People tell me I should, but I don't want to. I hate romance, a lot. I am too ugly, and fat. I don't really deserve having one either, as it is against my religion to reward myself. I think love is immature and too weird for me. I have never asked a girl out, because I will be humiliated. If some girl likes me, then too bad, she can go find someone else. I don't need added stress in my life. I am known as a tough guy, and tough guys don't love anyone. Plus, I hate doing things for people. I think I might as well go into religion, as I have no chance of getting girl, not that I really want one. I can't believe some people are so arrogant and actually want to reward themselves by being in love with someone. I should become a dictator and kill everyone that is in love. That would make my day.
2007-02-01 07:20:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am happiest when I'm alone. Without a girl, I can sleep all day, and drink all the time, without her whining at me.
2007-02-01 07:22:29 · update #1
It's like my parents. I want to spit at their face for how stupid they are fore being in love, and torture them because of that. You can call me heartless, but that's a compliment for me. I love being called heartless and cold.
2007-02-01 07:23:52 · update #2
I hate commitments.
2007-02-01 07:24:27 · update #3
The best part of life is to love and be loved. Search for a girl who appreciates the same qualities as you, I found a girl who likes being alone too, and we get along great. I promise, there is a girl out there that is perfect for you, and desperately waiting for you to ask her out.
2007-02-01 07:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you are serious or if you are just going for the "shock and awe" but if you truely do think this way PLEASE go and talk to someone...whether it be just a friend or a professional. That said I want you to know that no one is too ugly, too fat, too undeserving, or too anything else to be loved. Everyone deserves to be loved and to find true happiness in life, anyone who tells you any different is, to put it bluntly, completely and utterly wrong. However, before you can be in a functional relationship with anyone you need to realize that you are worth something and you need to learn to like yourself. Believe me I can somewhat relate to what you are feeling. There was a time in my life that I had such a low self-esteem that I thought no one could ever love me. Although I never had violent thoughts, I blamed it on anything that I could and, like yourself, proclaimed my totally abhorrance to the whole idea of love. It wasn't until I searched inside myself and realized that I was the root of the problem and that I needed to learn to like myself that my whole outlook changed. Now I am in love with a wonderful man who loves me, despite of all of the reasons that I use to think that no one could love me.
Don't get a girlfriend just to get a girlfriend...work on liking yourself and discover what the real reason is behind your hatred of "love" and in time the right person will come around.
2007-02-01 08:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by caldwemj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you're heartless or cold. I just think you're scared of being hurt in a relationship.
you don't have to get a girlfriend if you don't want to. that's your business and no one else's. but just keep in mind that there's someone out there for everyone if you ever change your mind.
I also get the feeling that you don't like yourself very much. but I bet you're a really nice guy with a lot to offer as a friend or boyfriend. give yourself a break okay? you do deserve love and happiness in your life. but you have to start by learning to love yourself. and I sincerely hope that you will do that.
I Wish You only the Very Best.
2007-02-01 07:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I can kind of relate. I've gone through some periods in my life where I was single, for like, 2 years. This has happened a couple of times.
The truth is, I was the happiest, and healthiest during those periods of time. One thing that was awkward, is being a third wheel with friends who are coupled up. Another thing is going to restaurants by yourself. I had no problem going to a restaurant by myself, but it sucked thinking that people might be feeling sorry for you cause you're by yourself.
Dude, embrace your singledom. Eventuallly somebody is going to come along, and you won't be able to enjoy your freedom as much. Live in the moment, and appreciate what you have, because nothing lasts forever!
2007-02-01 07:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is obvious that you want love just like anyone else but you are so afraid of rejection that you won't even consider the possibility of someone loving you. Look around...even the ugliest people are paired up. If you are "ugly", find another "ugly" mate. Having such a bad attitude about women will only make people think you are gay. Are you??
2007-02-01 07:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just stick to religion. The only way you'll get a girl is if one starts hanging around and happens to grow on you, like a stray dog or cat. Obviously, you are curious are you would not be asking. Just let it happen don't go looking for it and don't run the girl off she might be as mean as you and you might like that.
2007-02-01 07:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by My two cents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you have made your point. Have a happy life alone and whilst i will go and find love. I think im ugly and undeserving, but that doesnt mean i have to live in dispair. Dont give up...you dont HAVE to find a person per say, but everyone loves to be loved;fact.
2007-02-01 07:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by i_heart_retro 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your right! no one wants you, you would just bring everyone down. you know, i could give you a long-a$$ answer and actually make you feel better. but you like being the way that you are, so i wont. just kill yourself already and rid us of you!!
2007-02-01 07:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if you dont want a gf dont get one ! you know you dont have to listen to any1 ! And by not having a gf your not going to get your heart broken trust me its better that way !??!?
2007-02-01 08:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you. people have their own thoughts, and you have your own. do what pleases you, not others. you dont want romance? fine, enjoy your single life without ties and commitment
2007-02-01 07:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋