There is a guy who likes me but I don't like him the same way he likes me . What should I say to the guy ? ( He gives me the creeps sometimes ! )
2007-02-01 07:46:04 · 19 answers · asked by CindayYEAHYYYY 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him the number for the Rejection Hotline. There are different numbers depending on where you live. Go to the website (Rejection Hotline.com I assume) and they give you a bunch of numbers for different parts of the country.
2007-02-01 07:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by Smeather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was stalked for 13 years,by a guy that wouldn't take no for an answer.You need to let your family know what's going on. If you live with your folks have them tell this guy you're not there or not taking calls.If you don't have it get caller ID ,in most states there is an option where you can block the number he is calling from. Be firm and tell him that you don't like him the same way he likes you. Get a restraing order sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't(in my case it didn't). Try to have a buddy with you at all times. Good luck to you.
2007-02-01 07:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by sassygrrll7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, in no uncertain terms, that their is no potential here. Do it in front of your friends and ideally his friends (not to embarrass, but to have witnesses). This is one the few occasions where an email is appropriate...or a certified letter saying there is no future and to go away (a paper trail).
If you must and its age appropriate, tell your teachers, principal and his parents. Both verbally and in writing. Tell your parents. The point is you want the world to know. Don't be cruel, don't be mean...simply inform these persons that you are not interested and his attention is scaring you.
If that fails or is not age appropriate (you are in college or professional life), call the police.
That "creeps" feeling you are getting is that famous little voice in your head. I have found it is almost always right. Something ain't right and that little voice is trying to get your attention.
Seem a little strong or heavy-handed. Perhaps...but so is being kidnapped, raped and murdered. Can't happen to you? They all say that and the survivors all tell of similar beginnings.
2007-02-01 07:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by jw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to have conversations with this person, drop in things like "that's the kind of guy I like"... If you don't and telling him you don't like him doesn't work, ignore him. He'll get it eventually. Don't take any chances if you think he's a stalker type though, document everything and then if it gets unbearable, consult the police on a non-emergency line. Hopefully, it doesn't get to that!
2007-02-01 07:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by A B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if say no you can just stay away from him and never see him again. Now if he had hit you, you can call the police and tell them that he is abuse you that all i can tell you right now because i am in something like that and some one gave me a good ideal i hope this help you
2007-02-02 05:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by sabrina p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what age you are if your under 18 tell you parents, especially if he's older than you. If your an adult, just politely, because apparently you talk to him breifly at times, tell him that you just started dating this great guy and just go on and on make it up as you go, hopefully he will get detoured. If polite doesn't cut it and you really want him gone then be blunt; and say hey you know what your okay to talk to but your starting to bother me so bad right now I don't even want to talk to you.
2007-02-01 07:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by K_Seeks4Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull him aside and say " I DO NOT LIKE YOU" he'll say "but stop kidding, you know you love me" and you then take a guys hand and kisss him, in front of No for an answer, then take the kisser's hand and leave- harsh but to the point
2007-02-01 07:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by Hershey's Kiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you are not interested in him and that you are dead serious about the fact. tell him not to talk to you, touch you, or even look at you for that matter. and if he still won't leave you alone, tell him you're going to call the police and file charges of harrassment against him.
Best Wishes
2007-02-01 07:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not in any way interested in him and to leave you alone. If he can't understand that, get a restraining order on him.
2007-02-01 07:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you keep saying no and he isnt getting it then you need to get a restraning order. If he is creepy then yepp thats what u need. or tell someone older, teacher parent.
2007-02-01 07:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋