Even though I am in a happy relationship my man lacks any emotion and is not very supportive. However everything else is fine. Are all men like this?
2007-02-05 04:26:00 · 18 answers · asked by flamegirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope
2007-02-05 04:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no perfect men or women. We are human. But... a man who is not supportive and who lacks emotion is not a good choice for a husband. So, if you hope to marry one day, find another guy. This one isn't the caring sort. You need a man who cares how you feel and wants to make you happy. You deserve that.
2007-02-05 04:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In answer to your first question, the only perfect man to ever walk this earth was crucified for our sins over 2000 years ago.
In answer to your second: no. Not all men are like that. It could be a result of the way he was raised. If he grew up in a family that did not openly show love, emotion, & support, then he needs to learn how to do that. It takes time. Just don't push the issue and keep showing him love. Counseling may help too. You can't change him, but God can...
2007-02-05 04:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by Romans 8:28 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, guess what! Men do have emotions! Shocking new discovery!
Your man has the ablity to be supportive, loving, romantinc, emotional blah blah blah..but, YOU have to be the one to get thigns rolling.
Men are like plants, they have the seeds, they have the dirt, but they need water and nurture to grow into something beautiful. Us women are water and sunlight. We give them bad poluted water (IE nagging, cutting of from sex, thinking we are better) and no sunlight (compliments..) then that man plant aint going to grow.
But if we give him the right nurtrients, compliments, SEX, well cooked meals, happy children, a clean home a backrub every now and then, that plant is gonna grow to whatever the h*ll we want it to be...
So, maybe you shoudl start to treat your man with a little more love and he will open up more to you...
2007-02-05 05:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the perfect man does not exist. We can officially stop looking for him. I've always heard that if you can find a guy that's 80% of what you are looking for, keep him b/c that's about as good as it's gonna get.
2007-02-05 04:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by kathylouisehall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The perfect man does not exist. The perfect man FOR YOU does, though. Don't look for a perfect man, look for a man who you can love all of his imperfections and who can love yours. Wouldn't it be kind of boring if everything was "perfect".
2007-02-05 04:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by Crabigail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not a perfect man. I wish there was. I think it will come with time. sit down and talk to him about it. mine wasnt very supportive he had emotions but kind of put up the tough man facade
2007-02-05 04:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by Courtney A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a perfect man just like there is no perfect woman! Men are only human just like we are and we need to love and accept them for who they are and not what they are. We need to treat and love them the way that we want to be treated and loved.
2007-02-05 04:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no man that is perfect, there are always going to be things we see we want in our mates, that just aren't there. u just have to weight the good with the things u would like to have improved, and than decide. even if u walk out on him, it doesn't insure the next man won't have different faults.
2007-02-05 04:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the perfect man exists. stand back girls i already have him. just kidding lol. no not all men are like that. maybe hes embarrassed to show any emotion, maybe he is worried how you will react to them. talk to him about it and ask him what his reasons are.
2007-02-05 04:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by Exotic Pink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋