i have known this guy since 6months... we both love each other alot and we both are committed to each other but the only thing that scares the hell out of him is his ultra orthodox n strict parents.it will b really hard to please them .... we also know that with this commitment we should give each other atleast 3years more cuz then we both will b settled career wise n will grow mature too. but what after that? he does not want to marry anyother girl but how should i boost his strength to b positive.what should i do? we cant leave each other cuz of family problems but he is always scared to go against his parents. i become unstable cuz of his problems.i am ready to face probs coming in our relations but still what should i do? how can i help him to gain strength n wateva thats required.?
2007-02-05 00:18:41 · 5 answers · asked by natalie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is holding u back..forget the mummys boy and find a real man.
2007-02-05 00:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to me it sounds like the two of you have different wants. that's a big deal. and a relationship can only work if both of you try to make it work. you're running yourself in circles.
2007-02-05 08:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to sit down and talk and explain thay you're gonna be there to help him through anything.
2007-02-05 08:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dear u r very good n matured to say this... I think u know wht to do. U r good enough to impress ur in-laws. good luck.
2007-02-05 08:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by bindu m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"I pity the fool!"
Mr. T
2007-02-05 08:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋