AHHH!!! Its all piling up at once!!?

Question

So- Week 1- Girlfriend gets sick- I come by to help- girlfriend doesn't talk much and acts angry.
Week 2- I get sick from helping her out- see girlfriend on sunday of week 3
Week 3- spent night at girlfriend's house. She says no more than 10 words to me the entire night. Monday, I talk to her and she says she's angry about something with everyone she knows (even her dog). I disappear for a week and wait for her to call me (so not to suffocate her). She calls even angrier the next Sunday, we talk and make up, but there is a great deal of tension.
Week 4- We talk again on tuesday. She is angry again and refuses to talk about it.
Today. Her birthday. I get a phone call from my mother that my grandfather is in the hospital dying. I need to leave the city for the night, but I have plans to go see her- even though she is angry with me... Do I stick with my family and let her get angrier (and probably break up for good), or do I save a relationship with my best friend?

I really like this girl, but my grandfather was like a second father to me.

Answer 1

you only die once; you have to go where there is a time deadline; sorry about your grandfather; if this person is that insensitive, you need to revamp your feelings and find someone who is on your level in every way ; she is angry within herself; tell her your dilemma ; if she makes you feel like crap; move on ; either way , your grandfather needs you ; go to him. Good Luck!

Answer 2

Go see your grandfather. If she doesn't understand she's unreasonable and you don't want her crap anyway. I'm always amazed at the crap guys will put up with from girls.