Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

Okay, my boyfriend and I got into this huge fight about me flirting with other guys, and how he doesn't like it. It's all in he's head! I don't go around flirting with guys and if a guy happens to flirt with me (which happens every time we go out!) it's not like I can just get up leave. I mean what's wrong with a little flirting? Anyway He was really angry with me and I was extremely pissed because he was making a big deal out of nothing. So in the middle of our augment I called him a son of a *****. He yelled, "Don't talk about my mother! Take it back now." I said "NOO." When I said he was a son of a ***** I didn't literally mean that, however that was how he took it. The next thing I know he's on the sofa pulling me over his lap, pulling up my skirt (I was to shocked to even fight back!), and spanking me really hard! It hurt really, really bad. I started to cry and he stopped, telling me he was very sorry and he didn't know what came over him. Later I told him I was going home and he begged me to stay the night, but I left anyway. He told me that when I called him a son of a ***** it brought back memories of how his mother was a *****, and use to get drunk beat the crap out of him and his two younger siblings. I know what he did was wrong and painful, however I really love him.
Should I leave him even after what he told me?

2007-02-01 07:49:14 · 1 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Singles & Dating

So- Week 1- Girlfriend gets sick- I come by to help- girlfriend doesn't talk much and acts angry.
Week 2- I get sick from helping her out- see girlfriend on sunday of week 3
Week 3- spent night at girlfriend's house. She says no more than 10 words to me the entire night. Monday, I talk to her and she says she's angry about something with everyone she knows (even her dog). I disappear for a week and wait for her to call me (so not to suffocate her). She calls even angrier the next Sunday, we talk and make up, but there is a great deal of tension.
Week 4- We talk again on tuesday. She is angry again and refuses to talk about it.
Today. Her birthday. I get a phone call from my mother that my grandfather is in the hospital dying. I need to leave the city for the night, but I have plans to go see her- even though she is angry with me... Do I stick with my family and let her get angrier (and probably break up for good), or do I save a relationship with my best friend?

2007-02-01 07:49:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I suggest going somewhere else? I don't know what we are doing dating..just hanging out..dont know?? This guy just moved here to San Antonio and doesnt really know where to go. how do i suggest doing something diff? Why am i always worried if a guy does not have enough money to do anything? its always in the back of my mind like i worry for them!!

2007-02-01 07:48:51 · 8 answers · asked by Ambitious27 3 in Singles & Dating

this is not an offending question

2007-02-01 07:48:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love a girl (Gal A) and i know she loves me ...but due to our family and religious problems we cant be together...things just wont work out...im a Born Again and she is a muslim...2 different worlds...i know...not sure what i should do...also i like another gal but that relationship started just the way this one did...im a funny friendly guy and i love to tease and have fun friendly arguments...thats just me....but i have a feeling this one(Gal B) might also end up the same way...
Am i going about my relationships the Wrong way?
What will i do about Gal A; i always want 2 be with her?
Is it possible 4 us to just b friends(now even valentines day is coming)?

2007-02-01 07:48:13 · 5 answers · asked by Praize J 1 in Singles & Dating

For past six months my husband has gone out behind my back. Once he came home with a hickey on his neck and said it was nothing. He stil continues to lie to me after telling him that our marriage would be over if he doesn't change his act. I have also found a bank statement which shows he spent the night at a motel the night he got the hickey. I have confronted him about that and he denied it. He says that my mind is playing tricks on me and that if I continue digging I am going to get hurt. I am fed up with all the lies and cannot trust him at all.

2007-02-01 07:47:12 · 40 answers · asked by confused mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So confused...
I have been dating the same girl for 5.5 years and things have always been really good. We've been together since high school and I'm 24 now. In my youth, I often wished I was single and could live up that life for a while. About 1.5 years ago I cheated on her and I still am beating myself up over it today. I have done things in my past that I'm not proud of that wasn't exactly cheating but still I feel guilty about today. I have told about it all and I think most of it was immaturity and she has forgiven me for it all. Now it seems like I'm looking for reasons to not be in this relationship, although I LOVE her so much, she is the most amazing person, and I know she will make me happy forever if I marry her. We never fight and yet sometimes when I look at her, I honestly feel like I'm looking for a reason to be unhappy here.

Any guess why I might be feeling this way? I'm in dire need of help because I want to love her so bad but I sometimes can't.
HELP!
Thanks

2007-02-01 07:46:57 · 12 answers · asked by confuzed1919 1 in Singles & Dating

I just thought this would be fun to ask, and people could get a few laughs out of other people's creativity!!! ;o)

Also, are there different terms to be used on breasts that are small vs. breasts that are large???

2007-02-01 07:46:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a guy who likes me but I don't like him the same way he likes me . What should I say to the guy ? ( He gives me the creeps sometimes ! )

2007-02-01 07:46:04 · 19 answers · asked by CindayYEAHYYYY 6 in Singles & Dating

i like this dude and he likes me 2 but he hasn't asked out yet. should i just ask him or wait 4 him 2 ask?

2007-02-01 07:45:25 · 15 answers · asked by korina g 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfrend brought me to a hotel one time on my birthday an there was rose petals everywere! he bought some good wine and we played a board game thets about pleasureing your partner (sexually). it was very romantic and cheesy!!!!!

2007-02-01 07:44:45 · 4 answers · asked by Daisy 1 in Singles & Dating

Some girl who I know really well had set me a blind date. They've told me it's someone I know and I think it's gonna be kinda weird, cause if I already know the person whom I'll be dating, then it's not like we're gonna be suprised...it's either that we already like each other or not...

Well...I'm hoping that you're getting what I'm trying to say here. What should I do?

2007-02-01 07:44:25 · 5 answers · asked by Pro90 1 in Singles & Dating

Wear your wedding Dress at a wedding gown ball

2007-02-01 07:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by Rosina's Bridal & Decor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i moved to a new place and after a month my roommate and i "hooked up" but did not have sex. well we were about to when he stopped himself, saying he was sorry. I was dating someone else so I too was sorry. After the whole ordeal we decided not to speak about it again. I then left the guy I was dating. but feelings for my roommate turned best friend kept growing stronger. I tried to deny them, I tried to play it cool. We became great friends and always joked, flirted, and fought about everything. It's been nine months and although it doesnt happen on a regular basis we still hook up and have sex once a month. I don't want to be used or be a friend with benefits. I know ive become that. He doesnt want to be in a relationship, but wants to have sex with me? he moved recently and for the first few weeks called me over everyday to help him with random things but never made a move on me. we spend a lot of time and he told me he cares about me. but why doesnt he want to be my bf?

2007-02-01 07:44:17 · 6 answers · asked by insearchofsolace 1 in Singles & Dating

I was repremanded at work and told that this could have lead to termination. Wasn't it the responsibility of the party or parties insulted to approach me first instead of going directly to HR? I'm embarrassed and angry - anyone I showed laughed.

2007-02-01 07:43:48 · 14 answers · asked by Jazzy61 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does that mean if a guy will eventually see the light?

2007-02-01 07:43:36 · 11 answers · asked by marcyknndy 1 in Friends

For flock sakes!!!!!!! You'll notice that when you tpye the question and all the similiar ones that have occurred every 2 flippin minutes!!!!

2007-02-01 07:43:22 · 4 answers · asked by Paul M 3 in Singles & Dating

fresh relationship, what to give to him, he is 30 years old, likes brand clothes, watches, hats, car, going out. what can I give to him.

2007-02-01 07:42:49 · 5 answers · asked by bad person 2 in Singles & Dating

Selfishness?

2007-02-01 07:42:15 · 23 answers · asked by Crazy William 1 in Singles & Dating

This year my fiance and I are making our presents.

I went out and bought a scrap book not realising how many pages were in it.

So far I've put poetry, photos, sketches, love letters and even a decoupage I made.

There are still 8 blank pages and I've no idea what to put on them. Any ideas for what I could put in?

I can't take the blank pages out either because they're woven into the spine of the book itself.

2007-02-01 07:42:09 · 4 answers · asked by Hannah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-01 07:41:58 · 8 answers · asked by Taylor E 1 in Singles & Dating

nearly a week ago, my boyfriend broke up with me. he's never really trusted me and we have always had arguements about rumours about me and other guys...ive never EVER cheated on him. people have never spoken well bout me cos of things i did in my past (some true some lies) a month ago he confessed that he had cheated like a year ago cos he thought that i did the same. but i ended up forgiving him. a week ago we started talknig bout the guys i had been with, and things i had done, which were quite embarrassiong so i just denied everything i got really nervous, and he "caught me". now he hates me and thinks im a lying *****. i regret it so much, but i had my reasons. now he doesnt believe anything ive ever told him. and ive only lied on my past! i sent him an email 4 days ago explaining everything, saying sorry and that i really loved him. i really really love this guy, and wud do anything to b with him. please help!

2007-02-01 07:41:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-01 07:41:36 · 33 answers · asked by Micky b 1 in Singles & Dating

3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get sex from LOTS of other girls.

2007-02-01 07:41:32 · 8 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

well there is random guy in college who i just used to see on the stairs and roaming about. one day we just talked and all... after i found he was a friend of a friend.
well now he has been like making a lot of eye contact, i find him in the biology department (where i am) alot more while he is an engineer.
we sometimes have lunch together, and i always end up talking to him in the common room. today he came all the way to my lab (which no one ever comes to) just to say that he was leaving for home. my lab is like away from civilization at college.
does he like me? or is he just trying to be friendly?

2007-02-01 07:41:21 · 8 answers · asked by the alert 1 in Friends

Why is she constantly ignoring me?
I started going to a new church about 3 years ago there was a lady in the crowd that I said hello to along with other people. She seemd to hesitate and then told me her name. She had been kinda chattting with my wife before this. Whenver I saw her again she would completely ignore me. Never speak. If I say something she will speak to me smile and be very courteous . Sometimes I think we broke the ice and will be at least civil to each other but every week its the same. Ice cold..sometimes we will avoid each other for months and not say a thing. I started to just ignore her she wont even hardly say anything to my wife. I cant understand treating people like this at church. I dont know what her problem is and the ignoring part is really stupid. The other day I opened the door for her and she would not even say thankyou...but if I had said something like goodnight she would have responded. What gives? Her husband seems like a nice friendly guy .

2007-02-01 07:40:40 · 6 answers · asked by mario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You see I like this guy really. But I want him to like me. How can I flirt with him to get him to like me?

2007-02-01 07:40:04 · 11 answers · asked by SexyLady 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy is my classmate. He says he loves me, though we are not dating. He is always looking at me. Not sure what I should do if anything. He grabs my hand quite a bit or wants to hug me. He gets sensitive if he thinks that I am making fun of him in front of his friends even though I am not.

He has not asked for my phone number. A month ago I sent him an e-card right before finals because he was stressing. I wrote "as always, love you." (This was after the hand holding and his telling me he loves me) He never responded, but when we saw each other he thanked me for the card.

2007-02-01 07:39:49 · 9 answers · asked by Sweet Escape 2 in Singles & Dating

He said to two girls "Are you to lesbians, cause I would really like to take both of you home" Of course they just laughed & left him standing there. Then the dude actually got mad about the situation and told them "You just missed your chance for perfection" I just shook my head.

2007-02-01 07:39:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 07:39:45 · 11 answers · asked by Rosina's Bridal & Decor 1 in Weddings