Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

Okay, I have been dating my boyfriend for over 3 yrs. We both have access to each other bank accounts (to look, not to spend). I just looked at his account online, and he just spent $122 on something and another $63 on something else. When I asked he got really defensive and said he loaned his friend some money. That would've worked, but they work together (I work with them too) and everyone just got paid.

For some reason I have a feeling he is hiding something from me. What would you do if you were in this situation?

SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!

2007-02-01 08:03:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a single parent of a 20 mth old, and my child's father is not actively involved in her (our) lives. However, his father calls sometimes and just recently he asked me to assist him on a project. Painfully, I want to reject him because I feel that if he can't get his son to be a man and be more involved in his grandchild's life, then he need not to be contacting me for anything else. Furthermore, I don't want my daughter to have anything to do with his family simply because I don't feel that they have her best interest. Is this 'unfair' on my end?

Thanks.

2007-02-01 08:02:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just have looked around yahoo answers for a while and there are more miserable relationships or problems than I can count. Anyone happy...and if you aren't chime in too. I am looking for a ratio....

2007-02-01 08:02:32 · 16 answers · asked by kishoti 5 in Marriage & Divorce

we've taken a break and we are just freinds , we both don't want new sex partners so we smash from time to time..i want him back as my man but i don't think he's ready..what is a girl to do..i think it's too soon to talk about it. it's only been a month of cool waters

2007-02-01 08:01:45 · 12 answers · asked by yaasmiyn20 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-01 08:01:32 · 20 answers · asked by beckybifpp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

class everyone knows her and loves! and it soo annoying everyone says to her your so cute! And its annoying and its kinda hurts my feelings! before this guy that shes dating used to be soo nice to me and know he turned into and *** and all his friends say that his changed and sometimes when shes not around he turns soo nice again! I dont know what to do and shes my friend and he turned to a stubborn retard! i dont know what to do i need some seriouse help everyone says to her your soo pretty and she put soo much makeup that you can peel it off! people say that they hate her then when they see her start sucking up and say shes beautiful and you know shes realy ugly! I may sound jeolous but im not i just realy dont like her and i dont know what to tell her she like a toothpick and shes says shes fat and everyone is all no your so beautiful and shes sucha slut her skirt is so sort that u can see everything! I realy DONT like her!!!

2007-02-01 08:00:27 · 1 answers · asked by CuriousThing 2 in Friends

Okay so I am getting married and I AM SOOOOOOO EXCITED!!! But anyway...does anyone have any tips on how NOT to be nervous and how to make the big day go as smooth as possible??? I want to get pregnant right away...is that bad?? I've wanted this for so long, I just want a baby....Im so happy and I know I shouldnt rush things I just feel like now is the right time....!!!!

2007-02-01 07:59:54 · 13 answers · asked by ~Jamaica~ 3 in Weddings

if your wife/husband knew about your liking of the same sex, and agreed to let you explore that option with you being around , but they have gone several times and done it and then told you about it when they got home..would you consider that cheating? hypothetically of course...♥

2007-02-01 07:59:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with him for seven years, we have three kids, ages 4, 2, and seven weeks. A week after i gave birth to our last child i found out he had been cheating on me since i was six months pregnant. He moved out, and i have the children. I still love him, but im having a very hard time forgiving him for what he did to our family. He tells me he will make sure i have all that i need for our children, and gives me money, but then takes it back because he blew all of his. He has been spending a lot more time with his new girl, then with his children. Ive been trying to get him to understand that his family is at home waiting for him. He acts like he cares, then when hes around her, we dont even exist. He says he hates me, then he says he loves me. I would do anything to have him stop his games, and work out our problems. But im worried that there is too much damage. I am trying to move on, but its like im stuck in the middle of the road, not knowing which way is best.

2007-02-01 07:58:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in my mid 30's now. My mother always treated me like a kid. Even now she treats me like one. She was never encouraging me. She always thought the negative and worst of everything. She felt I couldn't do things right or on my own. So I wasn't confident enough about things I did. When I was 13 my mother felt I couldn't take a shower on my own. So my father used to help me with take a shower. When I was growing up my sis & I shared a room. One day she decided she wanted to sleep in moms room with mom & I sleep in the other room with dad. Dad always used to tease me alot. I was his pet. I got upset with my dad for teasing me all the time so I told him to stop out loud. Then I heard my mom say to my sis look at those two like Romeo and Juliet. I still remember it now. I wasn't even allowed to wear a bra until I was sixteen until an aunt said I need to wear one because I am going to high school. I live with mom now & sleep in my dead fathers bed in the same room with mom.

2007-02-01 07:58:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Could any of u explan how the base system works?

I know 1st base is kissing
2ed is getting felt up so whats the other 3?

2007-02-01 07:57:55 · 18 answers · asked by destiny 2 in Singles & Dating

just wondering. somebody told me that if you get caught cheating by your spouse, they can get you arrested!

2007-02-01 07:57:08 · 54 answers · asked by puppyluv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He sometimes acts like I owe him something, and always tells me no to yell, but I can only take so much, I cant even remeber the last time he has brought home a 40 hour paycheck!!!! GRRRRR

2007-02-01 07:56:52 · 16 answers · asked by kking 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please aqnswer

2007-02-01 07:56:32 · 6 answers · asked by soccerworld13 1 in Singles & Dating

wat is everyone out theres favourite position? my boyfriend likes me on top and i like side by side as its very intimate lol. what does everyone else like??

2007-02-01 07:56:12 · 14 answers · asked by tania 1 in Singles & Dating

One of my female work collegues is. I can tell by the way she re-acts when we talk about sex. She is forty (younger than me and I enjoy anal etc with my husband).

2007-02-01 07:55:22 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-01 07:54:45 · 38 answers · asked by leelee 1 in Singles & Dating

If you win the lottery and lets say you win around $50 Millions.

What would you spend your money on?


Cars, Houses, helping the poor, helping family & friends, Boats, vacations, School, Business......

May you all who answer hit it big! :)

2007-02-01 07:54:04 · 21 answers · asked by DECEMBER 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok theres this huge dance coming up and its the biggest dance of the year. I didnt have a date last year either and i had a horrible time all my firneds have dates except for me. guys just dont like me. like seriously no guys like me, popular,cool,nerdy or average guys dont like me,and iv tried asking them out before but i just get rejected..anybody that went out with me would just be a joke. what can i do?

2007-02-01 07:53:46 · 11 answers · asked by Janelle S. 4 in Friends

Mine doesnt, well, he offered a while ago to take me away for a few days but thats it. We never go out much anywhere, hes very busy, but i cant help feeling there should be more romance. We're only 17, so i guess it isnt too much of a serious thing we've got but i certainly want it to last. We just go to each other's house and talk, listen to music and cuddle, occasionally having sex. Should i offer to go out somewhere? or should i leave that to him?

2007-02-01 07:53:21 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 07:53:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My cousin and some friends held an "intervention"

I am 24, I use to play competitive tennis, basketball and crazy about weightlifting. This was about a year and a half ago in university, I am 5 11 and use to weight 190 but I had a six pack....now I am 170 skinny with a small stomach. I stopped doing everythinig because of work...now I am not fat or big or anythinig by any means...

Anyways, I go to my cousin's house and there's some of my friends who are like "Listen we have to talk"

"You've let yourself go"
"Stop eatting so much food fatty"

They wouldn't let me go and came with to sign up for my old gym...while I was there some old gym members saw me and were like "what happened to you? You look different..."

I was very embarrashed...

Was this a good thing that they did?

2007-02-01 07:51:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I recently found out that my unit is going back to Iraq and this will be my second tour for operation Iraqi freedom. My daughter is a very sensitive 10 years old that does have a lot of anxieties and fears. She is also gifted in arts and literature but has border line ADHD that she takes a low dose of meds for. Even when we talk about the possibility which we have been doing more and more she gets tense and worried. My plan is not to tell them till at least school is over for this year but don't know if this is the best thing. What do you think? Good plan or bad and if you would do something different what would it be in telling your children. Please don't post answers that bash the military or the operation in Iraq but please try and stay on topic of how I should handle this with telling the young'uns

2007-02-01 07:51:08 · 26 answers · asked by John K 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What happened? What did they say? What did you say?

2007-02-01 07:51:03 · 17 answers · asked by bigjohn B 7 in Singles & Dating

she's 32 and sometimes she looks 32 other times she looks 22,
I haven't been seeing her very long and only get to see her once a week, I met her on the internet and we've been chatting since august and recently met about a month ago and started seeing each other but I can't really figure her age because she looks younger than she is.
how can I ask her for I.D. without offending her?

2007-02-01 07:50:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are a few signs that a girl likes me?

2007-02-01 07:50:29 · 2 answers · asked by BANG! 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to know what to do my husband is investing money that we do not have into his and his fathers business?
This month he has to pay back his father and now my son and I won't be able to get the things we need because of this.
My husband NEVER tells me about the money invested until I need some money to take care of the home stuff. I am not on any of his accounts and he is also using my son's SSI checks for this business adventure.
Should I talk to his father about the bind that we are in because of this business or should I just talk to my husband or Both of them?
I'm also worried because they don't have a contract with each other and I'm afraid that if the business does go anywhere his father is going to say that my husband is not entitled to any of the money because he has avoided writing out a contract stating that they don't have a business license yet so it wouldn't do them any good to have one.

2007-02-01 07:49:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 years now he is 30 and i am 22 years old my problem is i have put up with seeing him only on a weekend and only him phoning me on a weekend for the past 8 years but now i am having a real problem getting him to move out with me or have my baby or even get married which he asked me to do 6 years ago, he always keeps putting it off everytime i ask him to move pout with me he just says wait untill i leave college which i have no problem with except now he has just bought his mums house with her and he is now tied to his mum for the next 5 years i have gone round this all in my head and the only thing i can think of is he is seeing someone else but i cant see him doing that what can i do to sort this mess out please help?

2007-02-01 07:49:47 · 6 answers · asked by doodygirl2007 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am doing some pre-wedding research on venues for the reception and did not want to contact the hotel quite yet.

2007-02-01 07:49:46 · 4 answers · asked by kimbergirl2883 1 in Weddings

He basically played me out. Not going into the details. But he is still calling me telling me that he wants me back. When he does he talks to me like were together by trying to control what I do and things of that such. Being the rebellious person that I am, I never really listen to him. But this is getting old. Once i'm done with someone....IT'S OVER. I don't believe in being friends after a relationship has ended. But I'm getting tired of his desperate acts and everytime I tell him i'm not interested, it's like i'm talking to a brick wall. What do I do?

2007-02-01 07:49:35 · 7 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating