yeah so me and my girlfriend always have work and then our days off we jsut want to spend time with each other weve been together now for 10 months
with wanting to spend our free time with each other and everything
our friends think we are both whipped and that we have no life
and my girlfriend is starting to take that into a little more consideration
ARE WE MISSING OUT ON SOMETHING GREAT???
bc we both miss our friends and being able to party
but she doesnt really liek ANY of my friends and i liek only about HALF of her friends
i jsut dont know what to do
2007-02-05 04:36:52 · 8 answers · asked by umm hahah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all her friends are guys
she has no "girl" friends
and at first i was always pissed for her hanign gout with guys all the time when i was at work
but afterr hanign out wiht them for awhile i noticed nothing would ever happen
and shes known all them
and their "clik" has been together since like 5th grade
2007-02-05 04:51:22 · update #1
It's important for any couple to have time together, time together with others and even some time apart. Maybe you can befriend some other couples? Look at this as an opportunity to see how the two of you work things out. A healthy relationship isn't a dependency, it's about two individuals who choose to share their time together but also respect the needs and growth of one another.
2007-02-05 04:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by °ĠיִяĿỵ° 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not missing out on anything special. Spend time with each other because you could be together for a long time. Maybe not, but maybe so- I don't know you two. High school isn't the greatest time of your life. There are more important things.
Don't pay attention to what your "friends" say, it's really uncool of them.
2007-02-05 12:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what makes you happy. If you are happy spending time with her then that's what you should be doing. Friends just get jealous when someone is consuming most of your time so they will always say that your whipped. You should try and compromise. Maybe you can have guy's night on Friday night & she can have girl's night, the same night and then Saturday you guys can spend together. Good luck!
2007-02-05 12:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jess_DH13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're both missing out. Once you had a full social life, and now you're basically stuck with one another. What you need to do is set aside some time just for the two of you, and spend the rest of it at work and with your friends. You need to get your life back.
2007-02-05 12:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick days were u wit each other on days of and days wen u with your friends and try to mix the two like group things!! All together u'd b surprised wat can happen but as far as a serious relationship in high school naw they don't last so just don't waste ya life away
2007-02-05 12:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by monique b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree to have a few days out of every week (or month, or whatever) where you'll just spend time with your friends and not with each other. You with your friends, and her with her friends.
2007-02-05 12:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by Remi Hime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need to meet each others friends more often, you will get to like them if you want the happy balance.
2007-02-05 12:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fck her hard
2007-02-05 12:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋