I just started seeing this guy that i have had a huge crush for over 10 yrs (yes 10 yrs). well lately we don't talk as much like we use to like when we where friend. i mean i text him i email him eather he doesn't reply or he will reply like 1 or 2 hours later. does this mean that now because we are kind of dating he doesn't need to talk to me like before? How can i let him know that its bugging me? WE only see each other on the weekends because he works in a diffrent city?
2007-02-01 07:28:44 · 9 answers · asked by *BooTz* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is probably because since you guys were friends for so long dating is something to get used to. Maybe you need to let up on the texting/e-mailing. If he doesnt talk to you then its not ur loss its his.
good luck!
2007-02-01 07:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be now that the chase is over, he is in a "comfort zone". Meaning now that you are together he feels he does not have to talk as much. Whatever the case, you should tell him straight up what is bothering you. Guys just do not get it when changes happen in a relationship the way women do. We are just wired different. Being straightforward is the best way way to communicate your feelings and worries to him.
2007-02-01 08:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by zerokool 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him some room and I would only tell him how I feel when we see each other and I would wait until we're in a good conversation to mention how I feel . At least he's calling you back instead of not returning your calls at all, you should take that into consideration. You don't want to come across as insecure to him you want him to know that u trust him and when he see that u are strong in your spot that will turn him on and then he will be looking for u.
2007-02-01 07:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by sweet p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. It shouldn't be a problem since you were friends before. You should feel comfortable enough to bring up something that is causing you worry. I'm sure it's probably nothing but you can't resolve it unless you talk it through.
2007-02-01 07:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by HatingF8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just simply text or email him 'how come it takes you so long to respond?' he won't take it for anything other then a question. Oh and 10 YEARS!!! Ask him out already! If he won't ask you out make the first move, we do live in the 21st century...
2007-02-01 07:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
then be honest and tell him that you want to hear more often from him... but it will make him feel sort of uncomfortable. he'll probably think you are suffocating him. you'll have to just compromise and either get use to it or tell him and hope he doesn't react bad.
2007-02-01 07:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be he is just busy with work or something, sit him down and talk to him about it.
2007-02-01 07:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it means he's now comfortable with the situation. You should be too.
2007-02-01 07:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by Terrigrrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just like the old sayin, "you wan't what you can't/don't have", he has you now......
2007-02-01 07:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by CSI 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋