My spouse is very suspect. He's starting to not answer his cell phone when I call him at work, stays over 2 hours at Masonic meetings, has an excuse for why he can't use his cellphone at work on base, every time we have a conversation he turns it into an argument and blames it on me. He even states that I cook too much. He went to a Masonic meeting in L.A. this weekend , left home around 5am(to carpool), I called him at 3pm no answer, he calls at 5pm. His reason for not calling, again, he could not take the phone in the building. What would you did in this situation to skin this cat?
2007-02-05 04:26:12 · 5 answers · asked by dwanal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to stay calm and stop letting him see you sweat.....If he is cheating believe me he will get sloppy with it......Maybe he's telling you the truth....leave him alone and stop being paranoid treat him with love and stop filling your head with negativity......Believe me if he's cheating it will come to the light but stop worrying yourself if you don't have any proof....Love the man. Do your part......and enjoy your life...when he sees that you are occupying yourself he's going to wonder what's going on with you and you will probably get the attention you desire from him....just stay calm and stop trying to find something wrong.....Think positive and positive things will happen for you :) Likewise with negativity :(.....good luck!
2007-02-05 04:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by Cookie48 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you may be paranoid. I've dated a few military guys in the past. Cell phones are sometimes not allowed...maybe he got "caught" recently or they are cracking down. Besides, when did people start thinking that having a cell phone means someone is available 24/7...even at work and meetings?
And reception on the coast is not great. I used to lose the signal in my apartment all the time, and there was tower next door!
Try to be a little more trusting.
You never took your home land line to work and plugged it in did you?
2007-02-05 12:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by sweetsouth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do anything. Why do you WANT your husband to be cheating? You obviously do not trust him at all. How very sad.
If you suspect him of cheating, simply confront him with your feeling and ask him. Once you have your answer, then decide what to do.
I have a hard time understaind why you put "Military and Masonic" into your question. If anything, both keep him extremely busy. I know Masonic Masters and also military men and they are always juggling between work and their Lodges.
2007-02-05 12:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it up, I am sure you will be able to drive him away. I got rid of my cell phone, I am not cheating, when I carry a company cell phone, I often leave it in the car. I find cell phones very annoying.
2007-02-05 13:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's working many people can't answer the phone while they are working. Do you work?? If not then try finding something to fill your time with instead of trying to find problem where there isn't one.
2007-02-05 12:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by luvbugs 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋