wespectmyauthoritah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a sexahoolic you should send her to SAA (which is like AAA but for people with sex disorders).
I would suggest buying her an electric toy in order to give you some type of break to recover but judging by the sound of it you'd need one that uses a Sears die hard battery.
She'd even kill that Eveready bunny.
Good luck
2007-02-05 01:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're nuts too. Too much sex, Oh Dear how I feel sorry for you (not!!).
Perhaps if you up the quality you can reduce the quantity - if you satisfy her needs after 1 or 2 sessions, then there'd be no need for 5 times a night. I'm sooo good in bed that my wife often goes for weeks without needing a good seeing to.
2007-02-05 00:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by mark 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she might be, but one thing to think about is that she might just like you rocking her world or she might be worried that shes not doing good enough for you. the other thing is beware what you wish for my wife and I used to go like that now I am lucky to get laid 3 times a year lol women can run both ways :)
2007-02-05 00:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by faern2877 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be BOTH! Some guys would kill to be in your situation. If you get angry or frustrated about it take it out on her during sex. You will get some frustration out and she will get what she wants. If you can't handle her then find someone you can.
2007-02-05 00:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're just a wimp
5 X a day is nothing. Get with the program Bro
2007-02-05 02:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by harvman 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You think you have problems .. I have 4 inflatable dolls and on the boxes it says they are all between 33 and 36.
Tally coco ho!!!!!!
2007-02-05 01:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
find another gf if you can't keep up with her or else, don't brag about her sexual urge to everyone else. I m sure the other men envy you soooooooooooo much!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-05 01:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay honestly buddy... you just asked this question less then an hour ago... you seriously have over 23 answers on your other question is that not good enough!!
2007-02-05 00:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by bilinda_82 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋