is he playing me?

Question

iv been seeing this guy for a couple of months now i can tell he likes me but when i asked him out he said no, he's always saying he miss'es me and really likes me but just wants to be friends with exras is he just using me?

Answer 1

He isnt playing you, he is manipulating you. And why, cos he is proposfully giving you mixed messages. Friends with extras is fine if that is what both people want. The fact that you are asking this question would indicate that you are not one of those people. Get rid of him. He is not a friend and the only extra your getting is stressed and low self esteem.

Answer 2

Yes he's playing you. He won't go out with you but he misses you. That is a load of bull! It's most certain that he wants to be friends, but you better watch out what kind of "extras" he is going after. That's a crude pick up line if there ever was one! He's a worm to use it on anyone. You know that once he has his way with you, he will be through with you. Once he has sampled those extras he won't miss you any longer and you will be history. So for a change let it be you who says no. Keep your dignity and self respect and don't sell yourself short. Learn to know and like yourself better than what he is telling you.

Answer 3

I would say he's just using you. He may not even be doing it on purpose, or might not even realize what he's doing, but it just so happens he want's you , but not all of you. If you aren't in it for the same reasons, I'd suggest leaving him. Just tell him it's the whole package or nothing.

Answer 4

Probably. If a guy really wanted you - there would be no need for you to invite him anywhere. You need to read the book "The Rules". It gives some great guidelines on making yourself hard to obtain - and make him jump through hoops. This way you only get men that really want you - for you. When he says he "misses" you - it's only words. If he missed you - he'd be there. Period.

Answer 5

No, you're just clueless about him. He's apparently not that into you and you make yourself look bad by trying to hang on to him. Trust that when a guy says he only want to be friends, he's not even interested in playing you. Get away from him before you get your feelings hurt for real.

Answer 6

Personally i think that he is not sincere since he said "no", he seems to be like someone to talk only when he has desires having in mind that you might fulfill the desires he has..., and if you insists in this situation thinking you might change things,you might be very hurt in the future dear...learn to discern his true intentions... don`t let yourself be used because you are precious...

Answer 7

hhhmmm well lets see.......have you ever liked someone that you knew liked you and still just wanted to be friends??? NO WAKE UP have you ever heard the phrase {ole stand by} cause that's what he is using you for! you need to move on, you are nothing to him but a piece of a** sorry for the bluntness but it's the truth

Answer 8

trust me shy1 if a guy says he only wants to be friend with extras that exactly what he means.he don't see you as a person that he wants to be in a relationship with but does not mind to be friend with extras

Answer 9

How can anyone knows their partner likes them? Even if they say so, can u believe 100% of it? He can say it doesn't mean he meant it....maybe he just wanna be ur friend and nothing more or maybe teasing u.

Answer 10

If he has had months to commit to a relationship with you then I would say YES. When a guy says that he just wants a "F" buddy then he usually means it. My advice is to lose him cause he is just wasting your time when you could be with someone who deserves you.