Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

I just started seeing this guy that i have had a huge crush for over 10 yrs (yes 10 yrs). well lately we don't talk as much like we use to like when we where friend. i mean i text him i email him eather he doesn't reply or he will reply like 1 or 2 hours later. does this mean that now because we are kind of dating he doesn't need to talk to me like before? How can i let him know that its bugging me? WE only see each other on the weekends because he works in a diffrent city?

2007-02-01 07:28:44 · 9 answers · asked by *BooTz* 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 07:28:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have to admit i have a thing for black women and the last three years since i dated my first i have dated nothing but light skinned beautiful black women. They seem to go for being mixed myself russian and european descent. I 've noticed more and more of my guy friends checking out black women

2007-02-01 07:28:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey folks...somebody please tell me whether I am crazy to think that its wrong for my husband to even consider furniture from his Ex..
My husband and I are still trying to build our home and stuff, so he came to me one day and told me that his Ex was thinking of buying new furniture and wondered whether we could use her old furniutre...
PLEASE tell me thats Ok...LOL because he didnt seem to have any problem with it! I mean, men out there, doesnt something like this call for your male pride/ego? Would you let your Ex furnish your apartment with her old furniture?? I need to know whether I am crazy or not for saying no. My husband things its okay and that I am crazy for even making a big deal out of it....what do you think?

2007-02-01 07:27:53 · 6 answers · asked by Venus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I overheard him on the phone. He still want admit to it. But right now I get showered with breakfast in bed, I don't have to cook, wash or clean he does all this but my heart is telling me different. This is just a put on so that I can forget about what I heard on the phone.

2007-02-01 07:27:44 · 19 answers · asked by Tettypu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

but she thinks it's wrong that there is this cute little 17 yr. old Korean girl I want to adopt. Is there?

2007-02-01 07:27:38 · 9 answers · asked by SEAHAWK 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 07:26:59 · 20 answers · asked by dana k 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever been in a relationship or married with someone that was very self-centered?... Did it last?... What are your experiences?... I'm just wondering if a relationship can work out if your partner is self-centered, or if people can come out of being that way... thanks!

2007-02-01 07:26:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this great guy--he's in the military and we have been together about 2 years. Well he's been deployed for 6 months and last I heard from him was 5 months ago. I've emailed him and no responses. He hasn't called either. Is he cheating on me? We have plans to move in together when he comes back to the US. Any advice?

2007-02-01 07:26:51 · 13 answers · asked by justuraverageperson 2 in Singles & Dating

A HOLE THERE NOW? DOES IT MAKE THE GURL LOOK GROSS OR DO YOU THINK IT S SEXY?

2007-02-01 07:26:22 · 5 answers · asked by Daisy 1 in Singles & Dating

and we got a day next week to be able to spend time together because we hve both got the day off school and i was wondering if theres any places that are like good to take girls

2007-02-01 07:26:01 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

i havent heard or seen the girl in about 7 years. she contacts me on my space out of the blue. she has had a boy friend for 3 years. she says that she still loves me and would drop the other guy in a second if i came back around. i still love her. but she keeps waiting to break up with this guy until i come back home. we have been talking again since may of last year but i am stationed in Hawaii and i am currently deployed to iraq. i am supposed to go and see her this summer whenever i get to take leave. my question is; if two people love eachother and they split up for a great deal of time, and over that period of time never stop loving one another then why wont she break up with this guy right now instead of waiting till i get home?

2007-02-01 07:25:10 · 16 answers · asked by akindl83 1 in Singles & Dating

my guy friend who i was hanigng around with for about 3 weeks, told me he liked me n we started being gf n bf..n we made out on the day after he told me he liked me (just kissing)...was this too early for making out?

2007-02-01 07:24:49 · 8 answers · asked by kitXcat 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 07:24:49 · 6 answers · asked by Tobby H 2 in Singles & Dating

To define cheating would be to promise and then to not hold up to that promise. If the spouse doesn't want it, how is it that they are being cheated out of something they don't want? On that same idea, wouldn't the withholding spouse be breaking the promise of "to have and to hold" and "to love and to cherish"?

Let me add, it's just a question and no marriage hangs in this balance of this question. Based purely on the facts...like a contract, feelings aside, personal experiences aside, who is cheating who first? The withholder of sex or the one who sought sex elsewhere?

2007-02-01 07:24:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok dnt get me wrong im no sicko or anything....im just a 16 year old boy that is in love with a 23 year old woman. she is the love of my life i dnt know if she loves me but we get along very well and well sometimes she hints things she calls me baby sometimes and a few times she even mentioned marrige-in a joking way...i know i can get her but how do you bring something up without messing things up? i want to know if she feels the same way i do and maybe she does most likely she does the problem just might be that she cant do the age thing,ya kno cuz she has morals and all she realy is a good person, she has a good head on her shoulders, shes jamacian. oh and we live togther..its kinda hard for me to not tell her exactly how i feel. but im always hinting it.i dont want to put it out in the open till the time is right just so that i dont mess up or anything...please help with any and all theadvice you can give i realy do love this girl...i mean woman?!

2007-02-01 07:24:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so, my grandmother died yesterday, and I found out last night. Her funeral is set for Saturday near Pittsburgh, PA.
My husband is due in Raleigh, NC on Monday to swear in for Navy OCS and he ships out for 3 months next Friday. We have been planning for a week and a half now to head to Raleigh on Saturday, swear in, and visit with his family for the rest of the week until he ships out.
I cannot do both, and I am trapped in the middle in southern Maryland. I was looking forward to one more week with my husband before he goes away for 3 months, and on the other hand, my family is naturally expecting myself and my almost eight month old daughter to be in Pittsburgh on Saturday. If I go to Pittsburgh, I will just head into Ohio and stay with my family for a couple of weeks, as I had planned to do after I saw my husband off for the Navy.

I am upset that I might have to suddenly say goodbye to him when I thought I had a whole week left. What do I do? Do I go with him or to PA?

2007-02-01 07:24:31 · 20 answers · asked by Person 2 in Family

She cannot get pregnant, of course, or this will be a very big scandal... as my friend that i'm cuckolding for a few days now comes from a decent & well-respected family in this conservative town. She's pleading me to let her take pill if we are to go on with our unforgettable lovemakings. Any suggestions of a good pill? She's not much familiar with this (she's from a consevative family, too), & she herself asks me for some good brands. I don't think i can ever control myself from taking her each time i see her sexy body & angelic face. How lucky my bastard friend is to have a very beautiful wife like her! But i'm luckier having the upper hand on this sweet lady now that he's far away. We really rock at this time...

2007-02-01 07:23:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fellow accountant came in and said that she was sorry for being so hard to work with last week but it was the first week that her daughter stayed with her ex all week. She has a half half sharing arrangement. Her daugher is three. I see this as typical in white divorces, that the fathers fight the wives for custody of the kids. Don't you think that small children need their mothers more and seeing them part of every weekend and maybe early dinner once a week would be good? I am not trying to be racist here, just curious. Also, I am middle class so it is not class we are talking about. Thanks for the discussion.

2007-02-01 07:22:38 · 19 answers · asked by black sun 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so i'm in an amazing but sorta unconventional relationship.....my boyfriend and I have known each other for 9 years. We have been friends this entire time (even when i moved away for 5 years), have had an intimate relationship for 2 years and are now living together as boyfriend and girlfriend. we are both 26 (actually i will be 26 in may) and are finally talking about marriage. We want to get engaged sometime before the summer (i'm thinking it will happen on my birthday) and married in October (he wants to get married around the date of his father's death in order to not feel really sad all the time about that time of year)....i moved in in december...getting engaged (i hope) in may which is 5 months...and then married in october....which is 5 months time.Its fast but I know its right...and I'm so happy.
Did anyone else get engaged/married really fast?

2007-02-01 07:22:06 · 18 answers · asked by lola 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I may be pregnant while seperated from my husband, is that good or bad? We have been seperated for about a month , and are trying to work things out. Do you think that is such a good idea at such a bad time?

2007-02-01 07:21:56 · 9 answers · asked by Hot MILF 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex plays games. SHe has been away at school for about 3 weeks now. SHe comes home on the weekends. Everytime she tells me that she is home and that we can see eachother but then she will change her mind. I dont get mad because I dont really care that much to see her simply because it will make the process of trying to get over her impossible. THe only problem that I have is trying to figure out y does she text me and wonder what am I doing and tell me that I must have moved on if she has no intentions on being with me. Y does she play mind games?

2007-02-01 07:21:34 · 10 answers · asked by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 in Singles & Dating

I have no special someone in my life right now, and I know I'll be all bummed out on Valentine's Day.

What do you suggest I do to stay happy that day???

2007-02-01 07:21:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't want to be in a relationship with him, but he really, really likes me, so I know he'll get me something.
Should I get him something so I don't feel bad, and he doesn't either?

On the other hand, I don't want to lead him on.

2007-02-01 07:20:58 · 23 answers · asked by morethanitseems 2 in Singles & Dating

People tell me I should, but I don't want to. I hate romance, a lot. I am too ugly, and fat. I don't really deserve having one either, as it is against my religion to reward myself. I think love is immature and too weird for me. I have never asked a girl out, because I will be humiliated. If some girl likes me, then too bad, she can go find someone else. I don't need added stress in my life. I am known as a tough guy, and tough guys don't love anyone. Plus, I hate doing things for people. I think I might as well go into religion, as I have no chance of getting girl, not that I really want one. I can't believe some people are so arrogant and actually want to reward themselves by being in love with someone. I should become a dictator and kill everyone that is in love. That would make my day.

2007-02-01 07:20:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am actually looking for the different names that each religion calls their clergy, and who else can do weddings.

so if it is a minister, what religion is that, if it is a priest, etc...

2007-02-01 07:19:57 · 5 answers · asked by glorymomof3 6 in Weddings

For over a year, my fiance' and I had a long distance relationship. We e-mailed to communicate our love for each other. I had planned to make a family heirloom with our e-mails, similar to the movie, "The Notebook", but while we were busy building our home, with our computer dissconnected, yahoo deleted all the e-mails in my account. I'm heartbroken! I need help in retrieving them! I will pay the worker's wage to find them for me. If banks can find past transactions, I know Yahoo must also have a place for deleted files. I'm sure if I were a criminal, and the police needed to research my old e-mails, they would be retrieved. Love is an even better reason to retrieve them. Again, I beg you for your help! I am seriuosly heartbroken! My husband and I don't communicate with the same tenderness we did when we were dating. Reading those love letters from my husband keeps my love alive for him.Please! I will pay whatever you need! I have faith in the goodness of your spirit. Thank-you Maureen

2007-02-01 07:19:38 · 12 answers · asked by Maureen C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is 14 yrs older than me and i am 24 going on 25.When we met he was my bosses boss and we still work for the same company.Aside from a few strange moments because his daughter is only 8 yrs younger than me and his brother is my age we are fine and love each other.His brother lives with us not by my choice.We have been married almost a year now.Problem is his smoking 6 packs of cigeretts a day at least this has been going on before we met but he tries to hide it? Five days ago he had a heart attack and while at the hospital we learned he has lung cancer!Why wont my hubby talk to me about this?In fact he is now smoking more than before!When he speaks to me its as if i am his daughter?!

2007-02-01 07:18:37 · 17 answers · asked by Melrose G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The reason why is becuase my friend makes fun of Hello Kitty and I dont like it, and I dont make fun of what she likes.

2007-02-01 07:18:10 · 5 answers · asked by smith_kallissa 2 in Friends

2007-02-01 07:17:32 · 16 answers · asked by mall123mall 2 in Singles & Dating