Like you have shared your life with this person for x # of years,but s/he act like they don't even know you when you see in the public place. You have shared your most intimate time with this person, and now they don't even look at you!!
2007-02-05 02:49:35 · 20 answers · asked by Paige_2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It probably helps them move on and focus on their next steps in life. If they still focused on their ex, they would not be able to move on.
2007-02-05 02:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because the couple or atleast one of them in that relationship thought they would be together always and then when one did the unthinkable and changed and didn't want to be in the relationship anymore; it really affected deeply the other person. It affected them in a way that made them feel at that time like they were living in the twilight zone. For awhile they would keep saying to themselves why is this happening. So, to get over that person and really accept that they are no longer a couple they had to start acting like a stranger because just being friends isn't what they had wanted. The whole thing does seem bizzare considering you shared intimate times together and if it was a marriage a commitment and vows had been made.
2007-02-05 03:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Tgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases a break up ends with a lot of tension between two people. So to protect your feelings and your ego you try to forget about this person that you cared about so much. The truth is it takes time to heal a broken heart, and the longer you are together the more time it takes. When someone is ignoring an ex it's because they are trying to heal and protect themselves from vulnerability. It's a shame that being friends is so hard after a break up. But from experience time heals all wounds, and a friendship can grow once hurt feelings have subdued.
2007-02-05 02:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sharisse F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of like you never met them before. Just think of it like this-you started dating someone and ended up being together for a long time; you break up; now you have no clue how you are supposed to act with this person. You have no idea how to be their friend, but at the same time you can no longer be "with them" in that way as a boyfriend or girlfriend, so the only thing that beginds to make sense to you is to pretend they do not exist and try to move on. That is from personal experience. I dated my best friend and we broke up, now we have no type of relationship b/c we both forgot how to be "friends". When we see one another in the halls, we do not acknowledge eachother. It sucks but in a way it is LIFE. I hope I shed some light on this subject for you.
2007-02-05 02:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a couple breaks up one person is always left heartbroken, even on a so called "good breakup", I don't believe there is such a thing and some people try and fake thier feelings and be friends but that probably just hurts more so it's easier to just try and not talk to or think about that person until you are completely over them.
2007-02-05 02:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jaffar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 11:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by persaud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they never really took the time or cared to get to know the person during the years they were together. You can live with a person for years and not really know them at all if you do not communicate and learn to talk and really get to know the one you are abiding with. This is why not just sex is the answer to a marriage or relationship.... Intimacy is talking and getting to know the person and taking the time to let them get to know you as well... Love is spelled time.
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2007-02-05 03:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurt feelings. From what I've seen no matter what the circumstances both parties end up feeling like they were the one who was wronged, usually the blame is shared equally, but no one is going to want to admit that. So they're both angry and hurt and would just rather pretend the other person doesn't exist.
2007-02-05 02:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a relationship breaks up, at least one person is hurt, possibly angry, definitely uncomfortable around their former mate. It's too difficult at times to know what to say (or refrain from saying) and emotions are raw. It's just best to try to move on with some dignity left and that often calls for nothing more to be said, nothing more to be done.
2007-02-05 02:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know something that is a great question I was married and I saw my ex the other day I went up to her and and asked her how she was doing AND SHE WAS ALL SMILES we hugged each other I knew that she was getting married and I told her that I heard that she was getting married and she said she was and that was that you do put a lot into a relationship but when it,s over with that person you have to let it go and I think that is what people do
2007-02-05 02:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
therewere feeling there that nobody wants to admit there for it is easier to just ingore the fact that person is there. I know the felling I'm dealing with it myself right now. It sucks but there is really nothing you can do intill that person grows up and stops being childish.
2007-02-05 03:31:14 · answer #11 · answered by tootallclint 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋