I was in a realtionship for 5 years with a women that i love very much. we had our problems just like any other realtionship. but when she found out that i had to go to jail for 28 days her whole additude changed about everything. The things she said she wasn't going to do anymore she is out doing. she saying so of the most mean and hate full things a person could say to another person. And now won't even talk to me. We have a 1 year old son together and she won't even talk to me about him. She says she will deal with me after i get out. Untill that time tuff ****. Why is she being this was. Can anybody tell me?
2007-02-05 02:07:43 · 8 answers · asked by tootallclint 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you are a loser. That may have had something to do with it.
This guy is funny. He e-mailed me some illiterate rambling then threatened me. And said if I only knew who he was I would not say what I just did. I am so scared, I may have to eat a bag off M&M's on my own. He has several other letters on here that do not jive with this one. I guess he really is a loser.
2007-02-05 02:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jim R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have reproduced, you can get yourself into jail, but she is being mean. Sounds like you may have taken a POOR ME pill today. Obviously you did not take a literate pill. Grow up you little punk. I see you threatened someone over the internet. I can only laugh at that, you must really be a tough (tuff) guy.
Don't spend too much time in the shower.
2007-02-05 07:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both need to grow up, that poor baby has parents that can't even act like adults. I'm sorry , I don't mean to be mean but I always get out raged when people drag children into this world and they not even close to being good parents. Stop this nonsense and get away from her. Go to family court and start child support and visitations with your child. Show your baby you are all grown up and are doing what is best for them.
2007-02-05 02:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have internet access in Jail? What is this world coming to?
And she is acting like that because you are a convicted criminal. She is a tad bit upset that your flagrant disrespect for the law and civil society is affecting her and her son.
Maybe she expects her son's father to act like one and set an example worthy of praise and merit...not 28 days in jail.
2007-02-05 02:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by jw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her mood and expression is a result of the pain she is feeling -- because she is let down by your actions. She felt she could trust you to be above the law -- and be there for your son -- but your actions have shown her otherwise -- and that let down is hurting her more deeply than words can express.
She now knows you may not always be there for her son. If you've done it once, who is to say you won't do it again? That's what she is thinking. The fear of knowing she may be the only parents -- may be overwhelming her. The responsibility is HUGE.
When people get angry and mad -- it's a sign of pain. This is her way of expressing her pain -- though she may not even be conscious of it.
You are one who violated the trust of the relationship, put yourself over your son by committing a crime of sorts -- and with that -- you are the person who brought on this situation in your relationship and hurt your family. While it may be painful -- you must look at it this way. With that, you are one who owes her time to heal, space to accept what happened and an apology -- not only to her -- but to your son.
When we violate people -- we must give them time and space to heal ON THEIR TERMS and wait and hope they will give us the time to truly apologize. That is all you can ask for.
In the meantime, even when she shows you anger -- express your sorrow and true apology as many times as she needs to hear it -- without any anger or resentment. That's the only option you are left with -- if you want to work things out with your family. A true apology will give time, understanding, patience and space -- for as LONG AS IT IS NEEDED.
2007-02-05 02:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by Eyes 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We can't tell you until you tell us what you went to jail for. I can't imagine someone changing so drastically if there was no cause for it. Perhaps you should tell the whole story if you want advice. Thank you and good luck.
2007-02-05 02:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by cookie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relationships are diffucault because that is the way people wish for them to be.
and you have to go to jail for what ?????????????
is she justified even a little???
if not then get a lawyer and kick her out, keep the kid and get on with your life,
if she has a right to feel this way then you move and get a lawyer.
2007-02-05 02:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello..earth to jailbird.....
2007-02-05 02:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋