I was wondering about relationship contracts, I was watching a show "Still Standing" and they drew up a contract to get their duaghter to do want they wanted. Then the husband drew up a contract for the marriage. do you think it will work? think its a good idea? Why or why not?
2007-02-05 04:27:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lol... some of you are horrible!
No this is my only ID, not reposting. CHECK MY QUESTIONS! DUH!
I seen it on the show and I was curious.
2007-02-05 04:39:31 · update #1
I love that show! and I dont think it will work unless you have an open relationship with the person like they do on the tv show. I think its a funny idea but not so good because its not real.
2007-02-05 04:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by smile114 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It may actually work as you have the contract to show people what they have agreed to and when you sign something, you can always refer back to it and say "see, you said you would do this"... The problem with contracts is that some people don't respect them and blow it off. A contract that is mutually benefical which addresses both of your needs works!
2007-02-05 04:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation, purpose, motives, etc..It will only work if the party involved will participate and stick to the contract. Talk to them and see if they are willing and serious about it. I did one with my family and it worked yet I made sure everyone had their input and that there was a compromise and agreement. We also made sure it was not complicated and too far fetched to meet the contract. (not too many request/demands). Good luck to you.
2007-02-05 04:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to draw up a contract with your boyfriend after you have already been together for a while? If you feel the need to do this to protect yourself, then the relationship is already over.
2007-02-05 04:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I just realized that you wrote that your relationship is in a "runt". Do you know how funny that is?
Let's put it this way, if you are looking for relationship advice from Still Standing, you could be in some trouble. a good relationship does not need a contract.
2007-02-05 04:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Who cares. What people do in there relationship is there business. Apparently, if your relationship was working so well then, you wouldn't be online asking the same question under different multiple yahoo id's Ash worrying about other folks lives. Give it rest already. Your game is lame. Just chill and take care of self.
2007-02-05 04:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Legsology07 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should not force a person to conform to your standards. You're a free woman who can pick any man she chooses. Don't pick a man that needs to be "fixed" pick a man that suits your needs and be done with it.
2007-02-05 04:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by Honesty given here! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUNDS A BIT OLD FASHION... but why not sounds ok to me, seeing as these days society seems to be doing everything else.
2007-02-05 04:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by voniates1st 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋