Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

What is the best way to look for English relatives that I know are sill alive, basically east end London and Dagenham ? I am in Canada and is it proper to post addresse's etc, or are there other web sites better suited to my search? Thank you. Pete Bird, Canada peterxbird@yahoo.com
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2007-02-01 08:24:48 · 4 answers · asked by birdman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Like he is always mad when he comeshome and pick on us that we didn't do.

2007-02-01 08:24:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-01 08:24:17 · 17 answers · asked by chaveirinho_rj 6 in Singles & Dating

how would you know you were good at it

2007-02-01 08:24:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

virginity avoiding the pain?

2007-02-01 08:24:14 · 8 answers · asked by aais 3 in Singles & Dating

Still being a virgin, and quite shy, I'm a little lost when it comes to pleasing women in bed. But I want to do all I can, to make our first time very exciting!!! How will I know what she likes??? What if she "fakes it", just to make me happy. She's got a little experience but I have NONE!!!! I'm so confused..... Help!!!!???

2007-02-01 08:24:05 · 3 answers · asked by hagtagg 5 in Singles & Dating

I can't seem to find a boyfriend. What should I do?

2007-02-01 08:24:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 08:23:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

wife of 9 years had an affair for 6 months, while had our problems in marriage-money-fussing, once she met this guy, it was all over. she lied to me every night, left me and two small kids to go spend night with him--told me she was at girlfriends house-thinking about our relationship, if she could love this new man i was trying to become--all BS. finally somewhat admitted to affair before christmas, now living with him and working with him three states away--they are so in love, he walks on water. i have temp custody of kids, 7 year old and 4 year old, would not trade that for anything. but i am so mad/hurt/angry about many things--her leaving, her loving someone else-all the lies-that she is so happy now-that kids miss her-that when she talks to them it is all how much she loves them and misses them-that in her mind she will return to NC and take them becasue she is the mom-she didnt miss them enough to stay home, bathe them, put them tp bed--I AM SO MAD-why is she happy and i not

2007-02-01 08:23:22 · 13 answers · asked by lowerNC 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-01 08:23:21 · 1 answers · asked by Brian S 2 in Singles & Dating

Dont u people think anwsering their questions r gay but r sometimes funny but then u feel soory for them. (or dont)

2007-02-01 08:22:56 · 9 answers · asked by sexyjuliaz 1 in Singles & Dating

Maybe you haven't been on the date, but you read about it and want to try it out.
Maybe someone else had that type of date,and you thought it was ultra-cool.

2007-02-01 08:22:42 · 4 answers · asked by ILLput MY idONlaterWITHxox 1 in Singles & Dating

I have come to a conclusion that my friend mite be gay/curious. he acts gay sometimes. are there any ways/tell tale signs that he might be gay without asking him? ...thanks. p.s. i am gay-curious and i would really like to find out!!

2007-02-01 08:22:34 · 1 answers · asked by yOYo 1 in Singles & Dating

okay should i give my crush a present for valentines day even though i have my exboyfriend trying to get back with me oh what should i do ???

2007-02-01 08:21:58 · 22 answers · asked by venecia a 1 in Singles & Dating

Well what happened was, ive just been given a paul mckenna book and i sat mother brother Llama shadow and naughty father in a circle infront of me and i started waving a kitchen knife infront of their eyes to hypnotise them. I started reciting some of the words he says and their eyes started spinning and they were dribbling. This is usually quite normal so i sat down and rang a friend thinking it hadnt worked. And anyway, as i was talking on the phone I was giving her some advice about rubbing piles cream on her bum, when all of a sudden i turned round and they were all doing the konga with their hands up their bums! What can i do to stop this? My question is, has anyone got Paul McKennas phone number? sent

2007-02-01 08:21:54 · 25 answers · asked by fletch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I believe sex is something special which should be shared with the one you love. Ideally after marridge. It makes it more special and more intimate. It is nice to know that such a special thing has been saved for you. It also is idealistic to have kids after marriage, it probably gives them a more stable home. This is just my view. Who agrees with me and who does not? Feel free to offend me with your comments. No bad feelings.

2007-02-01 08:21:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 34 years old, divorced for 6 years, and live near Jacksonville, FL. I have dated here and there in the past years, but I've not met Ms. Right yet.

I am looking for someone that is happy and positive. Someone who is educated, loves kids, loves dogs, and basically just loves life. Someone who looks forward to going on family vacation, going to church, and being both a best friend and a spouse.

I have no kids, I'm college educated, own my own place, pay all my bills on time, work full time. I'd be happy to send a picture to anyone who is curious. I'd also like to see a picture of you.

I know there are personal sites, and all that -- but I thought I'd try this way....let's see what happens...

2007-02-01 08:20:22 · 6 answers · asked by JackRoyerton 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 08:20:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 08:19:46 · 9 answers · asked by jarbogas1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 08:19:27 · 3 answers · asked by xX Panic! at the disco Xx 1 in Singles & Dating

this girl was my friend for a very long time and most of the girls hated her for stupid reasons. i was the only person that really understood her and wasn't mean to her. now she is hanging out with the very girls who hated her more than she is with me. she never invites me over to her house and when i ask if i can go over she says she is busy. then i hear her talking to the other girls wanting them to come over everyday! whats worse is one of the girls she hangs out with now has done this before and she has the rep. to switch friends on you and talk behind your back. i don't care if my friend has other friends than me but i don't want her to just drop me. this whole situation is getting very confusing and i don't know if i should try to repair our friendship
!please help!
also i think she might be hanging out with them for popularity

2007-02-01 08:18:57 · 8 answers · asked by fuzzy w 1 in Friends

I was at an indoor pool party at a friends home with my 3 kids and hubby.My friends hubby remarked that i looked really good in my bikini i smiled and said thankyou i try.I dont really talk much to my friends hubby because my hubby does not like him and from how my friend has described him i dont know what to think of him as a person.My friend flipped out after the party while i was helping her clean up and started crying.She hates me now ?how can i undue this it was not done on purpose? Her husband has since started to stare at me and compliment on my body(not in polite terms).I asked him to stop but that just made him more crude.Should i have my hubby go over to talk to him?

2007-02-01 08:18:48 · 25 answers · asked by Kelly V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just want to get more of an understanding why men feel the need to torture their girlfriends for months about getting engaged? I could see making a comment once or twice to see her reaction, just to confirm if she'd say yes, but to do it, just for fun, it's just wrong. Especially if he isn't planning on proposing for many months. I know I am not the only going through this, so I know there are many men out there that enjoy to torture their girlfriends for months and some even years. And then when we complain about, even is in our face that we are pressuring them, when all we want them to do is stop bringing it up and just do it when they are ready. I feel it sort of ruins the whole romance. I mean when my parents got engaged, my father didn't torture my mom, instead, when he felt it was right, he just proposed to her and she was totally surprised. How romantic is that!!!

2007-02-01 08:17:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am the father of a beautiful 4 yo daughter. She has been with me for 2 years now.My ex-girlfriend (my daughter's biological mother) has not paid any child support or sent presents of any kind the entire time I've had her.I am now engaged to a wonderful woman who loves my daughter as her own.The biological mother & I live in different states.She has also been diagnosed bipolar and manic depressive,lives with a felon & has a criminal record & numerous child services complaints.She has 2 other children with her ex-husband & has had little to no contact with them either.He has now filed for custody & it seems that the biological mother now realizes that she may be losing her oldest 2 so she is now trying to get in touch with me more frequently (3 times over the past 6 weeks) Should I call her back? Is there any way that I can gain complete custody with no visitation? Is there a way that I can have her denied parental rights?Should I wait til I get married and have her file for adoption?

2007-02-01 08:17:47 · 13 answers · asked by jhnyblayze 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you handle it when the person you're dating (and planning a future with) has parents that are full of issues and always creating drama? i know you can't judge someone based on their parents, but if you realize that you're life will be filled with their drama, how do you handle the situation? simply give up on the person you love? what would you do?

2007-02-01 08:17:30 · 9 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in my mid 30's now. My mother always treated me like a kid. Even now she treats me like one. She was never encouraging me. She always thought the negative and worst of everything. She felt I couldn't do things right or on my own. So I wasn't confident enough about things I did. When I was 13 my mother felt I couldn't take a shower on my own. So my father used to help me with take a shower. When I was growing up my sis & I shared a room. One day she decided she wanted to sleep in moms room with mom & I sleep in the other room with dad. Dad always used to tease me alot. I was his pet. I got upset with my dad for teasing me all the time so I told him to stop out loud. Then I heard my mom say to my sis look at those two like Romeo and Juliet. I still remember it now. I wasn't even allowed to wear a bra until I was sixteen until an aunt said I need to wear one because I am going to high school. I live with mom now & sleep in my dead fathers bed in the same room with mom.

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I am getting married soon & my mom still controls me. I get night mares and bad dreams almost every night & wake up in the middle of the night. Is it because I am sleeping in my fathers bed. I wanted to move out my mothers house a month early & live in the new place where I will be living after I get married. The thing is my fincee will not be living there with me. I will be living there alone. Mother things that's a bad idea since people will misunderstand that I will be shaking up with him before marriage. I wanted to move out of my mothers house so I won't get nightmares anymore. But I don't know what do anymore because my mother says no to everything. Even when I was dating my fincee' she was seeking marriage proposal for me & wanted me to marry the man she picked even though they were not good for me. How do I deal with my mother?

2007-02-01 08:17:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have two good friends that are very close to me and I see them as sisters. One of them have been dating this guy who seems to really like her but have a past with cheating. So anyways my other friend approaches me and tells me that she heard our friends boyfriend plans on cheating on her. She doesnt want me to say anything to her and made me promise. I promised because I didnt know what she was talking about at first. Now that I know, I feel really bad bc she doesnt deserve any of this and I am put in the middle of it, bc if I keep my mouth shut than I have to see her get hurt "possibly" and if I open my mouth than I will just be a ***** to the other one..I know its childish believe me but nowadays girls are soo sensitive and find any reason to be mad. I just dont want to upset anyone.

2007-02-01 08:16:58 · 6 answers · asked by quoia 2 in Singles & Dating

And What do you think of people who haven't?
Did you regret it later in life? Why or why not?

2007-02-01 08:16:18 · 34 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a serious issue. My grandmother'law lives with my family and I. Her own children are wortheless and the rest of her grandchildren are also worthless. She has recently broken her leg (and has a handfull of medical issues) and will be in rehab for a while, but I think she is losing her mind and will need to be put in a home soon. How can I express to him my concerns. There is no way we can continue to take care of. We both work full-time, go to school and have a daughter to raise. At the same time we are trying conceive another children. Our plate is full, not to mention we are only 26. And I would be the one with all the responsilbilities, since he works at night. Am I being selfish to consider she go to a nursing home, or what? I just know that I am not able to give her that type of attention and neither would he. Any advice? I'm looking for serious and honest advice. When I get her age I would like my children to care, but wouldn't want to burden them when they r so young HELP

2007-02-01 08:15:54 · 5 answers · asked by Proud Momma of 4mth old Boy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

but i was not looking for sympathy far from it i was merely pointing out that even if your older does,nt necessarilly mean that you are not looking at being older thinking does any body on this site give up ? i hope not

2007-02-01 08:14:51 · 9 answers · asked by Ken M 3 in Marriage & Divorce