the ex wants to try again. have any of you ever gone back to a ex hubby after a year of each dating others? someone slap me ..please... i'm falling for a ex.
2007-02-05 01:58:03 · 29 answers · asked by skylinerose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes you need to be slapped.
They are x's for a reason
2007-02-05 02:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My ex and I went back two days after Divorce. We are engaged and trying to fix things so we can get married in near future.
I am 59 years old and she is 47. We were married 10 years and there was just no communication between us. I know I love her completely and believe she feels the same about me.
We don't live together but about 15 minutes apart. I am disabled and not working. She has a lot of work with her job as a regional manager and we don't see much of each other. She calls when she has time but it seems it isn't very often. I don't say nothing because I do want us to get things right and be together. She usually comes to my place once a week and spends the night on some occasions. I would like more but will not push the issue.
If you feel the love is there I would go for it. Sounds like your ex has the same thoughts you do. Give it a try and see what happens. You only go around once and the time is shorter than you know.
I don't think the love ever stops even if Divorced. Some couples get angry and hide the love but I'm sure it is most often still there. Love can't be shut off and on. Believe me if it could there would be a lot less hurt for both partners.
You both have to agree the past is gone and not bring up things that cause hurt and doubts. Start fresh and forget the past.
2007-02-05 10:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by Chuck H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went back to an ex-boyfriend who became a hubby. It was a big mistake. He was worse after we got married. I have since had to move to another state to get away from him. Don't waste your time on giving the ex another chance. Move forward, not backwards. Keep in mind the reason he was an ex to begin with. You will be much happier if you move on and find someone new. Thank you and good luck.
2007-02-05 10:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope and I would have more self respect than that. Exs are ex for a damn good reason and as he is an ex hubby you even went as far as to get divorced so what makes you think the probs you had first time round have now gone?
Wake up!
2007-02-05 10:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the easy solution.
If you went through a divorce, surely it wasnt without a ton of thinking. Did he leave you? Couldnt he have dated others while you were separated? Are you a glutton for punishment? You didnt give enough info so it would be hard to advise u if you properly re:compatibility. Once the romance and taboo of it all is gone and the ole guy is back, why will things be different?
2007-02-05 10:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Variant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is and ex for a reason...why, we don't know! However, you married him for a reason also - i'm assuming you were in love with him. Sometimes leaving someone is exactly what it takes for them to realize what they had. Only you know what is going on in your life. Whatever the reasons are that you left him, be sure those same things won't effect your relationship with him again. Do you love him? Are you commited to him and the relationship? Do you believe he feels the same way? If you answered yes, then GO FOR IT! Life is too short to worry about what if......don't let that happen.
Good luck!
2007-02-05 10:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand where the other people who answered are coming from but let me tell you once thing: I used to believe that relationships are like glass: once it is broken you can fix it. But human beings are different. It is NOT a good idea to go back to an exboyfriend/girlfriend however, if this person has changed and evolved I don't see why not. I mean, each one of us deserve a second chance. It is up to you to see if he has changed or he is still the same person. And from there you can judge.
2007-02-05 10:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jay C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember what were the reasons that you two got a divorce in the first place instead of separating? There had to be something major to have happened. Also, if it was something that your ex did, how would you ever really know that he wouldnt do it again? There can only be so much trust.
2007-02-05 10:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by prodigy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do reruns? There is a reason WHY he is your "ex." You cannot teach an old dog new tricks. Move on. You would only be living in the past and subconsciously dwelling on the issues that were the demise the first go-around.
2007-02-05 10:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your falling for your ex u dont need to be slapped.. Allll you need is to realize why it didn't work in the first place and see if the same problems or other problems are still their.
2007-02-05 10:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by *amber* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did the 5 fingers say to the face of the delusional girl who tried to get back with her ex?? SLAP!
2007-02-05 10:01:54 · answer #11 · answered by fluffyhead42 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋