A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He told me I was too werd.
2007-02-05 00:10:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I think he is using the term "weird" to say that he is confused by the whole situation. He thought that it would be perfectly fine to go out with you and still keep the friendship, but he realized that it couldn't happen.
2007-02-05 00:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by B-Dogg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just trying to use you for sex. Don't feel bad about what you wrote - he's the weird one. Just ignore him, and get on with your life. Work is no place to find a guy anyways - keep your personal and professional lives separate. That way, if it doesn't work out, you've lost nothing. If some guy called me weird - that would be his last opportunity to speak with me. I would never acknowledge his existance again. Hold your head up high - and find a real man.
2007-02-05 00:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is that this guy has a girl friend! You need to realize that if the 2 of you were saying dirty things to one another that he was only thinking of getting a piece of a** from you, and not a friendship. You could have gotten played! Good thing you never slept with him! Just have some respect for yourself, and do yourself a favor, and act as if this guy never existed. He doesn't want to be with you, he wants to be with his girlfriend, he only wants to screw you!
2007-02-05 00:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
attracting a man is not throwing yo self to him,rule number one.his seen how desparate u are gettin him & some men find this a little uncalled for,piss him off and stop texting him,apologizing,u are undecided,
2007-02-05 00:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about what has all happen and just go to work like nothing happen, maybe when it is all forgotten you two can just be friends. go out and have fun with other people. good luck.
2007-02-05 00:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a real fu**er! yeah and *****le too!
forget about him ,do you need it? don't humiliate yourself!he didn't love you and I think never 'll !
all he wanted was your body and not your person!
look around and you'll find smb , who'll really deserve your love!
2007-02-05 00:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by woo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go completely you don't need someont like that in your life he aint nothing but a user from the sound of it.
2007-02-05 00:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to boink you. What can't you figure out? Either give him some or get off the pot.
2007-02-05 00:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is weird and immature..u dont need him in ur life..talk to him only when u have to.
2007-02-05 00:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it doesn't sound like you're weird....just trashy.
2007-02-05 00:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋