this girl was my friend for a very long time and most of the girls hated her for stupid reasons. i was the only person that really understood her and wasn't mean to her. now she is hanging out with the very girls who hated her more than she is with me. she never invites me over to her house and when i ask if i can go over she says she is busy. then i hear her talking to the other girls wanting them to come over everyday! whats worse is one of the girls she hangs out with now has done this before and she has the rep. to switch friends on you and talk behind your back. i don't care if my friend has other friends than me but i don't want her to just drop me. this whole situation is getting very confusing and i don't know if i should try to repair our friendship
!please help!
also i think she might be hanging out with them for popularity
2007-02-01 08:18:57 · 8 answers · asked by fuzzy w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you have the exact same problem as me, in elemanetary i met this girl that nobody liked and i was popular and i brang her into my group and evrybody hated her and i was hte only one nice to ehr but then when we got to junior high, she met people that didnt know her yet and the people that hated her before were the people she started hanging out wiht and she completely ditched me..she wouldnt even have those friends if it wasnt for me...and she made them all hate me, i dont tknow what ot do though.Good Luck to the both of us.
2007-02-01 09:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by Janelle S. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I had this exact and I mean exact problem with my friend. Then I saw an episode of Scrubs where Dr. Cox tells Elliot to ignore this guy to get his attention. In the episode she ends up getting the guys attention. So I tried it out to see if it works on friends aswell. I started to ignore him and talk to other friends. The very guy who didnt talk to me then left me comments and went to lunch with me the next day. Hang out with some other friends you cant force people to like you. You just have to put yourself out there and hope they will. If they dont then screw them they are definantly not worth your time. You could be out there building other friendships while your straining yourself with this girl. Be yourself dont worry about anyone else. I know how your feeling (left out, pissed off, abandoned) it might take you time but you can and will get over her if she doesnt come around. Goodluck to you!
2007-02-01 08:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think in this sutiation its good 2 just let her go and try 2 make new friends so that u r not hurt over her not being friends with u. If she seems like she doesn't want 2 b ur friend anymore than just talk 2 her and c what she has in her mind then u can step forward and make ur descision but don't spend alot of time worrying about her she obviously made new friends and just forgot about her old ones. sorry,good luck.
2007-02-01 08:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, i've got faith for you. that's disgusting and costly to maintain a feral cat colony away that somebody else is feeding. issues i attempted: Calling animal contol (they did no longer have components on the time to handle cats *entire city) Hose (this only made them stay away quickly, in spite of the undeniable fact that relaxing before everything grew to become boring to sit down down vigil) Yelling and screaming (comparable effect as above) Coyote urine (very pungent and probably ineffective) Moth balls (very pungent and probably ineffective) electric powered fence (this labored superb) shifting away (this grew to become into my everlasting answer) they actually sucked. Urine and feces everywhere, ill cats, torn up rubbish, spray on my homestead, toys, autos, grill, each and every thing. The cats and raccoons looked as though it may stay in the comparable situations and the cops had to kill a rabid racoon out front and a neighbor mandatory rabies scientific care from a cat attack. Animal contol never helped and no costs have been ever delivered against the feeder. stable success!
2016-11-23 21:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your friend, tell her that her behavior towards you is bothering you. if she's indeed your friend then she will do her best to make the friendship work. ppl who do things to be popular, is a waste of time anyway, she will eventually realize who was her real friends when the time comes. so my best advice is to communicate, it goes a long way, plus if she doesn't change, she knows why the friendship ended.
2007-02-01 08:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U SAID IT. THE WHOLE THING IS A POPULARITY CONTEST. SHE WILL COME AROUND ONCE THEY SCREW HER OVER. JUST SIT BACK AND BE HER FRIEND FROM A DISTANCE, EVEN IF SHES NOT BEING SUCH A GOOD FRIEND TO YOU. WHEN SHE DOES COME BACK BECAUSE SHE WILL, JUST LET HER KNOW HOW SHE MADE YOU FEEL.
2007-02-01 08:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by MS. SWEET T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think is she worth it if you think it is worth mending the relationship then just confront her and ask her whats wrong etc if she doesnt talk pester a bit but if shes rude then she probably doesnt want to mend things up with you
2007-02-01 08:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by Swapnil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend will come to you. You get a new friend, besides her, and she'll come back if not tell her how u feel
2007-02-01 08:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by pritty princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋