Been in a relationship with this guy for about two years. Our love is straight out of poetry. Problem is I'm having some problems controlling my physical impulses. I'm too young to have sex but when we've been together for a while I have a really hard time thinking about something besides wanting to see him without a shirt on.
I'm trying to limit our time together and get more people involved but I'm having a really hard time combatting the power of my teenaged reproductive instincts.
2007-02-05 01:56:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's natural as a teenager to have hormonal instincts and want to experience different things. HOORAY, though, for you for understanding you are too young and not ready for sex yet. It can be a powerful thing and I am glad you are controlling yourself.
Although it is hard, it can be controlled. Kissing, hugging, etc. can all lead to "sexual thoughts" depending on how intimate they are. I'd talk to your partner about it and tell him that you're too young and not ready for sex and see if you two can come up with a conclusion on how to control it, he may have the same feelings you do.
You don't always have to limit time together to stop this powerful feeling, you can just limit the intimate things such as deep kissing and what not.
Go out in groups, do things that involve actually DOING something, such as skating, going to a park, etc. and what not.
Keep your head high and let your mental powers beat it. I'm sure everything will work out for the best.
2007-02-05 02:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by aliciamarie88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋