What would you do or say if you suspected (we'll actually knew) that a workfriends daughter is becoming the local "town bike" and loves to take on half a football team ?
2007-02-05 04:28:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It really depends on if this guy is really a close friend or not.
IF you have a close relationship with him, then I'd sit him down and tell him the things your hearing or possibly seeing.
BUT you have to be careful. Daddies little girl could possibly be acting out early because of something "DADDY" has been doing at home. Keep this in mind if you plan to spill the beans.
2007-02-05 04:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Although it would probably shock me and I would at first be mad at the messenger - ultimately, as a parent, I would hope that if my child were conducting herself in such a way that it was brought to my attention. I hope that I am a good enough parent to really know what's going on with my daughter - I definitely try to be - but if for some reason I dropped the ball or became lax and my daughter was putting herself in this type of situation - which could be dangerous to her health or result in an unwanted and life-thwarting pregnancy, I would want someone to gently let me know.
2007-02-05 12:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by Marvelissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say nothing!
Daddy will find out soon enough on his own. Regardless if you are right, it will ruin your friendship because you will be the one who has imparted the awful, awful news. His first response will be denial and the requirement that you "prove it." If you cannot prove it, then what? Then you've slandered his baby, you've destroyed your friendship, AND you're stuck working with someone who now hates the very sight of you.
Bide your time, act as though nothing is wrong, turn your ear away from any gossip and refuse to be a part of it, hear it, or believe it ~ even if you KNOW it's true ~ ignore it; be above it.
Then, when he finds out (and he will), should he confide in you you will be able to be his friend and offer support. Should he then ask you if you knew about it, you can always say you'd heard bits and pieces of rumor but never from anyone reliable or even memorable and you had always dismissed it because it seemed utterly impossible and ridiculous and you wouldn't have insulted him by even considering it, much less mentioning it.
Oftentimes discretion really is the better part of valor.
2007-02-05 12:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by just common sense 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like "Daddies little girl" is looking for love and attention in all the wrong places.
Saying anything to your coworker will most likely hurt more than doing any good. Sadly, they may already be aware yet dealing with it as if it were not happening.
What or more importantly Who she needs is Christ
2007-02-05 12:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Friend 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were close to them, I would tell them that I had heard rumors about his/her daughter and relate exactly what I had heard. Then I would say I just wanted them to know what was going on and don't know if there is any truth to the rumor. If no closeness existed, I would say nothing.
2007-02-05 13:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Monique M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your aren't on that team, butt out.
You can't tell someone how to act, you don't have that much influence on their lives.
It is unfortunate that the parents obviously didn't teach her and give her what she needed growing up, now she has to seek out love through sex... she doesn't realize what she is doing and is cryi ng out for love and attention.....
Don't blame the kid, she is a product of her environment...... she does what she knows will get her parents attention......
2007-02-05 12:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, i would make sure that i had other proof than just seing it otherwise it is just your word against hers. you could take a picture or something like that. then show him the proof that way he cannot call you a liar and his daughter cannot deny it. this way it covers you. he should appreciate it because by doing this you could be keeping her from getting std's or being raped or something of that nature. i would think that he would be grateful to you. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-05 13:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stay out of it. it's not your daughter so don't worry about it.
but if you must say something, you should say you have heard somethings and are hoping they're just rumours but wanted to tell your work friend because if it was your daughter you'd want to know.
2007-02-05 12:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your workfriend and tell him/her that their daughter is being the "local town bike" like you said.
2007-02-05 12:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by babychula928 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get her a t-shirt that says 'Daddys little Ho'
2007-02-05 13:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋