My girlfriend uses a vibrator! She says it's just a different sensation and there's no need for me to feel inadequate, but i wonder why she needs this when she already has me? I have even used it on her during love making! I'm assured i'm well endowed and i push all the right buttons for her so i can't understand the need to use this! I don't get a straight answer from her, am i being stupid? I just want to understand what it does for her that i don't! I realise i'm setting myself up for a great deal of ridicule here but i could do with some reasurrance from a third party cause my girlfriend would tell me anything just to get me to shut up.
2007-02-05 02:07:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you masturbate? Have you looked at porn? Is it a different sort of pleasure than actual sexual relations?
That's all vibrators are about, a different sort of sexual pleasure. It's all just different flavours of ice cream.
Glad you're joining in with her though, vibrators can be a fantastic addition to a couples sex life
2007-02-08 20:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jugular 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my friend, consider that there are more vibrators in America than golf clubs according to what Ive read. Women love them...and most Ive known love the sensation. Take it as a compliment that she sexually charged. Im sure you had something to do with it. Go with it.
2007-02-06 18:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by Boatman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a man that I love dearly and a vibrator... it is a totally different sensation, niether one is better as they are both different, she may have it to use when your not around and she gets horny, but at the end of the day it doesnt compare to a loving touch and cuddle, dont be threatened by it, use it to enhance your sex life every now and then (my fella also likes me to use it in his balls, its a great feeling - try it.. together)
2007-02-06 09:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by irish_jipper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it probably does give a different sensation, and a lot of couples use them together, you shouldnt feel inadeqate at all, im sure you do satisfy her
2007-02-06 10:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey dont worry we use them all the time, its great for him and me. you have your toys usually cars and computers etc and we have ours vibes and things...have fun and experiment, try using it on your b@lls when shes on top x
2007-02-08 17:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi don't worry Hun all ladies have toys its not about you at all,its about her.
2007-02-06 04:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by karen. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋