my best friend is a guy. i saw him yesterday and i'm usually really happy to see him but i had just found out that one of my other friends has been cutting herself, so i was really depressed. my guy friend, being the nice guy he is, (seriously, there isn't a mean bone in his body) kept asking if anything was wrong. i didn't want to tell him because my dad was there. so i just got really frustrated, and i yelled, "IS THERE AN OFF SWITCH ON YOU SOMEWHERE? REALLY!" then he just looked really hurt and was really quiet the rest of the day. i didn't sleep last night. i couldn't breath. i stayed up all night thinking. i think i love him. i don't know how to apologize. i'm afraid that he will reject me. even if he doesn't like me the way i like him, (and i think he might because he got me somthing for valentine's day) i still want him to be my friend. what should i do?
2007-02-05 00:45:13 · 22 answers · asked by look _inside 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know what to do.
And if anything comes after when he accepts your apology then good luck
2007-02-05 01:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by angelrose0105 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him up like it's no big deal. Act real natural and say something like, "hey, sorry I was so bitchy the other day, but there was something bothering me. You were right, but my dad was standing right there and I didn't want to discuss it right then."
Something along those lines. If he is your friend then honesty is the best way to go. Also, get him a little something for Valentine's Day and see where it goes from there. Get him a card that states friendship and maybe a little more. Maybe he can get the hint without you telling him and see if he makes a move. Going from friendship to something more is not very easy because it is possible to ruin a great friendship. I would wait to see if he makes a move first.
2007-02-05 08:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by zumi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi just ring him up and talk to him he is probably feeling really down because of yesterday ,he wont reject you he is your friend ,explain to him that you couldnt talk infront of your father and if you do like him ,think carefully before you ask him out ,just because he got you something for valentines doesnt mean he fancies you .saying that though can you really be mates with the other sex without wanting something more?
2007-02-05 09:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, just say sorry and get him something nice for V.day. If he is nice, he'll accept you whether you said that or not. Tell him what happened and why you said that. You seem like a sweet girl if you couldn't sleep because you were too worried about him. And oh ya, ALSO tell him that. Trust me, it'll make him feel better. And about your FIN (friend in need) tell SOMEONE!!!! tell anybody that can help. If she gets mad at you...WHO CARES...tell her that you just saved her life. And tell your guy-friend that you didn't want to tell him right-there-right-now because your dad was there. hope it goes well!!! Happy Valentine's Day!!!
2007-02-05 09:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize!
2007-02-05 08:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had best find a way to apologize...and do not rush into a bf/gf relationship with him.....this will ruin a friendship. He needs to know why you bit his head off.....your friend needs help and it is in your hands.....you have to tell someone...yes she will be really p.o.ed, but you are saving her life. This is you duty as her friend.She needs help because whatever is bothering her is still going to be there and she needs to find another way of dealing with the pain and stress other than cutting.....YOU HAVE TO TELL.....IF YOU CARE ANYTHING ABOUT HER....YOU HAVE TO.
2007-02-05 08:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a heartfelt apology, explain why you yelled at him and hope for the best.
BTW, you should tell someone about your friend. She needs help and keeping quiet is not the way to go.
2007-02-05 08:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl.. plz do push aside ur pride and confusion and do dis most honest and simple thing.. APOLOGIZE to him.. by all means, try to get him to listen to u.. leave him a voicemail if he didnt pick up his phone, sent him an email, go over to his place.. anyting to prove ur sincerity and explained to him da reason for ur outburst.. dun need to tell him da truth bout ur gerlfren's prob, juz say its a personal thing (a confidence between frenz), i'm sure he will undastand since u insists he's a nice guy.. then if u wanna opened up bout ur feelings towards him, go ahead but let him noe that u're willing to face rejection but still strong enuff to be his best fren.. so best of luck babe.. hopefully, there's sparks between both of u on valentine's day!!
2007-02-05 09:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by fizadora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get him alone and explain to him why u were upset and why u couldnt tell him then. he'll understand if he really is a nice, caring guy. then ask him how he really feels about u once u get everything else taken care of...
2007-02-05 08:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you need to tell him whats going on and why you yelled.You need to tell an adult about your fiend.That is serious I know I had a friend who did.If you really do care then tell them and tell someone who can help.Tell your crush you really like him and if he doesn't you still want to be his friend.
2007-02-05 08:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by loved by teddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋