i love my boyfriend but why do i think other guys are so fine??! and why do i think of cheating on him, i mean i wouldnt want him to do that to me but ... i dont know.. i would choose him over any other guy b/c i love him but why do i want to cheat??
2007-02-05 04:25:22 · 25 answers · asked by ~Jayda~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow maybe you don't belong in this relationship. i have been married for 3 yrs, and while i may think a guy that walks by is hot, i don't think, "oh my gosh, i wanna screw him" you need to re-evaluate whether or not you really love him and want to be in this relationship. do it now, before it's a year or so down the road and you end up cheating on him and hurting him
2007-02-05 04:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is definitely bad.
Maybe you're not ready to settle down yet. You need to do some soul searching.
If you feel the need to go out with other guys, do him the favor of breaking up with him first. It will hurt him if you break up with him, but it will kill the trust he has for you if you cheat on him. There is nothing worse than to have someone cheat on you.
If he is as wonderful as you say, he doesn't deserve to be cheated on.
On the other hand, if he is as wonderful as you say, show some restraint. Suppress the feelings that you want to go out with other guys. There is nothing wrong with looking. Everybody looks. Just don't touch!
Don't put yourself in tempting situations. Don't be alone with other boys that you think are so fine.
Make a decision one way or the other. Do you want this wonderful boy you are with, or do you want to date a lot of guys. You can't have it both ways and leave him hanging like a fool. He deserves better than that, or you wouldn't think so much of him.
What ever you do, consider his feelings. How would you feel if the situation was reversed. What would you want him to do?
2007-02-05 12:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Rut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U either dont really love him or u just think other guys are cute to that doesnt mean u want to cheat its just normal but if u really love him do not cheat if u gonna break up with him it will be easier in the long run.
2007-02-05 12:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by chick180 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course it's bad to cheat, if you think that other guys are hot or something like that it's all right but you thinking in cheating him that's definitely not fine, you should go with a psychologist.
2007-02-05 14:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by lizsy_rockin45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking other guys are good looking is one thing, but if you are constantly thinking of cheating on your boyfriend, you shouldn't be with him! Alot of the time, people cheat because they are not getting something out of the relationship they need. Does he not make you feel sexy enough, does he not give you enough attention? Figure out what you are missing - but don't cheat. It's not fair to anyone involved!
2007-02-05 12:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by carrie n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is bad to cheat. You think other guys are attractive which is normal and thinking of cheating... that's ok... If you truly love him, you will not cheat no matter how hard it is, but no one can be mad at you for thinking about something. Just don't make your thoughts become actions.
2007-02-05 12:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Hotdivababe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you loved him for real you wouldnt think of cheating. that is wrong and you know it. if you want to cheat just leave the one you got and go out with the others.
2007-02-05 12:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is... Don't do it especially if you're truly inlove with him. It will hurt as hell. Take it to your grave if you did cheat.... If you tell him it WILL be over trust. Never cheat... If you think you might then end the relationship. That way no one gets hurt... well except u if the person u moved onto is wack.lol
2007-02-05 12:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by NicOOd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to cheat probably because you want your cake and eat it. i imagine your young and have alot of life to live you like the security of having someont to talk and cuddle up to but also like the idea of being promiscuous and exploring the "greener grass". i reckon if you need to experience a little more before settling down let him go before you really hurt him and go out and go mad but if you think stayin with this fella will fulfill your needs forget about cheating b/c i know from experience how hard it is to loose a good thing.
2007-02-05 12:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it bad to cheat? You're kidding me right. Of course it's bad. If you feel the need to shop around, do so, but leave him out of it. You need to end things now with him. It is unfair to him to keep stringing him along all the while you are shopping around. Have enough respect for this guy you think is so great to allow him to move on from you.
2007-02-05 12:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋