is this wrong? your personal opinion please?

Question

why do i only seem to be happy when im with my boyfriend? how come i have a hard time having fun with my friends when im just constantly thinking about my boyfriend? im in high school and ive been with him for a year and a half and i know i need a equal balance between my friends and my boyfriend. its just im spending so much less time with my friends and i feel almost bored with them. is this weird? im just worried because if something did happen with my boyfriend and we broke up i wont really have anyone ...... :[

Answer 1

supermans wife's right - sounds like you're loved up! don't worry, you're normal, it happens to us all once in a while. it's not wrong, but we only realise how much it hurts when our friends start doing it to us lol

Answer 2

1) Abortion is always a choice. Someone owns it. The rare cases of abortion being a necessity are few and far between... unless you find the right professional. Like, shockingly enough, a doctor who provides abortions or a complicit and biased mental health professional. 2) Abortion is birth control. You're ending a pregnancy... for whatever reason you might assert. 3) Infertile people (women).... don't have abortions (is how that statement ends). 4) Disabilities shown on scan... can be wrong. Does the name Tim Tebow ring a bell? You know what's odd? I work in the mental health field... heavily populated by progressives who believe abortion is a sacred cow. These are the same people who readily accept (and protect) funding for providing services to (Surprise!) people with developmental disabilities. I guess all life has value... when it's your bread and butter. 5) Financial problems: CONDOMS ARE FREE. And, yes, I know they aren't fullproof. It just seems abortion as birth control is generally the answer to an initial lack of responsibility. And I don't believe the general populatioin should perpetuate a welfare state, but eugenics is not the answer. 6) Statistics: Margaret Sanger's war on the brown races has been fairly successful. This is absolutely shameful and I don't care what mental gymnastics you engage in, abortion proponents in the U.S. initially targetted people of color and have succeeded in making blacks the most statistically prone demographic to abort in the U.S. Now that's progressive! Right or wrong, it's legal. I believe abortion is ugly, but it's one of those human behaviors you cannot legislate or pray away. I don't believe it should ever receive public funding.... your choice, your bill. I also believe the cut off date should be the age of viability. Infantacide should never be tolerated. An arbitrary timeline should be set (say up to 4 1/2 months) and any action taken after that should be treated as murder... with the mother and all those involved charged.

Answer 3

You have to remember that your friends are just as important - if not more important - than your boyfriend is. It's easy to screw up a relationship, and much more difficult to lose a friendship. Try getting your friends to do the things you want to do the next time you hang out with them.. maybe that will be more entertaining for you when you're around them. Plus, just communicate with your friends. They're your friends, they'll listen. (Or they should.) Talk with them and maybe you'll see that they're not all that boring after all.

Answer 4

You're feeling insecure for some reason......perhaps your b/friend is a little Controlling and doesn't like your friends..therefore you are seeing different things in your friends that never bothered you before. You are right, if something happens with you and your boyfriend .....Who will You have to turn to*

Remember this......Boyfriends come and go....True Friends will Always be there* You need to regroup again with your friends and if they're starting to "BORE " you...you need to ask yourself WHY? and perhaps choose different friends. Perhaps YOU bore them also* Perhaps YOU have changed in many ways, being with this boyfriend* I would think about those questions.
GOODLUCK

Answer 5

I'm in your boat. I've been in love for over a year and we both love spending so much time together it's all we do, so we don't see our friends too often. Sometimes it sucks but it usually doesn't because we're so happy being together. It's not weird. Just TRY to hang out with your friends more often.

I have to force myself to make plans with other people because ALL I want to do is be with him, and when I am with my friends I just think about "when is this over so I can see him again." It's not exactly healthy but... do what you have to do to be happy.

Answer 6

It might insecurity. I'm sure your bf gives you lots of attention when you two are together whereas when you are with your friends you're treated more like just one of the gang. Since you're still in highschool, chances are high that you will break up. Not trying to be mean, it's just a fact so remember that romance comes and goes but friends are for life!

Answer 7

I was like that in high school.. it got to a point where I would just wave hi to my friends as they passed by. But I wouldnt really talk to them anymore. My boyfriend and I were together for 3 years and guess what we broke up!...and that day I didnt know who to hang around with. My friends where with their friends and I was like the whole school knew me but I felt like an intruder just all of a sudden trying to be friends with them. I regret it so much. I wish I would have hung out with my friends and boyfriend. What you can do is go out with youre friends and youre boyfiend together. Don't give up your high school experience for a guy. I did and I regret it
********Lizzy

Answer 8

Cassidy, Nothing is wrong with that. You should spend some more time with you gurlyfriends, spend the next week or so just with the gurlies, only talk to your boy friend for one hour a night on the fone, atleast until u feel closer with your gurlies!

Answer 9

well you obviously love this guy if you want to be with him all the time, what i usualy do is make a weekly schedule on mondays to fridays with relationship on sat and sun with friends, that way on the monday im excited to see the relationship again.....but we always keep in contact sms or calls.
however if your boyfriend seem happy to be with you 24 hours a day then that great....friends you just involve them up to a certain extent.

this message is coming from a stuck up rich boy.....im actualy advising somebody

Answer 10

im a senior in high school and my boyfriend is in college..
i've found that after he left i really didn't have many friends because i usually hung out with his friends (who are now in college) for this reason, i am doing full time post secondary.
i work part time, volunteer, and go to school. on the weekends i find myself watching movies by myself or studying.
...personal experience