my crush gave me his number so we can keep in touch but i sent him a message a couple of days before but he didn't reply..i thought with him giving me his number might be a good sign but it turns out it isn't...i'm really so disappointed and i can't help thinking what's wrong..i've tried keeping myself really busy so i won't have the time to think about it..i didn't say anything to scare him off and he sounded really friendly and enthusiastic when we chatted through mails..what happened??
2007-02-05 00:49:07 · 11 answers · asked by Larissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pick up and move on, if he likes you he will call, and if not, then its not worth making him like u
2007-02-05 00:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is not the most comforting answer in the world but it is true that "sometimes that is just the way things are".
There are a pleothora of reasons that he might not have replied... and none of them have to do with an emotional state. He could have not received the message, or may have been busy, or may not have had his phone with him.
Don't worry about scaring someone off and do not be disappointed. Maybe this is the best way to learn a very valuable lesson... people may not be the same as they appear online.
Hang in there... best of luck.
2007-02-05 08:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by Undergroundmann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet, a couple of days isnt all that long.There could be a number of valid reasons why he hasnt got in touch. Dont rely so heavily on someone elses response or opinion of you to make you happy. Nothing will scare someone off quicker than the pressure of having to be responsible for another persons every emotion. That is hard work for something so new. This sounds like the start of a relationship, take it easy, relax and enjoy its freshness and fun.
2007-02-05 08:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by madgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you have only met this person threw the internet. And he gave you his # for you to call so he could mess with you. Sounds to me like you have found a predator. Do not call the # he may have caller id and can trace you. It would be nice to catch this person though. If you have guts enough to go to an adult, and find out for sure. Many young girls would thank you.
2007-02-05 08:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAD THIS SAME PROB!!! he gives me his # and then he winds up carrying some other girls stuff and following her like a lost puppy with no where to go!! i think its cause he found out i was "clean" if ya know what i mean
2007-02-05 08:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is blowing you off. It is possible he found someone else. I would just forget about him and move on.
2007-02-05 08:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is seeing things in the positive way, think of a positive way to solve the problem, always be happy, guys don't like girls that is not always happy............
And you gotta tell him why he didn't reply back......
2007-02-05 09:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not be sad you should be brave and continuing to send message one more time. he can have problem with time to sending you message try one more time
2007-02-05 08:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by merve1433 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just really busy ..... give it some time . maybe he did not expect you to call so soon .....
2007-02-05 08:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh sad
2007-02-05 08:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋