i had a sex buddy a couple of months back, we had sex, said goodbye and that was it. recently tho he's been in touch with me saying how he wants us to meet up again he texts me crude texts. i wudn't mind meeting him again..... if i was single! i'm happy with my boyfriend, id never cheat on him ever! what shud i say to the other bloke shud i just tell him i got a boyfriend? will he leave me alone then?i haven't been replying to his texts at all. plz help.
2007-02-05 00:08:29 · 18 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him know u have a boyfriend that u r faithful too.
2007-02-05 00:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are seeing someone else, if he was just casual he won't be too distraught and being open and honest could always open the door again if you become single later.
As for the crude texts, there is never a right time for a crude text let him know that you don't appreciate the crude texts at all. If he's persisting you can contact your phone company and have his number blocked from yours or if that doesn't work you can always just get a new number.
2007-02-05 00:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by Diz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should say you have a boyfriend!
By saying nothing at all, you're not doing a great deal to dissuade the guy, are you? Unless you want him hanging around? Do you secretly like the attention? Do you want him as a safety net if things don't pan out with your boyfriend?
If your answer is "no", then what are you waiting for? Just text this other guy back saying you have a boyfriend and you're not interested. Simple, huh?
2007-02-05 00:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by rock_and_roll_machine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that before you were single and that you both agreed it was a bit of fun. Now you've got a boy friend and you are happy things are different. I wouldn't take his texts too personal as he probably sees it as more fun than crude (obviously I don't know what he put so I'm just guessing here) becuse he doesn't know you spoken for - if he carries on giving you grief then tell your BF, you wouldn't want anyone else telling him as he might think your cheating
Good Luck PCX
2007-02-05 00:24:29 · answer #4 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell him you have a boyfriend and you can't come out to play at the moment. Don't leave things on a sour note as he could come in handy in the future!!
2007-02-05 00:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by gsladenyc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right not to cheat on your boyfriend.Just say to him that you have a boyfriend now and although you would like to stay friends but nothing else will happen,and leave it at that.As for his texts just ignore them and delete them,dont even answer them.good luck and i hope it sorts itself out.
2007-02-05 00:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by alithebimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the facts-you have a boyfriend,you have no interest in spending anytime with him and do not appreciate his texts at all,and you would appreciate it if he would lose your number and stop harrassing you.
2007-02-05 00:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you have a boyfriend who you are very happy with, and that you will no longer be needing his services!
2007-02-05 00:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by hell_ova_arse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u have a bf now and are not interested.
don't mention anything else, like how u would meet him if u were single etc.
2007-02-05 03:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have a boyfriend and he should get the message. If not, let your boyfriend see the text messages - he should then sort it out for you....
2007-02-05 00:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by mark 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋