All of my friends told me that he likes me and is going to ask me out tomorrow... I dont like him and he is my friend so I dont know what to do. How do you turn down someone when they ask you out?
2007-02-05 04:26:55 · 11 answers · asked by Hotdivababe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have been in this situation a ton of times
just tell him u arent ready for a relationship right now
or
im sorry i just like u as friend and nothing more :/
2007-02-05 04:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him that you do not have the same feelings toward him, but that you will always consider him a friend. He may be a bit upset at first. Men's egos are a bit fragile when they feel they have been spurned, but he will understand if he is a true friend, and you may gain a lifelong friendship in the process. Good luck to you.
2007-02-05 12:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by wespectmyauthoritah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By being honest. Too many think that "being kind" means lying to someone. It doesn't. I think more hearts are broken by people who are not honest and state, "Well, I didn't want to hurt his feelings.....so, I told him he's just too sweet for me." No wonder men think there is no way of understanding women. They receive too many mixed messages.
Be honest. Tell your friend you do not think of him in a romantic way, but that his friendship is very important to you. It may sound cliche, but it is a lot nicer than a lie or misinformation which may have him scratching his head for months to come.
2007-02-05 12:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have turnd down some of my guy friends before what i have done is just tell them the truth you just want to be friends and nothing more or nothing less
2007-02-05 12:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by Softball_lover08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The nice thing to do is really be honest with him, don't make an excuse or leave the door open for future attempts, as he may keep trying.
2007-02-05 12:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just hit him right between the eyes with it. Thats the best way. Tell him you are not interested in him that way. Tell him he's only good to worship your cute feet and that's it.
2007-02-05 12:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Submit to her Feet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i had to learn the hard way, the best way is just tell them the truth, otherwise you would just hurt him. just state that you want to be friends and leave it at that.
2007-02-05 12:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Terry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is really hard to do i know, but just tell him you just want to stay friends.
2007-02-05 12:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him how much you enjoy his friendship, and that you would not want to do anything to ruin that.
2007-02-05 12:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jay's Mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him "Sorry, I don't think of you that way," or something like that.
2007-02-05 12:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by Remi Hime 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋